Got a Job

I’m excited to share that I’m starting a new job on Monday after more than a year of searching! This past year has been the toughest job search experience of my life, and I'm 51 years old. I left my job of over 21 years in September 2024 for long-term disability, and it wasn't until last year that I felt ready to re-enter the workforce. That gap on my resume was a major hurdle. For over a year, I applied to countless positions, tailored my resumes, went through interviews, and often got ghosted. I submitted hundreds of applications. At the start of this year, I briefly worked for a terrible company that paid poorly and laid me off after three months because I was overwhelmed. This new job feels different already. They provided a structured 90-day onboarding plan that can adapt based on my progress. The offer letter was clear about expectations, and I recently had a Teams meeting where I met the small team of about 13 people. They seem very close-knit, which is a bit intimidating, but I’m genuinely optimistic about fitting in. I used to roll my eyes at all the “Don’t Give Up” posts, but here I am writing one myself. If you’re in the midst of your job search, even when it feels hopeless, don’t lose faith. Things can change. My wife and I were down to our last two months of savings, so this journey has truly tested us. I know many can relate to that pressure. There wasn’t any magic formula, but I found that using ChatGPT to tailor my resumes made a huge difference. It learned my style and helped me customize my applications more efficiently. Just remember to proofread everything to ensure accuracy. I believe if companies are using AI to evaluate candidates, we should use it to present ourselves better, as long as it’s truthful. Once I started leveraging AI, my interview opportunities increased significantly, and interestingly, I don’t even need it for every application anymore because it has improved my writing skills. Thank you to this community for being a supportive space where I could vent and find useful tips. It reminded me that even in a tough job market, there’s still hope. If anyone has questions about my job search, resume strategies, or how I used AI, feel free to reach out. Sharing is caring! 🙂

I recently left my position at an IT Helpdesk where I had been working for 2 and a half years, which was my first job after college. It was a tough decision, especially since I had formed great relationships with my coworkers. However, after several of them left for better-paying opportunities, I realized that my own salary was stagnating, and I needed to seek better compensation. I found a new job that offered significantly more money. When I informed my boss about my decision, he was not pleased and told me to go home the next day, offering to pay me out for the remainder of my two weeks. This abrupt ending hit me hard. I had invested so much time and effort into my old job, and being sent away without a proper farewell felt like a huge blow to my morale. Now that I've started my new job this week, things are going well, but I can't shake the feeling of missing my old workplace. Every time I encounter a different way of doing things, I feel a pang of nostalgia and a desire to return. I know this new role offers me the growth and salary I was lacking, but the emotional attachment to my past job is something I'm still grappling with. I'm hoping that with time, these feelings will fade.

After 11 long months of searching, I finally landed a job! I lost my previous position in September 2025 and started my new role in August 2026. During my job search, I sent out over 600 applications, but only went on less than 20 interviews. Most of the time, I felt like I was just tossing my applications into a black hole, as I was ghosted by many employers. My situation was particularly challenging because I have a disability that limits me to jobs where I can sit down. One day, I decided to visit my friend Michal at a craft fair, and while I was there, I met another friend, Jen. During our conversation, I mentioned my struggles with finding work for nearly ten months. Jen then told me that her job was hiring for a work-from-home medical scheduling position and offered to pass my resume along to her supervisor. I was skeptical but sent it over. A week later, I received an email from a supervisor I had never met, saying that someone had recommended me and offered me the job without an interview! It felt surreal, and I initially thought it might be a scam. Thankfully, Jen confirmed it was legitimate. The process wasn't without its stressors, though. I had to go through a background check and employment verification, which made me anxious. For the drug test, I had to sneak in my mom's urine since I use medical marijuana for my disability. In the meantime, my neighbor was kind enough to bring me meals to ensure I was eating during this stressful time. This entire job search experience has been incredibly taxing on my mental health. I truly believe that without Jen's referral, I would still be searching for work. It's disheartening to see how broken the job market is; it shouldn't be this difficult to find employment. If you're struggling to find a job, please know that it's not your fault—many of us are facing the same challenges.

I recently transitioned into a new role after a challenging job search. After resigning from my position as a Pharmacy Technician, I found myself jobless for six months, which was a tough experience as I watched my savings dwindle and struggled to pay bills. However, I finally landed a job in 2026 as a Security Officer at an Aerospace Industry and Corporate hybrid site. I've been in this role for two months now, and while it pays $22.16/hr—only slightly more than my previous job—it's been a relief to be back on track. My duties vary from manning a guard shack on the perimeter to working in the office or patrolling the area. Thankfully, the work is generally low-stress, and I appreciate the change from my previous job, which had taken a toll on my mental health. After 12 years in various roles, including farming, warehouse work, and landscaping, this position feels like a hidden gem. I plan to stay in security long-term and eventually aim for a Federal position once I gain more experience and obtain my Armed License. The job market is tough right now, but I believe that persistence pays off. If I could give advice to my younger self, it would be to explore this field sooner to avoid the stress I endured in my past jobs.

I recently went through a rapid job application process for a role at a new startup. I applied on LinkedIn through a recruiter and received a call for an interview just two days later. The interview with the CEO went well, and I was offered the position the same day. However, after accepting the offer and submitting my background check forms, I've encountered some delays with my start date. Initially, I was hoping to start on July 27, but they pushed it back because my supervisor would be out. I thought I might start on August 3, but they just informed me that it might be delayed until August 10. I'm feeling a bit frustrated as this is my first job out of college, and I really want to get started and earn some money. I've checked the legitimacy of the company and the recruiter, so I don't think it's a scam, but I'm left wondering if such delays are normal in the hiring process.

After 148 days of searching, I finally secured a job offer! It has been quite the journey. I went through a grueling 8-round interview process for a Director position from April to June, only to face rejection. On top of that, I had three other final round rejections over the past 21 weeks, which made me feel like I was on the verge of giving up. However, about five weeks ago, I started to gain some momentum. After a series of intense back-to-back panel interviews, I was left waiting for a response. To my surprise, not only did they extend an offer, but I performed so well that they offered me a higher role than I initially applied for. I just accepted an executive-level position and can finally sleep peacefully tonight. For anyone out there facing similar struggles, remember that rejection does not define you; instead, let it refine you. Wishing everyone the best of luck in their job searches!

I recently went through a tough period after being laid off from my role as a director at my previous company, where I worked for 1.5 years before the entire division was shut down. My last job ended after I raised concerns about being bullied by a VP regarding confidential information from my past employer. I have evidence of this in emails, and I'm currently in arbitration with them after refusing a low severance package and deciding to sue. After 8 months of unemployment, I managed to secure two job offers. One was a work-from-home position, but it came with significantly lower pay. The other job required a long commute but offered a much better salary, so I chose the latter. Now, I'm on day three of this new role, but I’m struggling with my confidence and adjusting back to a regular work routine. I can't shake the fear that I might not succeed in this position either. I'm looking for advice on how to overcome these fears and regain my confidence.

I received my first job offer in May 2026 after graduating with my bachelor's in Information Sciences. However, I'm feeling conflicted about the offer because the salary is only $45k a year, which doesn't meet my expectations. I understand that this might be a reasonable starting point for someone in my position, but I'm worried about settling too soon. Some advice I've received suggests that I should take the job and keep looking for better opportunities while I work there. I'm considering this option, but I want to make sure I'm making the right decision for my career.

I recently started a job at a local restaurant chain after leaving a toxic retail position, but my excitement quickly turned into frustration. The onboarding process was chaotic; I had issues with my paperwork that led the manager to think I ghosted them, despite us having scheduled an orientation. Once I finally started, I was thrown into a hectic environment with broken AC and constant station changes, which made it hard to keep up with orders. During my first few weeks, I completed my Food Handler's Permit, but the training and practices at the restaurant were alarming. I witnessed a manager instructing me to reuse uncooked chicken on a salad that had already been sent back, which is a clear case of cross-contamination. To make matters worse, none of the produce was washed before prep, and I even spotted a roach in the kitchen, which was a major red flag for me. My schedule has also been inconsistent; after a couple of weeks of decent hours, I was suddenly scheduled for only one day in my fifth week. The supervisor even suggested I take on more hours at a different location that I can't reach due to transportation issues, which felt completely unreasonable. To top it off, I found out they were asking other potential employees for jobs despite claiming they didn’t have enough hours to offer me. It's been a frustrating experience, and I’m seriously considering my options moving forward.

I’m feeling a bit lost today and could use some perspective. I got laid off in April and found a part-time role in May, which I genuinely enjoy. I give my all to my job despite struggling with insomnia, but today’s news really hit hard. I recently informed my boss about my upcoming wedding and honeymoon in September, and he encouraged me to take time off. However, when I tried to apply for vacation, I encountered an error message. After reaching out to HR, I learned that as a part-time employee, I’m not eligible for vacation benefits, even though my offer letter states that I should accumulate vacation time. This has left me feeling undervalued and frustrated, especially since I’m underpaid and struggling to make ends meet. I know I should be grateful to have a job in this market, but with my experience in pharmacy audit, clinical pharmacy, and data analysis, it’s disheartening to only find part-time work. Am I being ungrateful or just reacting to the situation? I’m really questioning if this job is worth it.

I received my first job offer in May 2026 after graduating from college as an undergrad. While I'm excited about the opportunity, I'm feeling a bit conflicted about whether to accept it or continue exploring other options. It's a big decision for me, and I'm weighing the pros and cons carefully.

I currently work as a contractor for a construction company, focusing on business analytics and administrative tasks. I landed this 1099 role through a connection within the company and have been enjoying it for a few months. Recently, the company offered me a full-time salaried W-2 position working for their VP of renovations. This role sounds decent, with a good salary and the responsibility of overseeing over $1 million in jobs each month. However, it requires me to relocate immediately. At the same time, I interviewed for an accounts receivable position at a defense company. I wasn’t sure how that would pan out, but I wanted to see it through. To buy myself some time, I reached out to my potential new boss and explained that I needed a bit more time to arrange my relocation. He agreed to let me continue my contract role while starting remotely, which bought me about three weeks. Now, I’ve been working remotely for almost a week, and while I enjoy the work, I know my new boss wants me in person to oversee job sites and improve communication. HR is also pushing me to sign the employment form and get introduced to the team. Today, I received an email from the defense company inviting me to schedule a final round interview. This is great news, but I know that even after the interview, it might take another two weeks to hear back, and I could end up being rejected. I’m feeling stuck between accepting the job offer from the construction company and waiting for the defense company opportunity. I don’t want to sign and leave immediately since a close connection helped me get this offer, and I don’t want to make them look bad. Both jobs offer the same salary and likely comparable benefits, and they both require relocating to the same city, which eases some of the stress. While the construction job is good, it doesn’t advance my career or enhance my resume. The defense company position, however, would be a significant step forward for my career, but I don’t have an offer yet. I’m not sure what advice I’m looking for, honestly. I might just need to vent because my mind has been racing all week. I spent nearly a year searching for work before landing this contractor role, and the thought of submitting hundreds of applications again is daunting. I value honesty and dislike putting people in difficult situations, so I’m unsure how to navigate this. Luckily, since both jobs are in the same city, the relocation stress is somewhat manageable.

I recently interviewed for a staff UX design position at a well-funded startup on the East Coast, where my former coworker would be my hiring manager. They offered me a salary of $230k base plus some equity, which could amount to around $130k over four years if the company goes public. However, they don't provide a 401k match. I asked for a base salary increase to $240k, as my would-be manager mentioned that was the cap for the salary band. Unfortunately, they said they couldn't increase the salary but could offer a slight increase in equity. To be honest, I'm not very excited about the company itself, but I do feel comfortable with the job and appreciate the chill startup environment. Plus, working with my old coworker is a big plus. I was laid off recently and am about to go on maternity leave, so I would start the new role in early February. Fortunately, I have enough severance to last a year, and I've had recruiters reach out, but I've told them I'm on leave and would prefer to start interviewing once I'm back. Given that the product doesn't excite me much, I'm wondering if I should just accept the offer for the sake of having a job after having a baby, or if I should hold out for something better. Am I being unreasonable in my thinking?

I recently went through a strange experience while job hunting. Last week, I applied for a position and was contacted by a recruitment agency. I successfully passed their interview and even had a meeting with the employer, where I was selected for the role. I was initially set to start on Monday, but then I received a message on Friday evening that my start date was pushed back by a day. Just yesterday, I was informed that the position had been eliminated altogether. This morning, while searching for new opportunities, I noticed that a different hiring agency has the same job listed again. I decided to apply, but now I'm feeling anxious about whether this will reflect poorly on me. I mean, I was chosen for the job, but the hiring situation changed abruptly. I'm left wondering if I could have been the reason for the change or if it was more about issues between the employer and the original recruitment agency. I really hope that applying again won’t come off as unprofessional.

I started my job at McDonald's just two days ago and I'm already considering quitting. During the interview, they skipped the actual interview part and jumped straight into onboarding, which should have been a red flag. My first day was mostly okay while I was training at window 2, but things took a turn when I moved to window 1 for the last six hours of my shift. I felt completely overwhelmed with the evening rush and had no idea what I was doing. My trainer expected me to handle it alone, but I was struggling to keep up and customers were getting frustrated with me. I couldn't hear anything over the headset, and I wasn't taught how to navigate the order screen before being thrown into the deep end. Now, my trainer wants me to work the rush hour alone again tonight, and I just don't feel ready for that at all. I'm not trying to be dramatic, but this job is causing me so much stress that I couldn't sleep last night and woke up with a headache. Given that I've just come out of a tough situation at home, I really can't handle this pressure. I know first days can be rough, but this feels unbearable. Should I tough it out for a few more shifts or is it okay to quit now?

I had two job interviews last week with a company, starting with a phone screening with HR and then an in-person interview with the training lead. On Monday morning, I received a voicemail from HR stating they had a formal job offer for me. I quickly called back within an hour and left a voicemail, but I was so anxious that I called again later that day, convinced I hadn’t left the message properly. Unfortunately, they didn’t return my call on Monday afternoon or the next day, which has left me feeling stressed. I’m eager to finalize this offer so I can start looking for an apartment and get out of hotels. I’m wondering how long I should wait before reaching out again. I’ve received some advice to call the main line and check if I have the right contact number, or to send a gentle reminder email by Friday morning if I don’t hear back. I’m considering calling multiple times a day to ensure I connect with someone.

I just received an offer after being laid off at the end of February! I spent ten years at my previous company, earning three promotions, and the layoff really caught me off guard. The past five months have been incredibly challenging, filled with rejection, countless interviews, and jobs that were either canceled or given to internal candidates. Today, however, I got the news that I have an offer, and I can hardly believe it! Not only is it a new role, but it also comes with a salary increase and benefits that start on day one. The team seems fantastic, which is a huge relief. To give you some context, my background is primarily in client services at agencies, but I was applying for project manager, engagement, and account roles that weren't sales-focused. I found this new opportunity on LinkedIn, and the company is outside of the agency world, offering a hybrid and flexible work environment. If you're in a similar situation, I want to encourage you to keep pushing through! It can feel overwhelming, but it does get better. Stay strong!

I accepted a verbal job offer for a position after completing an onsite interview and passing a series of tests. This was about 15 days ago. On the same day, I submitted my drug test and background check. A week later, HR contacted me to let me know I needed to fill out some additional documents, which I promptly sent back. They assured me everything was good and that I would hear from them soon. However, it has now been 8 days since I last reached out for an update, and I haven't received any response. I'm starting to wonder if I'm overreacting or if I've been ghosted. I just want to know what's going on.

I recently accepted a new job offer as a branch manager at a staffing company, which comes with a salary increase of over $20,000 a year. I've been with my current company for six years, and honestly, it's been a frustrating experience. The company culture is toxic, and I've had my fill of the manipulative behavior from my boss. I don't want to disclose where I'm going because of various concerns, and I'm seriously considering not giving a two-week notice. I reached out to the former CFO for a reference, and he encouraged me to leave whenever I find a better opportunity. I'm torn about whether I should just send a simple termination email or if I should give some notice. Has anyone else faced this dilemma? Did you regret not giving a two-week notice?

I recently started working at an independent pharmacy as a marketing assistant, making $19/hr. Initially, I was excited about the role because my boss hired me for a marketing project, leveraging my background in computer engineering. However, things have taken a turn. My boss keeps changing my responsibilities, which is becoming frustrating. At first, I thought I would be focusing on marketing strategies, emails, and calls. Instead, he started asking me to learn the pharmacy operations and answer phones. Once I got comfortable with that, he shifted gears again and wanted me to focus solely on marketing. Now, he expects me to drive around to clinics, hand out flyers, and network in person, which I never agreed to do. I've expressed my concerns multiple times, stating that I prefer working behind a computer and don't feel comfortable with in-person marketing. Despite this, he keeps assigning me tasks that go against my preferences. Just today, as my shift ended, he piled on additional tasks that required me to work past my scheduled time. I even had to fabricate a doctor's appointment just to leave. While he seems like a nice guy and genuinely believes in my potential, I feel like he doesn't respect my boundaries. I've heard from other employees that they have quit because of similar issues, which makes me question the work environment. With college starting in less than a month and no other job lined up, I'm at a crossroads. I plan to tell him that I'm willing to continue with the tasks I originally agreed to but won't do the in-person marketing. I wonder if I'm being unreasonable or if this is a clear sign that he doesn't respect my boundaries.