I recently received a job offer from a new company that comes with a base salary increase of about 10% compared to my current salary. When factoring in the bonus, the total compensation could be 28-32% higher than what I currently make. They are also offering a $3,000 sign-on bonus, which is tempting. I've been with my current employer for a couple of years now, and I've really enjoyed the stability. I get yearly merit increases and an annual bonus of about 3-5% of my salary. The work-life balance is excellent, as I work fully remote with flexible hours. There are no rigid 9-5 requirements, and I don't have to worry about overtime. The company culture is great, and I love the people I work with. I have a four-month-old newborn, and I was fortunate to have 3.5 months of fully paid parental leave. The new company only offers one week of paid leave and six weeks of FMLA, which is a significant downgrade in terms of family support. While the new offer is enticing, especially with the ESOP and year-end bonus, I'm hesitant about the work-from-home policy. My current job allows me to be home with my baby, which I value immensely. If I switch to the new role, I would have a 1.5-hour commute each way, totaling three hours daily. This means I would get home around 6:30 PM, just in time for my baby’s bedtime at 8 PM. Financially, the new job would give me an extra $1,000 monthly, but I am torn about whether that is worth sacrificing precious time with my newborn. I worry about missing out on moments that I can never get back. Plus, I think about the future and how things might change if I have more kids. I’m really struggling to decide if I should take the new job for the higher pay or stay where I am for the time with my family. Any thoughts or advice would be greatly appreciated.