tkdeng's journey

I recently faced a challenge during job interviews where I struggled with vague questions. As someone who identifies as autistic, I find it difficult to respond to generic prompts without giving equally generic answers. For instance, when asked how I would solve a problem, my instinct is to say, "by solving it," which doesn't really provide the interviewer with the insight they need. In another instance, when asked how I would handle a difficult situation with a coworker, my mind goes blank, and I end up saying, "I would handle it," without any specifics. I realize they are looking for examples from my past, but I often freeze up and can't recall a situation that fits the question. Currently, I work with a team lead who seems to have it out for me, but I just focus on completing my tasks despite the negative atmosphere. I don't typically react emotionally to these situations, which might be why I struggle to articulate my experiences in interviews. I'm trying to find ways to give more concrete answers without sounding vague. I've received advice to ask for clarification when questions are too broad, and I’ve started creating a list of common interview questions with bullet-point answers to help me prepare. However, my anxiety often makes it hard to remember these points during the actual interview. I’m looking for strategies to improve my responses to vague interview questions while managing my anxiety.

I recently applied for a position at Publix and had to take their personality test, which I found to be incredibly frustrating and inaccurate. The questions were so vague that I felt like my interpretation was completely different from what the employer intended. For instance, I was faced with choices that forced me to pick between being labeled a 'quitter' or a 'slacker,' which seemed unreasonable. As someone with high-functioning autism, I struggled to understand what they were really asking, and it felt like the test was designed to filter out people like me with trick questions. I often had to resort to using AI just to help me navigate the confusing wording of the questions. What really struck me was how toxic the workplace seemed based on the nature of the questions. They seemed to assume that anyone who is self-motivated must also have a bad temper, which is a huge double standard. I left the test feeling uncertain about whether I even wanted to work there anymore, as the whole process felt like an invasion of my character rather than a fair assessment of my skills.