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ExplanationDazzling1's journey

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    Feeling Miscellaneous Planning Thinking

    I recently had my fourth interview this month, and I can't shake the feeling that I might have a personality disorder when it comes to interviews. No matter how much I rehearse my answers, I get extremely nervous and end up talking too fast. It's frustrating because I feel like I present a completely different version of myself during these interviews. After the video call, I often reflect and see myself as a scared little girl, even though I'm 30 years old. I really want to improve my self-awareness and confidence. I know I answered all the questions thoroughly and even asked some insightful ones at the end. The interviewer even mentioned looking forward to speaking with me again, which gives me some hope. However, I can't help but worry that my nerves will cost me the second interview. I'm seeking advice on how to manage this anxiety and whether anyone else has experienced something similar. Any tips on controlling nerves during interviews would be greatly appreciated!

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    Applied to a Job Feeling Miscellaneous Planning Thinking

    I've been really struggling in the job market as an engineer. This month, I applied to three positions and managed to land interviews for all of them, but unfortunately, I faced rejection each time. I even took a day off from my job at the post office to attend one of the interviews. During one interview, the interviewer was so impressed that they thought I was using AI to answer questions. I was taken aback by that but assured them I wasn't. They mentioned moving me to the next round with the regional sales manager, but then I was ghosted completely. I checked my application status and saw I was not selected, and despite reaching out for an update, I didn't get any response. It hit me hard, and I shed a few tears over it. But reflecting on it, I realized that getting three interviews in such a short time is a sign that I'm on the right track. I just need to keep refining my approach and applying more. The job market feels like a numbers game, and I'm determined to keep pushing forward. Tomorrow, I plan to use tools like Claude to help tailor my applications and apply to even more jobs. Additionally, I applied for a pre-apprenticeship program specifically for women, which is unpaid but offers valuable trade skills. I tested into the program and received an email for a physical assessment, which I'm grateful the post office allowed me to take another day off for. This program could significantly improve my chances of getting a job with the Illinois Department of Labor. I refuse to go back to school and take on more loans after my experience with my mechanical engineering degree. Instead, I'm pursuing this trade route, which only takes three months and offers certifications like OSHA 10 and First Aid/CPR. This is my Plan B if I can't find a job soon.

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    Planning Thinking

    I was previously working as a Mechanical Engineer but have transitioned to a role as a City Carrier Assistant. After being out of the engineering field for about 7 years and having minimal experience, I'm seeking advice on how to get back on track in my engineering career. A few suggestions I've received include considering grad school to enhance my qualifications. I'm looking for a program where I can complete my master's degree in about a year and at a reasonable cost, without focusing too much on the prestige of the school, as long as it's a legitimate institution. I'm eager to hear any other tips or insights on making this transition successfully.

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