Feeling

I'm currently navigating the job search process for a software engineering position. My niece, who started as an intern software engineer a few years back, has had quite the journey. She was offered her internship without needing a CS degree, which was impressive given the rigorous selection process. Since then, she's been pursuing her CS degree online and is set to graduate at the end of this year. During her time at the company, she quickly climbed the ranks from intern to intermediate engineer and then became a functional owner, making her the first intermediate engineer to achieve that status. In just two years, she was promoted to senior software engineer and then to lead software engineer. However, her experience has mostly been with legacy backend systems, which she feels limits her exposure to modern technologies. A few months ago, she decided to seek out a position that would allow her to work with more contemporary tech, specifically one that utilizes AI for coding. The application process has been intense, involving numerous interviews, assessments, and even a project submission. Initially, she applied for an intermediate position, but her application was later upgraded to a senior role due to her performance in the earlier stages. She had her final interview last week, but since then, there's been radio silence from the company. This uncertainty is weighing heavily on her, and honestly, it's stressing me out too. The job search landscape has changed so much since I was looking for work; back then, it was much simpler with just one interview to determine your fate. Now, it feels like a marathon.

After over 10 years at my company, I've made the decision to accept a new job and will be leaving later this month. While I know it's the right choice for my career and personal growth, I'm feeling a surprising amount of guilt about it. This company has been a significant part of my life; I started my career here, built strong friendships, faced challenges, and celebrated many successes. Walking away feels strange and emotional. I haven't been made to feel guilty by anyone, and in fact, most of my colleagues have been supportive. Yet, I can't shake the feeling that I'm letting people down or abandoning a place that invested so much in me. I'm curious if anyone else has gone through a similar experience after leaving a long-term job. How did you cope with the emotions, guilt, and uncertainty of making such a big change? Did those feelings fade over time, or was there something specific that helped you move on? I would really appreciate hearing how others navigated this transition.

I recently received a "final warning" at my job in Maryland due to complaints from coworkers about my fit within the workplace culture. Management claims that my presence is negatively impacting the team and contributing to issues with retaining new hires in my department. Despite my high standards and excellent quality of work, my tone and communication style seem to be misinterpreted, leading to a perception that I judge others or create an unwelcoming environment. I'm actively looking for a new position, but my previous job search yielded no responses, and I'm uncertain how much longer I have before potentially being let go. If I do get fired under these circumstances, I'm worried about my eligibility for unemployment benefits. I'm seeking advice on what steps I can take to protect myself.

I just learned that Veritone has laid off 25% of its staff. This news is quite shocking and has left many of us feeling uncertain about our future here. As an employee, I am concerned about how this will impact our projects and team dynamics moving forward. It's a tough time for everyone affected, and I'm trying to stay positive while figuring out my next steps.

Today, I learned that Pleo has initiated another round of layoffs, resulting in approximately 50 employees being let go. This news is disheartening as I know several colleagues who are affected. It's a tough time for everyone at the company, and I'm hoping those impacted can find new opportunities soon.

I was let go from my position today, and I'm feeling a bit lost about where to start my job search. I had been with the company for four years, working remotely in the firearms e-commerce industry. My journey started in a tough spot when I was initially fired from a previous job due to performance issues, right when I had a young child at home. Thankfully, I found a new role shortly after that, which allowed me to be with my family more. However, with a new CEO and some financial tightening this spring, I received a call this morning from my boss and HR, and I knew what was coming. My position was eliminated as part of a financial decision, while my coworker was brought back into the office. I’m grateful for the time I spent at home with my child, especially since we plan on homeschooling. I’ve accepted that I might need to work in an office now, which is a change since we only have one car. Now, I’m trying to figure out where to look for new opportunities. My last job came about unexpectedly, and now I feel overwhelmed. I’ve checked Indeed, but it seems filled with spam, and while my state job board has some decent listings, I’m not sure where to start. Any suggestions on job boards that are actually legit?

I had a really positive interview with a company and was thrilled when they offered me the job, which I accepted right away. However, it’s been three weeks since then and I haven’t heard anything from HR. I’ve tried calling my HR rep multiple times, left messages, and even sent emails, but no one is responding. I even reached out to her boss and left a message, but still nothing. I called the front desk of the company and they sent emails to HR on my behalf, but I’m still in the dark. This situation is incredibly frustrating, and while I just wanted to vent about it, I’m also concerned about how to address this if I ever start working there.

I recently accepted a job offer after a challenging experience with my background check. A couple of years ago, I made a poor decision that led to a misdemeanor theft charge. I took full responsibility, completed all court requirements, and the case was ultimately dismissed. However, during the 12-month stipulated period, I faced the disappointment of having two job offers rescinded due to the background check results. Now that the case is dismissed, I was hopeful that my background check for this new job would go smoothly. Unfortunately, it flagged the county criminal section as "needs review," even though the disposition clearly states dismissed/non-conviction. It's been a few business days since the report was completed, and I haven't heard anything from the employer yet. I'm feeling anxious because of my previous experiences, and I’m concerned that this could still jeopardize my current offer. I’m reaching out to see if anyone with HR experience can provide insight into how concerning a dismissed misdemeanor theft charge is in a background check. Is the "needs review" flag a standard procedure for HR to examine the details, or does it often lead to rescinded offers? I’m prepared to discuss it if necessary, but I’d rather not bring it up unless the employer has concerns.

I recently received a job offer for a position that I'm really excited about, but I'm feeling a bit uneasy about the salary. The offer came in this week, and although I've been told that the salary is fixed with no range provided, I believe it's lower than what I should be making given my experience and the cost of living in my area. I'm considering negotiating for a higher salary, so I drafted an email template to initiate that conversation. In the email, I expressed my gratitude for the offer and mentioned my relevant experience and education, proposing a salary that is 10% higher than what was originally offered. I'm hoping to get some feedback on this email before I send it out. I've also been thinking about the potential risks involved in asking for more money, especially since they might pull the offer if they feel it's too much. Some advice I received suggested that I might be better off discussing this over the phone instead of via email, as it could lead to a more productive conversation. I'm weighing my options and considering whether to negotiate or accept the offer as is while continuing my job search.

I recently started a new job about a month ago, but I’m already feeling like it’s not the right fit for me. The management has been a bit strange, the pay is lower than I expected, and the growth opportunities seem minimal. Because of this, I’ve been actively applying for other positions and have started to secure some interviews. Before this job, I was unemployed since January, so I’m hesitant to include this current role on my resume since it’s only been a short time. I’m worried about how to explain my situation in interviews. Should I just say I’m still unemployed? I’ve also been juggling my current job's hours while trying to schedule interviews, which has been a bit tricky. I’m looking for advice on how to handle these conversations and what to say if they ask why I’m looking to leave so soon. This is my first experience interviewing while working a traditional 9-5, so any tips would be greatly appreciated!

I have a Master's degree in Cybersecurity, but I'm feeling completely stuck in my job search. Despite applying to numerous positions, making calls (only to find some numbers are disconnected), and reaching out on LinkedIn, I haven't had any success. I've even tried visiting businesses in person, but either they’ve closed down or I’m told I can't speak to anyone without a scheduled meeting, which I can't arrange because no one replies to my inquiries. It's incredibly frustrating and demoralizing to face constant rejection and ghosting. I’m grateful for the networking support I have, but so far, it hasn’t led to any opportunities. My current job is unbearable, and I dislike the city I live in. Just thinking about work brings me down. I feel lost and am contemplating dropping everything to start fresh somewhere else, but I know that’s not a practical solution. I’m reaching out for advice on what else I can do to improve my situation. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

I was laid off recently and it has been a challenging journey finding a new role. I submitted a total of 256 applications over the course of about 2 months before finally receiving my first job offer. It's been a long process, but I learned a lot along the way. I found that the number of applications varies greatly from person to person; for instance, one person mentioned they only applied to about 10 jobs and received an offer after just 4 weeks, while another only needed to apply to 1 job to get hired within days. It's interesting to see the different experiences people have had in their job searches.

I recently handed in my two weeks' notice after nearly five years at my job as an entry-level clerical worker. Initially, my boss respected my role, but over time, I found myself taking on a lot more responsibilities, including tasks typically handled by HR generalists, all while still being paid like an entry-level employee. When I approached my boss about a promotion or raise to reflect my increased workload, he dismissed my request with a dirty look and claimed it was out of his control, despite being the head of HR. He suggested I reach out to higher-ups, but it was clear he wouldn't support me. I already have a new job lined up, so I decided it was time to leave. After submitting my notice, my boss sent out an email about training sessions, excluding me from the list of attendees. While I understand the need for training, I feel strongly that I shouldn't have to train my replacements, especially given how my contributions have been undervalued. I'm grappling with whether I should just stick to my decision and not train anyone, or if I should swallow my pride and help out. It feels wrong to train others when my salary hasn't reflected the work I've done. I know I deserve better, and it’s time to move on.

I’m almost 23 and have never had a formal job. Growing up, I worked in my family’s convenience store until I moved away for college at 20. While that experience taught me patience and kindness, I feel like it hasn’t equipped me with the skills I need for a typical job. I struggle with multitasking, pressure, and stress. I’ve never gone through the interview process or had a structured work schedule, which makes me feel embarrassed and worried about my hireability. I plan to start job hunting in two months after I finish some personal projects. I’m curious if anyone else has been in a similar situation and how it turned out for them.

I’ve been jobless for the past two years after my pregnancy, which has been a really tough journey. After informing my HR about my pregnancy, I was placed on a PIP, and it was a struggle dealing with postpartum challenges alongside joblessness. Despite everything, I kept my spirits up and continued to explore opportunities in content writing across various platforms. Recently, I’ve received two job offers, and I’m feeling quite conflicted about which one to choose. The first opportunity is with a husband-and-wife team in Delhi who are trying to build their YouTube channels into a production setup. I had to really push to get this job, and while I enjoyed the role and they seemed to appreciate my skills, there are some red flags. They have high expectations regarding my work hours and responsibilities, and they’re not offering much of a salary increase because they think I need to restart my career after being out for two years. I’ve had bad experiences in environments where I was expected to drive sales as a content writer, and this setup feels risky given their dynamic. The second offer is my dream role, which is completely remote and offers a 33% salary hike from my previous job. The company culture seems positive, and the HR process was very organized and professional. However, the catch is that the start date is in six weeks, which makes me anxious about waiting. As a fellow mother, I’m torn between taking the immediate job with some uncertainties or waiting for the ideal role that aligns better with my current life situation. What would you do?

I work in a small B2B marketing firm, and I'm feeling really anxious about the future of my job. Our clients have started offshoring their work and hiring AI agent teams, which is making it difficult for us to retain business. With the current economic downturn, many clients are letting us go because they can find similar services at a fraction of the cost in Asia and Latin America. It's disheartening to see this trend, especially since I'm early in my career and I can't help but feel uncertain about my future in this industry. It seems like the job market is becoming increasingly challenging, and I'm left wondering if there's any hope for someone like me.

I recently found myself in the middle of a job search after unexpectedly getting an interview for a new role. Things have been moving quickly! I've already completed the initial HR phone screen, had a conversation with the Art Director, and submitted a design assignment. Now, I'm gearing up for a 39-minute interview with the Hiring Manager. Since it's been a while since I last interviewed, I'm a bit anxious about what to expect. I'm looking for advice on the types of questions that might come up during this stage. Any tips or insights would be greatly appreciated!

I recently accepted a position as an E-Commerce Manager at a small enterprise tech company, but it's turned into a challenging experience. Just three months in, I've found myself managing over 3,000 SKUs across multiple sales channels, dealing with a broken data infrastructure that I had to fix myself, and essentially functioning as the sole web developer for our storefront. I took a $10k pay cut for this role based on promises of unlimited PTO and a good work-life balance, but things have not gone as expected. When I raised concerns about my workload and the occasional weekend work needed for an ERP integration, my COO dismissed my questions about compensation, stating that salaried employees should be ready to make sacrifices. It feels like I'm being asked to lead without the support or recognition I need, especially when I compare my salary of $80k to the $120k+ salaries of the directors I work with. Moreover, the KPIs that were supposed to be established within my first 60 days never materialized, leaving my bonus in limbo. I’ve been delivering on my responsibilities every day, but the unrealistic expectations and lack of communication from my COO have made it hard to feel valued. I’m starting to wonder if I should be looking for a new opportunity where my skills and contributions are better recognized.

I'm feeling really uncertain about whether to apply for this job I've come across. I've shared all the details in my original post, and I'm just looking for some encouragement or honest advice from anyone who's been in a similar situation. I could really use some help making this decision, as I'm feeling a bit stuck right now.

I'm a 27-year-old female with a Bachelor of Commerce, a Master of Commerce, and an MBA, yet I'm still struggling to find a job. It's really disheartening, and I can't shake the feeling that I've wasted my time and education. I've applied to numerous positions, but the responses have been minimal. I'm starting to feel lost and frustrated with the job market.