It's been almost a year since I was laid off, and I’m feeling really depleted. I lost my job 10 months ago after nearly 9 years as a senior director, managing a large team. I was well-liked and respected, and I thought I had reached a comfortable financial level. I wasn’t shocked when I got laid off; it was the fifth reduction in force in four years, and I had been passively looking for a year before it happened. I expected my job search to take some time, but I never imagined it would stretch to nearly a year. I’ve been actively applying and optimizing my resume for each application, targeting roles similar to my last position as well as a few levels down. My application-to-conversion rate is decent at about 10%, but despite making it to the final round in eight interview cycles, I haven’t received any offers. Right now, I’m waiting to hear back about advancing to a final round for a role I really want and believe I could excel in, but my self-esteem is completely shot. I’ve started avoiding conversations about my interviews because I’m exhausted from the cycle of excitement, preparation, and then rejection. I used to feel okay about my situation, but that’s changing. I’m fortunate to have about six months of emergency savings left, but the pressure is building. Each rejection makes it harder to keep applying. I’ve met with a few executive coaches to see if I can improve my interview performance, but their fees are high, and I’m just hoping something clicks soon. I’m not sure if I’m looking for advice or just some commiseration. If anyone has insights on coaching or tips on maintaining confidence during this tough time, I would really appreciate it.
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