Planning

I’m preparing to apply for new jobs and I’m feeling really anxious about the interview process. There are plenty of job offers out there, but I have a strong fear of interviews and I worry that I’ll mess them up. I’m reaching out for any advice on how to improve my interview skills or manage my nerves. One suggestion I received was to find a friend who could recommend me to their manager and explain that while I might not interview well, I am a reliable worker. I’m hoping to gather more tips to help me succeed.

I was laid off from my job about a month ago and filed my unemployment claim the very next day. However, when I tried to claim my benefits the following Wednesday, I was told I needed to call a number to "request my claim" before I could start receiving any benefits. Unfortunately, getting in touch with them has been nearly impossible. I've called every day, multiple times, even trying different numbers including the governor's office, but nothing has worked. I do have my confirmation number from the page I printed after filing, but when I logged in today after calling about 15 times, I found that the message had changed from "call to request a claim" to "file a claim." It seems like my claim has just disappeared. This situation has been really stressful, and it's taking a toll on my mental health. I'm planning to write a letter and mail it to them as a last resort since they no longer allow in-person visits. I'm feeling pretty lost and would appreciate any advice from anyone who might have experienced something similar.

I recently found myself in a tough situation after my role as a VP was eliminated due to organizational restructuring. I had consistently received positive feedback and strong performance reviews, so I was quite surprised by the severance package offered to me. It felt inadequate considering my position and the circumstances of my departure. Now, I'm contemplating whether to negotiate for a better severance. I understand that companies are not obligated to provide severance at all, and I don't want to jeopardize my professional reputation or burn bridges. However, given my track record and the fact that hiring tends to slow down as we approach the end of the year, I feel that it's important to advocate for myself. In my previous experiences, I received severance packages that were significantly higher—about 4 to 5 times more when factoring in bonuses and benefits. I would appreciate any advice on whether it’s wise to approach my former employer about this and how to navigate the conversation without risking my standing in the industry.

I was laid off 11 months ago and I'm still struggling to find a job. I've had a few interviews, but each time I hear that someone else had more experience. I've tailored my resume and actively networked with companies, but I rarely receive responses. I've even hired two different career coaching services, but they ended up being a waste of money. Now, I'm forced to take a survival job because my finances are dwindling. I can't shake the feeling that this is my fault; I only have two years of experience, and it seems like all the junior roles I apply for go to candidates with much more experience. I feel like a failure for not landing a job yet, especially since I'm not picky about salary—I'm just trying to cover my rent. It's disheartening and I feel defeated.

I accidentally declined a job offer for a position I really wanted while trying to accept it. I had been in the interview process for a marketing role at a tech company, and when the offer came through, I mistakenly clicked the wrong option. I immediately emailed my recruiter to clarify my intent to accept, but he hasn't responded to my previous message. I'm feeling anxious about the situation and plan to call them first thing tomorrow morning to explain the mix-up. I'm worried about the potential consequences, especially after reading some comments suggesting that I might be put on a block list. I really hope I can resolve this.

I started a new job as a Spark driver on Monday, but I'm already feeling miserable about it. After relocating across the country and spending two months searching for a job, I was excited to finally get an offer, but things have taken a turn for the worse. The company recruited me and pushed my start date back twice, which was frustrating. I only had one day of training, and I still haven't even been shown how to clock in and out. I'm seriously considering switching to Walmart Spark because I've heard the pay is decent in my area, and I'm willing to commit to working a full eight hours Monday through Friday. I’m just torn because I had such a tough time finding this job, but the unhappiness I'm experiencing is really affecting my mental health. Has anyone had success with Spark? Should I stick it out at my current job or make the leap?

I recently scheduled an interview with CMC Groups for a sales position in Los Angeles. However, I discovered that the role is entirely commission-based, which raised some red flags for me. I wanted to reach out to see if anyone else has had experiences with this company or similar roles. From what I've gathered, many of these sales positions, especially those associated with ATT, are contracted out to third-party marketing companies. They typically involve working in big box retailers like Walmart or Costco, trying to get customers to sign up for services like ATT or Directv. I'm curious if anyone has insights or advice regarding this type of work.

I recently had a really upsetting experience at my job where my boss called me "Boy" during a heated argument. It was incredibly disrespectful, and even though they apologized afterward, I just couldn't shake off how I felt. I decided to hand in my notice because I believe that kind of treatment is unacceptable. Now, I'm in a strange place trying to process everything that happened. It was such a sudden decision, and I'm not sure if I made the right choice or if I should have waited until I had another job lined up. It's been tough to navigate these feelings.

I started a new job as a software engineer about two months ago, and I'm already feeling the pressure. My manager, who is 15 hours ahead of me, recently told me that my progress on a task is 'way too slow.' I’ve been working hard to understand a challenging codebase and have been using AI tools to assist me, but I feel like I'm not meeting expectations. My manager has scheduled daily meetings at 8:30 AM my time and sometimes checks in again at 5:30 PM. After a week of training that the company provided, I thought I was on the right track, but now I’m anxious about my performance. I've been hyper-focused on this task for a couple of weeks, and I thought I was making progress, but the lack of timely feedback from my manager and his recent comments have left me feeling stressed and unsure of my capabilities. I’m worried about the possibility of being let go, especially since the job market isn’t great right now. I’m trying to figure out if I’m a bad fit for this role or if the time zone difference is affecting my work. I’m considering adjusting my hours to better align with my manager’s schedule, but I’m feeling overwhelmed and uncertain about my future here.

I'm currently a junior in college and I've been struggling with my job search. I have no prior job experience, which makes me feel like I'm at a disadvantage. I've been applying to positions since July and have updated my resume multiple times to highlight my skills and achievements, but I've only received rejections so far. I have a career fair coming up in two weeks, and while I've found the list of companies attending, I haven't prepared as much as I should have. I'm starting to feel like I need experience to get experience, and I'm wondering if cold applying is even worth it at this stage. I also have concerns about what to do if I don't land an internship next summer, especially since I don't have a car. I'm considering whether I need to network more extensively to improve my chances.

I am currently in the final interview stages for a fully remote position with a company located halfway across the country. Most of their employees are also remote but live in the metropolitan area where the company is based, which makes me an outlier. One of the main attractions of this job is the health insurance benefits, as they are associated with a large, well-known hospital. However, since I will be living far away, I likely won't be able to utilize these benefits. I'm wondering if it's possible to negotiate my salary or other benefits since I won't be using their health insurance. I've heard mixed opinions on this; some say it's unlikely, while others suggest it might be worth asking if they offer any compensation for declining the health insurance. I'm also curious about whether certain out-of-state insurances could still work for me locally, as I've heard that some national networks can cover local doctors.

I was laid off in July 2026 after over a year at my last job, which ended abruptly and without any severance. It's been a tough month since then, especially with my son just turning 5 months old. I've been actively applying and have managed to secure a few interviews, but I've faced disappointment each time, receiving the same feedback: "At this time we decided to move forward with another candidate." This has happened four times already this month. I hold an MBA and a Bachelor's in Civil Engineering, along with a drafting certificate in AutoCAD, so I feel qualified for many roles. Despite my efforts, the job market feels brutal. I filed for unemployment and WIC benefits to support my family during this challenging time. Today, I have an interview for an Entitlements Manager position with a homebuilder, and I'm hopeful about another interview next week. I'm keeping my fingers crossed and praying for a breakthrough soon. Wish me luck!

I recently found myself in a frustrating situation at work. Back in November, our senior operations manager unexpectedly resigned, and instead of hiring someone new, my director pulled me aside and encouraged me to step up. He said this was my chance to demonstrate leadership and operate at the senior level. I took on the challenge and worked tirelessly for the past eight months, often clocking in fifty-hour weeks. I managed all client logistics accounts, took over her direct reports, and handled our regional budget spreadsheets, all while maintaining my regular workload. I even helped boost our quarterly performance metrics by twelve percent. Yesterday, during my mid-year compensation review, my director handed me a promotion to Senior Operations Lead. I was excited until I noticed the compensation section was completely blank. When I inquired about a salary adjustment for taking on the additional responsibilities, he informed me that the budget for merit raises was frozen. He insisted that the title change was a significant career investment that would enhance my internal record. Reflecting on this, I realize I should have stopped doing the extra tasks once my contract hours ended in December. It’s disheartening that companies expect employees to pay their bills with fancy job titles rather than fair compensation.

I was laid off from my job about a month ago and filed a claim for New York unemployment benefits on August 4. Unfortunately, my claim is still processing, and I keep seeing the message "We are continuing to work on your application" on my benefit payment history. I can't even certify my claim online or over the phone because of this issue. I have a trip planned outside the US starting on September 13, and I won't return until sometime in October. I'm worried that by the time my claim is processed and I need to start certifying, I’ll be abroad, which means I won't be able to certify or access the Department of Labor website. I really can't change my travel plans since this vacation has been in the works with friends for months. I've tried reaching out to both the New York claims office and the claims advocacy office for help. The claims office was too busy to assist, and although the advocacy office did respond, they just transferred me back to the claims office where I ended up waiting for over an hour before giving up. I also can't send a secure message because I don't have the "Messages" button on my DOL account page. Since I can't get a clear answer from official channels, I'm hoping to get some advice from the community.

I recently received an offer for a door-to-door sales position that pays a base of $375 a week plus commission. I'm currently working at a grocery store, earning about $19 an hour, but the management is terrible and there's no room for growth. I live with my girlfriend's family and pay $500 a month in rent, so I'm feeling a bit stuck. The challenge is that I would need to quit my stable job to take this sales position, and I'm worried about the high turnover rates in sales roles. I'm anxious about the possibility of being fired and ending up without any income. I've been seeking advice on whether I should make this leap or stick with my current job, which, while frustrating, provides a steady paycheck.

I'm currently on Day 3 of an unpaid 5-day trial at a retail stocking job. If I pass, I’ll get paid for all the days, but if I don’t, I walk away with nothing. Today, my supervisor told me I’m ‘too slow and not suitable’ for the role. I arrived at 9:05 AM, even though he claimed I came at 9:30, and I worked hard all day without breaks, stocking multiple aisles and helping unload a truck full of products. I feel like I did more than some of my coworkers, but I’m starting to doubt myself. On Day 2, a coworker made some inappropriate jokes and asked if I’d buy them ice cream, which felt like a test of sorts. I didn’t vibe with him, especially after hearing him curse customers. I’ve had a mix of experiences in the past; I was once told I was ‘too slow’ in house cleaning because I was too thorough, but I was praised in a factory job. I’m detail-oriented and not very social at work, which might not fit well in this environment. Now I’m wondering if I should push through the last two days to see if I can pass or if I should just cut my losses and look for something else. I’ve heard a lot of people say that this unpaid trial is ridiculous and possibly illegal, and I’m starting to think they might be right.

Today, I was laid off from my position at Uber India, and the pain of losing my job is compounded by the unfair treatment we are receiving compared to our colleagues in the US. While they are being offered two months of garden leave and two months of stock vesting, we in India are only getting one month. This means we are effectively losing out on a month of salary and equity, and I fear our severance package will be less generous as well. It feels incredibly unjust, especially considering the sacrifices we make to accommodate US time zones. Just yesterday, I pulled an all-nighter for work, went to the office after finally getting some sleep at 7:30 AM, only to be laid off a few hours later. It's frustrating that we are not receiving the same exit benefits as our US counterparts. I’ve connected with someone who was laid off during the 2020 round and learned that they successfully negotiated better exit terms by banding together and hiring an employment lawyer. They managed to secure 2-3 months of garden leave, one month of salary for every six months of tenure, continued insurance until the end of the year, and even kept their laptops. I believe we can do the same here in India. We need to act quickly, as we only have a few days before the separation agreements are handed out. If we can team up and send a joint legal notice, we might be able to pause the deadline and push for better terms. Companies like Uber do not like collective legal action, and we deserve to fight for what we have earned. If anyone else in India was impacted by the layoffs today, please DM me. Let’s connect and strategize for an urgent consultation with a lawyer. We deserve the same treatment as our colleagues in the US, and we shouldn’t leave anything on the table. I understand this is a stressful time, so I kindly ask that you only reach out if you are serious about taking action or can help connect us with a strong employment lawyer.

I have been working for the same employer since 2016, but my roles have all been short-term contracts of varying lengths. My most recent contract lasted only three weeks, and now I am applying for unemployment benefits. I'm unsure about what start date to list for my employment. Should I include the start date from 2016, or just the most recent contract from the last 18 months? I'm worried that this could impact my benefits, so I appreciate any guidance on how to accurately report my employment history.

I got laid off from Legalzoom about a month ago after nearly 6 years with the company. Just yesterday, my wife, who worked at Blue Apron for the same duration, was also laid off. We’re both feeling terrified about how we’re going to make it through this tough time. I've signed up for unemployment and received my severance, but the job search has been brutal. I've submitted over 110 applications and only heard back from about 5 of them. We both earned around $23 an hour, but for some reason, my wife is getting significantly less in unemployment benefits than I am here in Texas, which is adding to our stress. I’m trying to find a remote job due to my disability and the fact that I don’t have a car. I’ve been updating my resume, doing daily job searches, and applying to 3-10 jobs each day. I’m constantly anxious about our situation, worrying about how to pay our bills and fearing that my wife, our two dogs, and I might end up homeless. Losing our health insurance is also a huge concern since we can’t afford our medications or even basic healthcare like flu and COVID shots. I’m reaching out for any advice or strategies that could help us navigate this difficult time. We’re doing everything we can to stay afloat, but it feels overwhelming and I’m scared that I’m letting my wife down.

I'm considering leaving my job at See’s Candies after 14 years, and I'm feeling a mix of emotions about it. I'm a 36-year-old female currently making around $20 an hour in Oklahoma. I started my journey at See’s when I was just 22, and it was my first job. Over the years, I worked my way up from being an associate to an assistant manager, and I’ve spent about 10-11 years working closely with my shop manager, who recently left. I was hoping to step up and take over her position, but the company decided to bring in a manager from another state instead. This feels like a major setback for my career growth, especially since I’ve invested so much time and effort into this role. I love the company and the environment, but the customer service expectations are incredibly high, leading to burnout. Although I have long-term customers I enjoy working with, I feel snubbed and see no future benefits in staying. The potential quarterly bonuses are minimal, and raises are rare, usually only around 1-3% every few years. I’m contemplating quitting without having another job lined up, which feels risky. I’ve been burnt out and think I might need a break before jumping into something new. I have about 5-6 months of savings to support me while I figure out my next steps, possibly taking on part-time work in the meantime. Is it crazy to consider quitting now, or should I hold on until I secure another position? I’d appreciate any advice on this!