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Comfortable-Plan8237's journey

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    Feeling Got a Job Planning

    I recently found myself in a confusing situation at work. I was placed on a performance improvement plan (PIP) without my knowledge back in April due to tardiness issues. Initially, I was told that for 30 days, I just needed to inform my manager if I was running late. After those 30 days, my manager informed me that I was all set, and the corrective action notice was removed from my employee account, which led me to believe the PIP was over. However, when raises and bonuses were announced a month later, I was shocked to learn that I was disqualified due to the PIP, despite being told I was one of the higher performers in the state. I had a performance meeting today where my manager mentioned that she would take me off the PIP in August, which left me taken aback. I reminded her of our earlier conversation in May where she said I was done with the PIP, but she insisted it had been extended and that I needed to work on resolving issues at work. To add to the stress, I've been dealing with workplace bullying and have been sent home a few times due to panic attacks. My manager suggested I manage my stressors better, which felt dismissive. I'm feeling really confused and frustrated right now. Fortunately, I do have a new job offer on the table, and I was planning to give my notice soon, but honestly, I'm just ready to move on from this situation.

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    Feeling Got a Job Planning Thinking

    I received a job offer this Wednesday that doubles my current salary, which is incredibly exciting! However, they want me to start as soon as Monday, which gives me virtually no time to notify my current employer. I got all the HR paperwork today, including the W9 and benefits information, but I haven't signed anything yet. I reached out to HR this afternoon to request a later start date, ideally about two weeks from now, but I'm worried this might cause some issues. I've been feeling pretty disrespected in my current role, and I've dealt with some bullying from staff, so I'm eager for a change. The new position promises a much more supportive environment aligned with my career goals. Luckily, I have other supervisors who can provide references, so I won't need to rely on my current manager. I know it's generally considered professional to give notice, and I do prefer to leave on good terms, but I'm feeling anxious about the whole situation. Logically, it seems silly to feel guilty about wanting to move on, especially for such a significant opportunity. I'm just trying to figure out if it's acceptable to push back on the immediate start date and how bad it would be to give less than two weeks' notice.

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    Feeling Planning Thinking

    I interviewed for a position last Wednesday and felt really positive about it. At the end of the interview, they told me I was a good fit and asked me to send over my preferred start date so they could prepare an offer letter by Friday. They even discussed the training process and how to negotiate salary with HR, which made me feel confident about moving forward. However, Friday came and went without any offer letter. I decided to send a follow-up email thanking them for the interview and letting them know I was available if they needed anything else. By Monday, still no offer. Thankfully, I hadn’t put in my two weeks at my current job yet. I sent another follow-up on Wednesday, but I still haven’t received a response. Now it’s Thursday, and it’s been over a week since the interview. I’m starting to wonder if I should consider this a ghosting situation or if I should reach out one more time. I’ve heard mixed opinions on how common this is during the interview process, and I’m feeling a bit uncertain about what to do next.

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