I'm currently working as a caregiver for the autistic young adult child of some close family friends. I've been in this role for over 5 years, but I'm feeling the need to find a new job because I'm only needed part-time. This situation means I don't receive any benefits, and the 45-minute commute feels increasingly burdensome for such limited hours. I'm conflicted about how to approach my employers about my job search. They've been incredibly supportive, even covering a ticket I got driving home one night, which makes me feel obligated to give them a heads-up. I want to express my gratitude while also being honest about my need for a job that offers better hours and benefits. I'm considering asking them for references, but I'm worried because they've been hesitant to provide references for aides who haven't been with them as long. I just want to navigate this situation respectfully and thoughtfully, but I'm unsure how to start the conversation. Any advice on how to approach this would be greatly appreciated.