I recently had an interview that left me feeling uneasy due to several pink flags and one glaring red flag. This was the final interview after three others with different team members, and for the first time in the process, I felt uncomfortable about the role. I had been on vacation and had a packed schedule, so I decided to skip sending a thank you note for this last interview, even though I had sent one for the previous interviews. Now, three days later, I finally have some time, but I’m unsure if sending a late thank you would be more detrimental than not sending one at all. I’m considering writing a thank you email that also includes some clarifying questions about the vague aspects of the interview. I worry about how it might look to the hiring committee if everyone else received a thank you except for the big boss. Thank you notes are fairly standard in my industry, so it could come off as a snub. The whole hiring process has been quite strange. The final interview was only 45 minutes long, and I felt that wasn’t enough time to gauge if we could work well together. I had previously met with each team member for 30 minutes, and then had this last interview with the prospective boss. The interviewer was late and even asked for five minutes to finish something before we started. There were also several miscommunications during the interview, and it seemed there was confusion about the role I was applying for. Having been on the hiring side myself many times, I found it surprising how unprepared the interviewer seemed. I’m also facing potential restructuring in my current job, which adds to my uncertainty. While I have reservations about this new role, I want to keep my options open in this challenging job market.