I received an email from an HR representative at a startup where I've been interviewing for the past two months. I've gone through three interviews, including a panel interview, and during my last conversation, I received a verbal offer indicating that the next step was for HR to provide a formal offer. However, that was two weeks ago, and I've been following up weekly for updates. Today, HR informed me that they are having a meeting on Thursday to discuss my interviews and that there has been some back and forth regarding the role's scope. I'm feeling uncertain about my status, especially since I want to clarify whether I still have the verbal offer and what their plans are for the role. I want to ask for more details without coming off as impatient or irritated. They mentioned that I would receive an update by the end of the week, but I can't help but wonder if that means the role is no longer available or if they are considering a more lucrative offer with additional responsibilities for me. I'm seeking advice on how to approach this conversation.