I’m currently navigating a tough situation at work. I have a feeling that my manager and some of my superiors don’t like me, which makes me anxious about my job search. I’m looking for ways to find a new job without alerting my current employer. I’ve been considering using friends and family as references instead, as I believe they would provide a more positive perspective on my abilities. I want to be upfront with potential employers about my situation, letting them know that I prefer to keep my job search discreet for now. Any advice on how to approach this would be greatly appreciated.