I recently went through a series of interviews for a position at a well-known clothing chain. I felt confident after three interviews, especially since the last one seemed like a mere formality with someone from outside the department. During that final interview, the interviewer asked me about my commute and why I prefer to work within 20 minutes from home. He also inquired if I had kids, to which I responded that I had three. I thought it was a casual conversation, so I turned the question back to him, asking about his commute and family. We exchanged smiles and handshakes, and I left feeling positive. However, I received a call from the recruiter shortly after. She was frantic, saying that they had decided to pass on my application. When I asked why, she revealed that the interviewer claimed I had gotten too personal during our conversation. I was taken aback—he initiated the personal topics! It was the first time I felt genuinely angry about an interview experience. This taught me a valuable lesson: always keep it professional, even when the other party doesn’t seem to. I can't help but wonder if my status as a parent influenced their decision. It’s frustrating, but I guess I dodged a bullet.