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I’m starting a new job tomorrow as a software engineer, but I just received another offer that came in over the weekend. I had interviewed for this second position over a month ago and didn’t hear back until now. The catch is that I already signed for the first job, but the second offer pays over $50,000 more. I'm feeling conflicted about how to handle this situation because I’ve already had my laptop shipped and I have an onboarding session to attend. It feels wrong to quit on my first day, but I also know that companies can let employees go without a second thought. I'm seeking advice on the best way to navigate this dilemma.

Today, I found myself contemplating the timing of my potential job offer. I’m currently waiting to hear back about an offer for my second job post-graduation, and I’m feeling a mix of excitement and anxiety. Since this would be my first time transitioning from one job to another, I’ve been trying to figure out the best way to communicate my availability. I’m planning to ask if I can start the week following the 4th of July. My reasoning is that I have a two-week notice to give at my current job, and I also have a pre-planned vacation during the last week of June. I want to phrase it carefully, so I was considering saying something like, "I require a two-week notice in my current role and have a pre-planned vacation, so I’d be able to start the week of 7/6." I’m a bit worried that it might come off as overexplaining, but I really want to make sure they understand my situation. I’ve seen some advice suggesting that it’s perfectly fine to request a later start date, especially if it’s due to a prior commitment like a vacation. I’m hoping that they’ll be flexible with the start date, but I guess it’s a bit of a gamble. I’ll keep my fingers crossed that I get the offer soon and that everything works out with the timing!

It's been almost two years since I was laid off from my position as a design quality assurance engineer. I was let go by my managers, who labeled me as "uncooperative." Reflecting on my time there, I find myself questioning whether I should try to make peace with my past mistakes or just move on. In my second job, I had adopted a mindset that seemed to align with modern work culture, where I aimed to do the bare minimum, thinking my boss would always earn more than me. While I was efficient and completed my tasks quickly, I struggled with taking the initiative to do more than what was assigned. I believed I was being cooperative, but ultimately, my performance didn't meet expectations, and I was let go after just a year. I remember my manager mentioning that he tried to keep me on despite pressure from his boss to fire me after six months. He also noted that younger colleagues appreciated my presence, while older ones did not. This feedback lingers in my mind, making me wonder if I really wasn't as bad as I think. Now, living abroad and pursuing higher education, I still grapple with these thoughts. Should I learn to let go of my past and strive to improve? I don't want to become just another employee who blindly follows orders. I tend to be open about my thoughts at work, sharing ideas that could potentially benefit the company and my coworkers. However, I often feel that my honesty might be seen as a negative trait. I can't help but think about how different things might have been if I had kept my job. I wouldn't be abroad, relying on my parents for financial support while studying a subject that feels uncertain. I had a decent salary that was above minimum wage, and I wonder if I should have approached my work differently. I don't regret my actions, but I wish I had a clearer understanding of my worth and how to navigate the workplace dynamics.

I'm nearing a year of unemployment since graduating and I'm targeting a role as a product designer. I've been actively applying for jobs, tailoring my applications, and cold messaging on LinkedIn, but I haven't been able to land any interviews. I've utilized my school's career services, reached out to alumni for networking, applied for internships, and even connected with people in my industry on Discord and Reddit. Despite all these efforts, I'm struggling to get my foot in the door. I'm looking for advice or any connections that could help me in my job search.

I have a job interview tomorrow for a position that I really want, and I’m feeling quite nervous about it. As a college student with a 4.0 GPA, I know I’m capable, especially when it comes to writing clearly. However, I often struggle to articulate my thoughts on the spot, which makes interviews challenging for me. I've been practicing for days, trying to prepare myself and overcome my tendency to stumble over my words. I just hope that all this preparation pays off and helps me perform better during the interview.

I recently received a judgment warning from the New York Department of Labor after picking up a gig. I've been on unemployment insurance since October 2025, and my benefits are about to expire. When I called a month ago, I was advised to keep certifying every week, so I continued doing so out of habit. I’m a performer and just got married, which led me to move back home without any jobs lined up. Shortly after moving, I booked a six-week job and have already received three paychecks from it. However, I failed to notify the DOL about my change in work status and was certifying for weeks when I should have reported my earnings. I’m unsure how to handle this situation and am looking for updated advice on judgment warnings from NYDOL, as most information I found online is outdated. I genuinely made a mistake and want to avoid any penalties.

I'm currently navigating the final stages of my unemployment claim in Michigan. I haven't certified for the last two weeks yet and I'm a bit confused about the process. I've received mixed information online about whether I can still claim those weeks. I see a 'to-do' alert for certification, but when I click on it, it only directs me to a page to file a new claim, which is not what I need. My previous claim was from last year, but I had to reopen it earlier this year after returning to work briefly. I'm unsure if I should wait until tomorrow to try certifying again, or if my chance to claim those weeks is lost and I need to reapply completely. I did fulfill the job search requirements each week, but my claim was closed just two days before I could certify. Any advice on how to proceed would be greatly appreciated.

I recently applied for a position that I was really excited about, but after a couple of weeks without any communication, I reached out to the hiring manager for an update. They informed me that they had moved forward with other candidates. I can't help but feel rejected and wonder if I should take this as a sign to move on or keep pursuing similar roles. It's tough to stay motivated during this job search, especially when you invest so much hope into an opportunity. I'm trying to remind myself that it's all part of the process, but it's hard not to take it personally.

I was recently laid off from my contractor position at a major tech company. As a TVC, I was already struggling with low pay and living paycheck to paycheck, especially after being asked to return to the office in Silicon Valley. This move significantly increased my expenses, and I found myself dipping into my savings just to make ends meet. Now, with my job gone, I’m facing the very real threat of eviction in less than a month because unemployment benefits aren't enough to cover my rent. I've tried to cut back on expenses as much as possible, but I still have medical and dental bills looming over me. I'm currently looking for advice on how others in similar situations—like temp workers or contractors—are managing with unemployment. I'm also curious about where people are finding new job opportunities and what strategies they are using to cope during this tough time.

I recently got laid off from my job at a signal processing company where I worked for 1.5 years. I'm a 26-year-old male from India with an M.Tech from NIT, but my skills are quite specific to my previous company. The only broadly applicable skill I have is C++ coding. Since losing my job, I've started applying for new positions, but I've only been getting calls for software jobs that offer salaries in the range of 6-9 LPA, while my previous CTC was around 15 LPA. Given the current job market, I'm contemplating whether I should take the risk and apply for these lower-paying software positions, even though they are outside the signal processing domain. There seems to be a lack of jobs in my field in India right now, and I know I need to prepare a lot to interview for these software roles. I'm seeking advice on whether I should pursue these opportunities to stay employed or hold out for something more aligned with my previous experience.

I recently completed two technical interview rounds for a Software Engineer New Grad position at Airbnb, targeting the 2026 cohort. Now, I'm in the waiting phase for the results. The interviews were challenging but engaging, and I feel like I showcased my skills well. I’m eager to hear back and hopeful for a positive outcome.

After eight years of applying for jobs without success, I'm starting to wonder if I should just give up. I've been in the same role for a long time, and despite my efforts to improve my resume and interview skills, I haven't landed a position that aligns with my career goals. It's disheartening to see others move forward while I feel stagnant. I'm considering whether it's time to change my approach or if I should just accept my current situation.

I recently attended an open house interview at a well-known company and found myself waiting for over 30 minutes without any updates. After completing a lengthy application form, I expected a more organized process. It was frustrating to sit there with no communication, especially since they had indicated the event would end at a specific time, which had already passed. This isn't the first time I've experienced such long waits during interviews, and it's really starting to wear on me. I can't help but wonder why companies think this is acceptable.

I had my first proper interview scheduled for 4 PM, but I found myself racing to a café with Wi-Fi because my phone died. I was 8 minutes late, and I was in a panic about how to handle it when I finally joined the call. I considered several options: should I just act normal, apologize briefly, over-apologize, or even email them before joining? I was worried that this would be the only thing they remembered about me. I ended up joining the call a few minutes later and decided to apologize once briefly, but I couldn’t shake the feeling that I had already blown my chances. I’ve read that being late can reflect poorly on your preparedness, and I was really hoping to make a good impression. I’m still waiting to hear back, but I can’t help but feel that my tardiness may have cost me this opportunity.

I recently faced redundancy from my job and I'm feeling quite burnt out. After spending years in a high-pressure role, the sudden change has left me both relieved and anxious about the future. I'm looking for suggestions on how to cope with this burnout during this transition period. What strategies or activities have others found helpful to recharge and regain motivation? Any advice on managing stress while job searching would be greatly appreciated.

I've been on the job hunt for my first position after graduating and I'm feeling a bit lost. I've applied to several entry-level roles in marketing, but haven't heard back from any of them. I've updated my resume, tailored my cover letters, and even reached out to a few connections on LinkedIn for advice. I'm wondering if anyone has tips on how to stand out as a new graduate or how to effectively network to land that first job. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

I'm currently a network engineer, but I'm feeling disillusioned with the tech industry. Since 2021, there have been nearly a million layoffs, and the job market is incredibly tough right now. Remote work opportunities have dwindled, and the competition for available positions is fierce. I'm considering a career switch into low voltage systems and want to understand the job opportunities and growth potential in that field. I'm curious if there will be enough work available or if I’ll just be facing the same level of competition as I do now.

I was feeling pretty defeated in my job search lately. It seemed like every application I submitted was going nowhere, and I was starting to lose hope. I thought I had messed up my chances completely. But I decided to keep pushing through and stay positive, even when it felt like nothing was working out.

I'm currently in the thick of my job search and feeling a bit overwhelmed. I've seen a lot of posts from students and recent graduates claiming they've applied to 400-500 jobs, received hundreds of rejections, and managed to land a few interviews. It got me wondering how they find so many job openings. I've been focusing on LinkedIn, checking company career pages, and browsing a few job boards, but I feel like I run out of relevant listings pretty quickly. I'm curious about what resources others are using to discover so many opportunities. Here are some questions I have: 1. What specific websites or job boards are you using to find a high volume of job openings? 2. How do you manage to find jobs as soon as they are posted? 3. Do you set up job alerts? If so, where do you do that? 4. Are applicants considering positions in multiple cities or countries, or are there really that many openings available locally? 5. How do you keep track of all the applications you submit? I would really appreciate hearing about your processes, especially if you've navigated a large-volume job search recently. Thanks!

I'm a 24-year-old male who moved to Melbourne a year ago, and I've been actively searching for a job ever since. I apply to over 20 positions daily, attaching my resume and cover letter, but unfortunately, I haven't received any responses. I'm in urgent need of work to support my 3-year-old child, and I'm ready to start immediately. I hold a Certificate II in Construction, have a White Card, and reliable public transport. My previous experience includes pick packing, cleaning, and general laboring. I'm really hoping to find someone willing to give me a chance.