rottenpumpkinn's journey

I’m currently facing a frustrating situation at my job where I need to leave early for personal reasons, but my manager and supervisors constantly press for details, making me feel uncomfortable. They seem to think that I’m lying about my reasons for leaving, and even when I insist that it’s personal, they demand specifics before allowing me to go. Despite my requests for discretion, it seems like everyone finds out my business by the next day. The environment is very nosy, and I feel pressured to share more than I’m comfortable with. If I don’t provide a valid reason or a doctor’s note, I risk being written up. This has become a significant issue, especially since our HR person was demoted, and now the manager is handling all HR matters. The corporate HR team backs them up, which makes it even harder to address my concerns. I’ve been trying to find another job, but it hasn’t been successful so far, so I’m stuck in this situation for now. It’s particularly frustrating because I’ve noticed that the manager allows their favorites to leave without questioning them, while others, like myself, are interrogated. I’ve even had to reschedule important appointments just to avoid conflict, but sometimes I still need to leave early, and they make a big deal out of it if I don’t disclose every detail. I’m looking for advice on how to navigate this situation without compromising my privacy.