I graduated with my MChem in 2022, but the journey has been incredibly tough. I started university in 2020, just before the lockdowns hit, which completely derailed my first year. I transferred to a local university in the south for my second year, but it felt like everyone already had their friend groups, and I struggled to connect with anyone despite being present on campus. I excelled academically, winning awards and securing a summer internship, but socially, I felt isolated. Year 3 was even harder; I faced personal challenges due to a significant bereavement and barely managed to keep up with my studies. By the time I reached my fourth year, the master's program was grueling, and many students dropped out. I pushed through, but making friends was not a priority amidst the overwhelming workload. After graduating, I landed a job in Quality Control at a big pharmaceutical company, but I quickly realized it wasn't the right fit for me. I left after eight months, and then tried another job that required a three-hour commute, which was unsustainable. I quit that position in January and have been struggling to find my footing ever since. I've been applying for jobs and volunteering opportunities, but I keep facing rejections, even for entry-level positions. I feel like I'm doing everything right—personalizing cover letters, keeping my CV updated—but nothing seems to work. On top of that, I have no friends, which I deeply regret. I wish I had made more of an effort during university to connect with others. Now, I'm feeling lost, jobless, and purposeless, which is affecting my relationship as well. My partner has a successful career and social life, and I often feel resentful, even though I know it's not their fault. I just don't know how to make friends anymore or how to find a fulfilling job or career. It's been a challenging few years, and I really hope to hear from others who have been in a similar situation and found their way back. I could use some encouragement right now.
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