Nebulous_ninny's journey

I've been on the job hunt for over two years now, armed with both my master's and undergrad degrees from reputable universities. Unfortunately, the tight job market and a bit of bad luck have made it really challenging for me to advance in my field of policy. Back in July, I applied for a position that I was genuinely excited about, especially since I received a strong referral from a well-respected professional in the industry. I thought this could be my breakthrough moment, where networking truly pays off. To show my enthusiasm, I reached out to senior industry contacts for advice on how to proceed, connected with people from that office on LinkedIn, and sent a couple of emails. After two months of silence, I decided to call the office to follow up. The receptionist suggested I email her my resume and the position details, but she hinted that they might not be hiring for it anymore. When I didn’t hear back after two days, I called again to ensure my email didn’t end up in the spam folder. This time, a different person answered and kindly offered to follow up on my behalf. However, after another two days without a response, I called once more to check in. This time, I was met with a rather curt response from the receptionist, who pointed out that I had called several times about the job and reminded me that the job description explicitly stated no calls. I felt embarrassed and apologized for bothering them. Now, I'm left anxious that my persistence might have backfired and cost me a chance at the role, despite having a recommendation. I’m struggling to find the balance between showing genuine interest and coming off as overly persistent. How do I navigate this fine line in such a competitive job market?