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I've been out of work for two years after losing my job, and I'm starting to wonder if it's even worth looking for a new position anymore. With the recent news about job losses this month, the situation feels really bleak. I stopped applying a few months back because it was just too discouraging, and I've been focusing on hobbies to distract myself. I feel guilty for not having a job, but despite my efforts, I haven't been able to find anything, and even referrals haven't helped.

Today, I experienced a shocking downsizing at my company. Our team was reduced to a skeleton crew overnight without any warning or discussion. Three of our best teammates were suddenly reassigned to a different team, leaving us with just four members. Now, we’re relying on one backend developer to manage everything, and it feels like we’re barely holding it together. The management mentioned a budget issue, but they haven’t provided any explanation or guidance on what’s next for us. The uncertainty is draining, and it’s tough to stay motivated when I’m constantly worried about being the next one affected. I’m curious if anyone else has faced a similar situation and how they managed to cope mentally.

I received an email from my company on Monday announcing a "voluntary severance program" due to cost-cutting measures, despite the fact that we've seen growth for the last three quarters. It feels like since we went public this year, the focus has shifted entirely to appeasing shareholders. Over the past year, management has been integrating AI into our processes, claiming it was just to assist us. However, I recently discovered that we were actually training a new AI chatbot that is now deemed "highly capable" of handling most customer interactions. This revelation came after my manager inadvertently revealed more than she intended, and it was clear that our jobs were not as secure as they had led us to believe. Now, I have until the 20th to decide whether to take the severance package or wait it out, risking a layoff by the end of October if not enough people volunteer. The severance would be nearly double what I’d earn if I stayed, but I’m worried about my future. I won’t finish my bachelor’s degree until December, and my resume mainly consists of customer service roles with some team lead and logistics experience. The thought of being stuck in a call center, especially with the rapid advancement of AI, is daunting. I also don’t have a car since I’ve been working from home for the last three years, and my savings were depleted due to an emergency surgery earlier this month. The job market feels bleak, and I’m terrified of what comes next. This experience has taught me that employers can be misleading, and it’s essential to have a backup plan. I’m grateful for the advice from others to take the severance and focus on finishing my degree and job searching. I just hope I can find something before it’s too late.

I have 4 years of experience as a frontend developer at a small company with around 80 employees. Lately, I've been feeling really anxious about potential layoffs, especially since I'm about to become the sole earner in my household with no savings to fall back on. On paper, my job seems secure, and the compensation is decent for my level, but the constant news about layoffs has kept me up at night. The situation is particularly stressful because my dad is retiring next year, which means I’ll be the only one bringing in income. My family is middle-class, and we don’t have much of a financial cushion. I also lack an emergency fund, and if I were to lose my job, I honestly don't know how I would manage. I’ve realized that I struggle with data structures and algorithms (DSA) as well as system design. I’ve landed jobs mainly due to a decent GPA and a bit of luck, rather than strong problem-solving skills. I can grasp theoretical concepts when I study, but I freeze during live problem-solving scenarios. At work, I mostly handle tickets without much ownership or understanding of the product, which makes me feel replaceable. Even though my salary is good for my experience, it adds to my anxiety because I feel like I'm being paid well for doing average work, and I worry that others would agree if they looked closely. To top it off, I’m feeling burnt out; I chose computer science mainly for job security and family pressure, not out of passion, and I still don’t feel drawn to the work after a few years. I’m not looking for the usual advice to just grind DSA for a few months, since I’ve tried that and it hasn’t worked for me. What I really want to know is: with my background in computer science and 4 years in frontend development, what are some realistic career options if I decide this path isn’t for me? Are there roles within tech that don’t involve typical development work, or even options outside of tech altogether? Has anyone else felt this way and managed to make a change? I’m genuinely open to any perspectives or advice on how to move forward.

I'm feeling really overwhelmed after four months of job searching without success. I've been actively looking for work for nearly five months now, and it's starting to take a toll on my mental health. I've had several interviews where companies seemed interested, but then they either ghosted me or chose to go in another direction. Just in the past month, I've gone through five drug tests and background checks, only to end up with no job offers. I’ve reviewed my own background and driving record since I’m applying for positions mainly in the driving and warehouse sectors, but I can't pinpoint why I'm not getting hired. Some employers have even told me I'm overqualified, which feels frustrating because I thought that would be an advantage. I'm currently doing Uber to make ends meet, but it's barely covering my food and expenses. I've even applied to places like McDonald's, but nothing has panned out. I know the job market in Florida is tough right now, and I've seen others experiencing similar challenges, but I'm genuinely at a loss. I'm applying consistently and willing to work, yet I can't seem to catch a break. If anyone has gone through something similar or has advice on what I might be doing wrong, I would really appreciate it. I'm trying to stay positive, but it's becoming increasingly difficult.

I recently discovered that my old position as a mid-level manager at my previous company has been reposted at half of my former salary. I wasn't surprised by this turn of events; I had a feeling it would happen eventually, and honestly, it took longer than I expected. It's been just under two months since my role was eliminated along with several others in a similar capacity. Seeing my LinkedIn flooded with former colleagues sharing the job listing was tough. I felt a wave of frustration and ended up disconnecting from many of them, even those I considered friends. I guess this is the new normal now.

I just learned that LinkedIn is shutting down its R&D operations in Israel and laying off nearly all employees. This decision seems to stem from a business perspective rather than any political motivations. It's interesting timing, especially with their new Chief Product Officer, Anthony Chavez, stepping in. I wonder how much influence the former CPO, Tomer Cohen, had on establishing the R&D site since he has ties to the region. This news has sparked a lot of mixed reactions online, with some people supporting the layoffs while others are questioning the need for an R&D site in Israel in the first place. It's definitely a significant shift for the company.

I’m feeling really overwhelmed right now. Many of my friends are struggling to find jobs, and despite their constant applications, they’re not getting any responses—not even the usual rejection emails. It’s disheartening to hear the media claim that unemployment isn’t a big issue anymore. Just last week, Treasury Secretary Scott Bessent stated that the K-shaped economy is over, suggesting that lower-wage workers are finally catching up. But that doesn’t match what I see around me. I’ve been following the layoffs data, and it’s alarming. In 2023, there were over 265,660 layoffs, while this year, 2026, we’ve seen only 126,305 so far. Yet, I know more people who are unemployed now than before. I understand that this is anecdotal, but it’s hard to ignore. I still have a job, but I can’t shake off the anxiety about the future. My company has been treating us poorly, pushing to implement AI tools for monitoring our work. They want us to use these tools, but they’re so flawed that they often provide incorrect information, which just complicates my tasks. It’s frustrating, and I can’t help but wonder what’s really going on. It feels like I’m one of the few who sees this reality.

I recently took a break from my role as a software engineer at a fintech company due to severe stress and burnout. My GP advised me to step back for my mental health, so I traveled and reflected on my career. I realized that my true interests lie in business and analytics rather than software engineering. I have experience as a business analyst and junior project manager, which I enjoyed much more than my SWE role. My background includes a BSc in Business and IT, a postgraduate in Data Analytics, and CFA Level I. During my time as an SWE, I faced a lot of pressure from a difficult project manager, which contributed to my burnout. I had hoped to transition into a business-facing role after my graduate program, but internal promises were never fulfilled, and I felt stuck. Now, I'm looking to pivot back into a role that aligns with my interests, but I'm concerned about the 9-month gap on my CV and how to position my SWE experience for business-facing roles. I'm seeking advice from others who have made similar transitions. How did you frame your SWE experience? What roles should I consider, and how do I explain my career break without it being viewed negatively?

It's been 4 months since I was laid off from my job of 15 years, and I'm really starting to feel the pressure. Just days before my layoff notice on March 17, I bought a brand new car that I had been budgeting for over 6 months. My first thought when I received the layoff notice was about the car I had just purchased. Thankfully, I have a generous severance package that will keep me afloat until Christmas, but job hunting has been tough. I've experienced a lot of ghosting and only a few interviews. Just recently, I had a huge disappointment: 15 minutes before an interview for an executive assistant position, the recruiter called to say there was a mix-up and that a job offer had already been sent out without anyone realizing there was still one interview left to conduct. They said they were impressed with my resume and encouraged me to apply for future positions. It feels like time is slipping away, and I can't seem to catch a break. I'm even prepared to take a 50% pay cut and had to use some of my 401k savings to pay off my car. It's a stressful situation, but I'm trying to stay hopeful.

I lost my job three months ago and have been actively searching for new opportunities ever since. Unfortunately, nothing suitable has come up, and I'm quickly running out of savings. My mortgage payment is $1,900 a month, and I haven't been able to pay it for the last two months. The bank has sent me a notice, and I only have about 45 days before foreclosure proceedings start. They won't agree to a modification because they say I don't qualify. I attempted to initiate a short sale with a realtor, but she informed me that it could take 60 to 90 days to close, and I simply don't have that kind of time. Losing my house is not an option for me. In a moment of desperation, I reached out to eazyhousesale and filled out their form. To my surprise, they sent me an offer the very next day. I ended up selling my house for cash, albeit slightly below market value, and the closing is set for just two weeks from now. The speed of this process feels suspicious, but I'm hoping it will help me avoid foreclosure. I'm feeling frustrated with the bank for not providing any assistance and hopeless about finding a job in time. I just want to keep my home and not lose everything.

After 42 years in various roles, I’ve finally retired, reflecting on my professional journey. I started my career with an undergraduate degree and have had a mix of experiences across 11 companies. I often find it hard to pinpoint when I was fired versus when I left voluntarily, but I only claimed government compensation once. Here's a summary of my career: 1. **Small Manufacturer** - I quit for another opportunity; they went out of business two years later. 2. **Manufacturing Start-up** - I was fired after three months; they also went out of business shortly after. 3. **Self-Employed** - Ran my own company for 12 years with a few wealthy clients; I eventually quit. 4. **Client's Company** - Hired by a client, I quit due to their lack of business acumen; they folded within a year. 5. **Contract Associate** - Worked for four years until the company fired all contractors, leading to chaos for their clients. 6. **Communications Conglomerate** - I was fired after two months for refusing to push unnecessary products; they’ve since changed their business model. 7. **Manufacturing Firm** - Fired after three months; they went out of business a year later. 8. **Large U.S. Manufacturer** - I quit after three months due to excessive hours and overseas shifts; they’ve since moved most operations abroad. 9. **Ultra-High-Tech Manufacturer** - I quit after two and a half years for a better-paying job; the company is still thriving after a change in ownership. 10. **Fossil Fuel Power Plant Services** - I quit after a merger changed the company dynamics; they continue to dominate the market. 11. **Government Job** - Worked for ten years until a threatening incident led me to quit; the organization has expanded since. Now, I enjoy retirement, where every day feels like Saturday. I’m in good health and prioritize my time over money. Although I could return as a consultant, I find that the value of my remaining time is far more important.

I’m 18 years old and currently looking for a job, but I’m feeling pretty discouraged. I didn’t graduate high school and I have no work experience, which makes my resume look really bare. So far, I’ve applied to about 9 places, but I feel like my chances of getting hired are really low. I’ve been thinking about how to improve my situation. Some suggestions I’ve received are to get my GED or consider going into a trade. I realize that 9 applications is a small number, and I need to treat my job search more seriously. I plan to create a one-page resume that highlights my reliability, availability, and any basic skills I have, like computer skills or volunteer work. I’ve also been advised to apply for jobs that others might overlook, like trash collection, which could pay better than minimum wage. I’m determined to keep pushing forward and expand my applications.

I am currently seeking Manual QA / Software Testing opportunities. With 3.7 years of experience in software testing, I am based in Bengaluru and available to join immediately. I'm open to both local and remote roles. If anyone has information about openings, referrals, or companies looking for Manual QA/Test Engineers, I would greatly appreciate any leads or suggestions.

I had an interview on Thursday, the 30th, and was told I would hear back by the following Tuesday. When I didn't receive any response, I decided to follow up with an email the next Thursday, but still got no reply. Feeling a bit anxious, I called the recruiter and found out that a manager was on vacation. The HR person seemed surprised to hear from me, which made me think they might not have received my email. Now I'm questioning whether my follow-up was too pushy or if I crossed any boundaries.

I've been job hunting for a while now, and it's becoming increasingly difficult for me to separate my self-worth from the rejections I'm facing. As someone with AuDHD, I find that each rejection feels like a personal failure, rather than just a mismatch for a specific role. I tend to overanalyze my interviews, worrying that I'm not as likable or socially fluent as other candidates. This leads to a cycle of negative thoughts where I equate not being selected for a position with not being good enough as a person. Even though I understand that there are many factors at play in hiring—like internal candidates or timing—my emotional response makes it hard to see things rationally. I'm not looking for generic advice; I genuinely want to hear from others who have faced similar struggles. How did you manage to stop repeated rejections from affecting your self-esteem? What strategies helped you cope?

I'm 40 years old and feeling lost in my career. For the past two years, I've applied to hundreds of jobs, but it seems like none of my experience is relevant to what employers are looking for. I've only managed to land one interview, which went to the final round, but ultimately, I wasn't the right fit — and honestly, I think it was for the best. My background is in writing and interaction design, specifically for children's products and electronic toys. The problem is that most product design roles require a portfolio, and since I'm not a visual designer, I don't have any tangible work to showcase. My designs were primarily documented through flowcharts and Word documents, all of which are protected by NDAs. I'm starting to feel like I need to pivot and consider going back to school or even starting fresh in a completely different field. I would love to find an entry-level position somewhere, but it seems like the job market doesn't have many of those available right now. I'm reaching out for any advice or guidance on how to navigate this situation.

I've been out of work since May 2025 due to some disabilities. I've been relying on state disability, but that support is ending this week. I live in LA with my wife and kids, and we really need my income right now. Honestly, I'm finding it hard to cope and sometimes I go to dark places mentally. I've been in my career for 20 years, but the job market isn't looking good for me. I've struggled to find anything even remotely related to my expertise, and after 18 months of searching, I've faced numerous failed final interviews. It feels like I'm in a really tough spot, and I don't know anyone else who's had it as bad as I have during this time. I'm just feeling really beat up by the whole situation.

I had a pretty unsettling experience at work today. I was in my office working on my laptop when I overheard my two managers, Manager A and Manager B, discussing the hiring of a new employee. They are looking to fill two urgent roles because we’re currently understaffed. One of the positions is actually the same role as mine, as someone is leaving in a few weeks. While I was focused on my work, I caught snippets of their conversation. Manager A mentioned needing to wait to give an offer letter until they checked references, and Manager B seemed to suggest they should talk about it later, which made me feel uneasy. I noticed Manager B trying to signal to Manager A, and then everything went quiet. It felt like they were trying to keep something from me, and I couldn't help but panic. I’ve only been with the company for a few months, and I’m worried that maybe they were discussing something negative about me or my performance. I passed my probationary period, but the thought of being fired or demoted keeps creeping into my mind. I just don’t understand why they wouldn’t want to talk about it in front of me. I could really use some advice or reassurance right now to help calm my anxiety.

I'm currently job searching on Indeed and feeling really frustrated. I live in a major US city with thousands of businesses, but finding job openings that suit my needs feels impossible. As a student already working one job, I'm looking for another part-time position to help me stay afloat financially. My time is limited, so I need to keep my commute short and rely on public transport. I've tried setting the location filter to my neighborhood with a 15-20 mile radius, which should be reasonable within the city limits. The only other filter I use is for part-time jobs. However, Indeed keeps showing me a handful of barista jobs that are not even in the city, but in neighboring areas. Some listings even require a ferry ride to an island, which is ridiculous! Plus, I'm being shown medical jobs that I'm not qualified for, and they aren't part-time either. I've input all my job experience, resume, qualifications, and certifications, so I'm really at a loss here. I know people will suggest job hunting in person, and I plan to do that too, but I want to utilize technology to search remotely during my free moments. It feels like the job boards don't respect the input specifications at all, despite being in a huge city with so many opportunities. If anyone has any tips or fixes for this, I would really appreciate it because this situation is driving me crazy.