I just received a job offer and I'm feeling really nervous about it. I’m a 28-year-old property manager in Texas and have been with my current company since I was 18, managing properties for the last 6 years. I only started looking for new opportunities a few weeks ago, and several companies have shown interest in me. However, I've been overlooked for promotions too many times, with excuses about 'timing' and being told that my loyalty after 11 years is holding me back. I recently came off maternity leave in May, and I worked through most of it without even using all my PTO during my 12 weeks off, which felt ridiculous. Here's a breakdown of my current job versus the new offer: **Current Position:** - Company: Third Party Management - Salary: $82,000/year base + bonuses - Insurance: $980/month for me and my two kids - Commute: 124 miles/day (1.25 to 2 hours each way) - Responsibilities: Managing a 375-unit lease-up community, training and backing up the regional manager for 6-8 properties at any time. I often feel stressed and underappreciated in this role. **New Offer:** - Company: Owner Managed - Salary: $75,000 base + bonuses - Insurance: $540/month for me and my two kids - Commute: 80 miles (45 minutes to 1 hour each way) - Responsibilities: Managing a 199-unit lease-up community. Additionally, there's a large company interested in me that wants to connect me with their recruiter for future roles that might suit me better. I even turned down one offer because the commute was worse than my current situation. I would really appreciate any opinions or advice since I've never had to navigate this kind of decision before. Thanks in advance!