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I recently got laid off from my security job at a local company after it was bought out. I had been working in security for several years, including a role at a university where I hosted events. Before that, I was a car salesman and have experience in customer service from various jobs, including fast food and restaurants. Now, I'm considering a career change to become a server. I’m not sure if I can start as a server despite my experience in related fields. I'm hoping to find a position that offers 40 hours a week or more, as my current pay of $15 an hour isn't enough to make ends meet. Any advice or insights into transitioning into the serving industry would be greatly appreciated!

I'm feeling really frustrated with my job search right now. I've been applying to nearly every retail chain in my area, but I keep getting ghosted or rejected. I have 6-7 years of experience in this field, and I've even worked at some of these places before, so it's disheartening to see it being harder to land a job now compared to when I was a teenager with no experience. I reached out to HR at one store after a month of waiting since my recorded interview. The HR representative assured me that they were still hiring and would remind the hiring manager to check my application. However, today I received a rejection email, and when I checked online, the position is still open. I reapplied immediately, but I just don't understand what they are looking for. I'm more than qualified for the role, having done it for years. I'm considering calling HR again to ask why they continue to post the job but aren’t hiring anyone. I feel like I'm stuck in a loop, and I can't help but wonder if there's something I'm missing or if it's just a matter of luck. It's really disheartening, and I wish I could get some clarity.

I applied for several jobs last week through Indeed and LinkedIn, and I'm starting to feel a bit anxious about the wait. It's been a week since I submitted my applications, and while my job tracker indicates that my applications are still in progress or actively being reviewed, I haven't received any updates—no rejections or next steps. I'm wondering if it's common for recruiters to not notify applicants of rejections or if I just need to be patient. Is there a typical timeframe to expect feedback from employers?

I currently work as a W-2 contractor for a freight company, and I've been facing ongoing payroll issues with the small contracting company that hired me. The company is run by a small family—let's call the owner 'T', along with his daughter and possibly his wife. They are friends with the Senior Director of IT at my company, which is how I got this job. Every other month, it seems like there's a new problem with my paycheck. Just today, I noticed that my current paycheck is missing a week of pay. I've tried reaching out, but 'T' has been out of the office all week, so I probably won't hear back until next week. Two weeks ago, I experienced another issue where I didn't receive my paycheck on the scheduled payday, and I didn't even get a pay stub. When I followed up, 'T' responded after three hours, explaining that they sent my paycheck from their business bank account, which felt unusual. Additionally, about a month into my contract, 'T' demoted my role and cut my pay by 25% through a text message, which was quite shocking. There have been other minor issues related to hours and pay as well. With over 14 years in the workforce, including 8 years in tech and about 5 years contracting, I've never encountered anything like this before. I’m starting to wonder if any of this is even legal and how I should proceed. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

I recently left my position at an IT Helpdesk where I had been working for 2 and a half years, which was my first job after college. It was a tough decision, especially since I had formed great relationships with my coworkers. However, after several of them left for better-paying opportunities, I realized that my own salary was stagnating, and I needed to seek better compensation. I found a new job that offered significantly more money. When I informed my boss about my decision, he was not pleased and told me to go home the next day, offering to pay me out for the remainder of my two weeks. This abrupt ending hit me hard. I had invested so much time and effort into my old job, and being sent away without a proper farewell felt like a huge blow to my morale. Now that I've started my new job this week, things are going well, but I can't shake the feeling of missing my old workplace. Every time I encounter a different way of doing things, I feel a pang of nostalgia and a desire to return. I know this new role offers me the growth and salary I was lacking, but the emotional attachment to my past job is something I'm still grappling with. I'm hoping that with time, these feelings will fade.

I have a compliance assistant interview coming up in the UK, and I’m feeling quite nervous about it. As a recent law graduate, I want to make a good impression and showcase my knowledge effectively. I’m reaching out for any tips or recommendations that could help me prepare for the interview. I would really appreciate any advice from those who have experience in this field. Thank you!

I worked at a company for 4 and a half years, starting in an entry-level position. After two years, I was promoted to a management role, which was my first experience in management. Unfortunately, due to multiple layoffs, I was let go. Now that I'm searching for new opportunities, I've noticed that many leadership positions require 3 to 5 years of management experience, which I don't quite meet. I'm considering adjusting my resume to reflect my management role starting earlier in my tenure at the company. I'm wondering if potential employers typically fact-check the specific dates for each role or if they only verify the total length of employment. Has anyone else faced this situation and have any advice?

I was recently laid off from my role at a tech company due to a workforce reduction. I received my layoff notification and was informed that my employment would officially end in a month, along with a severance package to be provided on my termination date. During this transition period, I was reassigned to report to a proxy HR manager instead of my previous manager. However, my former manager has been assigning me new tasks and expects me to continue working as if nothing has changed. He even threatened to speak with HR about taking away my severance if I didn't keep up with the new work. This didn't sit right with me, so I reached out to Business HR for clarification. They confirmed that I should not be taking on new work during this transition, and they spoke to my former manager to address the situation. I've learned that this manager has a history of intimidating employees, and I don't want to just let this slide, especially since it seems to be a pattern of behavior. I'm considering escalating this to his manager or another higher-up because I feel it's important to address this issue, not just for myself but for others who might be affected by his tactics. I'm seeking advice on whether I should report this behavior or just let it go since I'm leaving the company soon. Has anyone else experienced something similar?

I've been struggling to find a job for what feels like forever, and it's really taken a toll on me. This is probably my fourth time reaching out about my situation, but the job search continues to be a nightmare. Initially, I needed to secure internships to graduate, and I was close to landing a position at FedEx when suddenly the vacancy vanished without any explanation. The stress of finding an internship consumed me, leading to sleepless nights where I could only manage an hour of rest. This spiraled into hallucinations and severe mood swings, making me irritable from the moment I woke up. Eventually, I did find a company for my internship, but they ended up giving me nothing to work on. I had to complete my thesis independently, using a project I had already done, and somehow graduated, hoping my degree would open doors to a graduate job. Unfortunately, even entry-level positions demanded prior experience. Now, I’m stuck in a blue-collar job. When I was called in, I thought I would be placed in a role related to my field, but instead, I was assigned to operate a machine without any training. The situation has worsened as I've been forced to work extra hours, and my supervisors claim I cause problems simply because I talk while working. I've spent up to 12 hours without eating, and they still say I'm not performing well. This whole job search has been a disaster, and I feel like it has completely changed who I am due to the overwhelming stress and frustration. I've hit a breaking point where I almost considered ending it all. I've only shared these feelings with ChatGPT because I've kept everything bottled up until now, but I really need to talk about this. I'm feeling incredibly stressed, experiencing hallucinations, and my life has become just work and home. Am I exaggerating my situation?

I was placed on a Performance Improvement Plan (PIP) about a month ago at my current job, and I genuinely felt like I had made significant improvements during this period. However, in a recent meeting two weeks ago, my manager's feedback contradicted my perception of progress. They mentioned that they don’t expect perfection, but something about that statement felt off to me. Last week, I experienced a panic attack, and my anxiety and depression have been worsened by this situation. It feels like no matter how much I improve, my efforts go unnoticed, and even the smallest mistakes are being highlighted. I’ve also noticed that my manager has been reviewing my work from several months ago—well before the PIP started—but didn’t address any issues back then. This has led me to question whether the company is trying to push me out or if I should just start looking for a new job.

I recently faced a frustrating rejection after applying for a position at a coffee chain located inside a hospital. I’m a 24-year-old female living in a major city, and I was referred for this job, which made me feel hopeful. I have prior experience with that specific chain, and the job posting clearly stated they were looking for candidates with open availability and relevant experience, which I have. Despite feeling fully qualified, I didn’t even get an interview, and they were hiring three people! I’m really tempted to reach out to the hiring manager to ask why I wasn’t considered, especially since I met all the qualifications. It’s disheartening to face so many rejections, and this was a position I felt confident about. My mental and financial situations are suffering because of these setbacks. I just want to find a stable job that pays more than minimum wage!

I'm a 25-year-old female working remotely as an analyst. Last month, I received a warning for my productivity, which was entirely my fault. I apologized and worked hard to improve, contributing significantly to my team's overall productivity. However, this month, management reviewed productivity data and decided to shift me to a different project due to my lower output compared to others, likely because of my inexperience. I'm unsure about the new workload and whether my salary will decrease. I feel like I've let my team down, despite my efforts to prove myself. It's been tough, and I'm feeling demotivated and anxious about my worth at work. I accepted the management's decision, but I'm struggling with feelings of worthlessness and uncertainty about my future.

I came across a project focused on the impact of AI on jobs and income, and it really resonated with me. I'm considering sharing my own experience, as I believe AI has significantly affected my role as a freelance graphic designer. Since the rise of AI tools, I've noticed a decline in client inquiries and projects, which I suspect is due to businesses opting for AI-generated designs over hiring human designers like myself. I'm intrigued by the opportunity to share my story on camera for a short documentary. The project aims to showcase real experiences of people affected by AI, and I think my situation could contribute to a broader understanding of this issue. I’m based in Southern California, so I might have a chance to participate in person. I appreciate that the initial conversation is casual and doesn’t commit me to anything right away. I’m hopeful that by sharing my story, I can help shed light on the challenges we face in adapting to these technological changes.

I came across a job opportunity with Lumora Industries, but I have a gut feeling that something might be off about the company. I'm looking for any information or experiences others might have had with them. Has anyone heard of Lumora Industries? I'm particularly concerned about the legitimacy of the position and whether it could be a scam.

I am 23 years old and recently graduated with a biology degree and a business minor in 2024. I started medical school at 20, but I realized that practicing clinical medicine isn't the right path for me. I also hold an associate's degree in business that I earned in high school. I am currently looking to pivot into the business or finance sector. I've been applying to various healthcare consultant and analyst positions, as well as jobs in finance and business operations. My long-term goal is to pursue an MBA from a top 14 school, but I need to secure a job first. Any recommendations on how to make this transition?

I’ve been on the job hunt lately and noticed something strange: there are no McDonald's hiring within 100 miles of me. It feels like a sign of the times when I remember a time when anyone could easily get a job there. Now, it seems like getting hired at a fast-food chain is a rare occurrence. I'm just looking for any job at this point, but it's disheartening to see such a staple of entry-level employment not hiring. It makes me wonder if people are moving away from fast food in favor of better options, or if McDonald’s has just lost its appeal. Either way, I’m feeling the frustration of this job search.

I recently graduated in May with a BA in history and a minor in global security, and I’m feeling lost about my career path. I had a part-time job at a tutoring company for 20 hours a week, but I left that in January after I thought I secured a meaningful position at a non-profit that supports foster kids. Unfortunately, that turned out to be a scam, and I missed the warning signs as a new graduate. Since then, I’ve been unemployed and struggling to find work. I've tried applying for retail jobs, but it feels like nothing is working out. I'm at a point where I don't even know what to look for anymore, especially with government jobs being out of reach and my degree not opening many doors. I'm reaching out for advice on how to break this cycle of dead-end jobs I’ve been stuck in since college. Any tips would be greatly appreciated.

I reached out to my recruiter, Beck, about a new role at the same agency where I'm currently interviewing for a different position. I'm in discussions for Role A, which is a two-month contract with low pay, but I just saw they posted Role B, which seems like a full-time opportunity and much more appealing. I'm unsure if Beck is also the recruiter for Role B or if it might complicate my chances with Role A if there's another recruiter involved. I'm really hoping to get clarity on this situation.

I've been on the job hunt for about two months now, applying to any positions I qualify for. Recently, I came across some promising opportunities that have me feeling hopeful. Just yesterday, I applied to a local clinic right before their job listing closed. To show my enthusiasm, I sent a follow-up email reiterating my interest and attached my cover letter and resume again. In addition to the clinic, I also applied to three other positions last week—one at a bank, another at a hotel, and the last at another clinic. I made sure to apply through Indeed and also directly on their websites if they had separate applications. I'm curious about the typical timeframe for callbacks. Do employers usually wait the full 30 days of the job listing to review all applications? I’ve heard mixed opinions on this. One commenter mentioned that they prefer to reach out quickly to avoid losing good candidates to other offers. It’s reassuring to know that some employers are proactive in their hiring process.

I can't believe what I just heard. I reached out to a friend for help with my job search, hoping he could network me into some opportunities since I'm struggling with that. We ended up catching up, and I asked him how his job at Starbucks was going. To my shock, he told me he’s had four different jobs since we last spoke! In this economy, I was stunned. He’s now making between $5,000 to $10,000 as a 19-year-old. Meanwhile, I'm still jobless and in the same field as him. I can't help but feel worthless and discouraged about my own job hunt. Does anyone else feel this way?