I recently handed in my notice at my job as a temp in a recruitment role, and the experience has been quite tumultuous. Since October, 11 of us have left due to mismanagement and a toxic workplace culture. I raised concerns about the environment multiple times, which led to informal meetings with my managers, but things never improved. During my final week, I faced a family emergency that took precedence over work. While I was in the hospital with my relative, I tried to discuss completing my duties before my last day. However, my manager insinuated that because of my absence, she would have to be 'honest' in my reference, implying it would not be favorable due to the changes in our relationship. This felt deeply personal and irrelevant, especially given the circumstances I was dealing with. I had initially joined this role post-MA graduation, hoping for valuable experience, but the environment quickly became unbearable. I had to request mediation after a manager accused me of being homophobic for simply asking them to step away due to my immunocompromised status. After that, I tried to communicate my responsibilities as a carer, but my requests for reasonable adjustments were ignored. Despite raising concerns about the workplace culture, my manager often dismissed my feelings, which only added to my discomfort. After challenging a clinical decision made by another manager, I was accused of being aggressive, which was frustrating since I was merely advocating for proper procedures. I decided to hand in my notice after declining a permanent contract offer, feeling it was the best option given the situation. I have been actively looking for new roles and had one interview where I listed my line manager as a reference, but I didn't get the job. Now, with my family situation, I’m worried about how my manager's comments will affect my future references. I'm trying to figure out how to navigate this situation and secure a fair reference that reflects my work without personal biases.
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