Frisho's journey

I’ve learned some tough lessons during my job search that I wish I had known earlier. One key takeaway is to not take any job too seriously. I used to pour my heart and soul into every position, but I realized that it’s important to maintain a balance between contributing to the company and taking care of my mental health. This mindset has helped me avoid the frustration of frequently changing jobs. Another lesson is to never leave a job without having something lined up. I made that mistake once, and it led to unnecessary stress. Additionally, I’ve learned to always leave on good terms, no matter the circumstances. It’s crucial for maintaining professional relationships. I also discovered that if a company is repeatedly advertising for the same position, it might indicate high turnover or internal issues. It's a red flag that I wish I had paid more attention to in the past. When asked about why I left my previous employer, I learned that HR isn't really interested in the details. They just want to see if I can handle the question with discretion. My blunt honesty about a toxic work environment didn’t help my case, and I realized I should have approached it differently. Another hard lesson was getting too attached to a job I was interviewing for. After investing so much time in research and interviews, it was disheartening to be rejected after the final round. Now, I make sure to keep applying to other jobs, no matter how promising the current opportunity seems. Lastly, I’ve come to terms with the fact that the job market is quite challenging right now. I also learned not to jump at the first job offer, even after a long search. I accepted a position that didn’t meet my salary expectations, which taught me the importance of knowing my worth and being patient. Networking is another area where I’ve seen younger professionals struggle. The pandemic has shifted many interactions online, and I believe it’s essential to cultivate genuine business relationships. As someone who hires and manages onboarding, I can tell you that knowing someone often trumps a resume. These experiences have shaped my approach to job hunting, and I hope sharing them can help others avoid similar pitfalls.