Feeling

I recently applied for a position at Sonic in Virginia, which is my first job application ever. I was a bit taken aback when I saw they asked for my Social Security Number on the application. I started to feel nervous and wondered if this was a scam, especially since they were using a platform called Olivia.paradox.ai. I reached out to the community for advice, and some people suggested that if I applied through the official Sonic careers page, it should be legitimate. However, I was also warned against giving out my SSN at this stage, as it felt too early in the process. I'm still trying to figure out the best way to proceed.

I’ve been feeling really burnt out at my current job for the past six months and have decided that I need to make a change. The company culture and office politics have been overwhelming, and I often feel unsupported by my manager, who makes backhanded comments instead of offering real help. The lack of training I received at the start has left me struggling to keep up with my workload, and I find myself involved in more departments than necessary, which adds to my stress. I’ve been trying to utilize my benefits while I look for a new direction, but I’m hesitant to stay longer just to gain external training that may not even help me in the long run. I’m considering picking up a random job, possibly in general labor or something with night shifts, just to give myself some breathing room and recover from this burnout. I’m curious if anyone has taken this route before and if it was a good strategy for them. I’m worried about the toll it might take on my body and whether it would hinder my career growth or salary in the future. Should I expect to receive lower offers if I take a step back now? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

This morning, I faced a significant life change as I was laid off from my position after surviving a PIP last June. I had been on edge for months, knowing that another round of layoffs could spell trouble for me. When I saw a VP schedule a 1:1 with me and noticed an HR representative on the call, I knew something was off. The VP explained the restructuring and offered me a severance package of two months, which includes about two weeks of accrued PTO. I’m still processing how to feel about the severance, especially since my company, with around 350 employees, didn't offer severance packages in the past. I learned that a few others were also let go, which adds to the weight of the situation. Interestingly, I feel a strange calm amidst the shock. The anxiety of waiting for the inevitable was more challenging than receiving the news itself. Now, I feel a sense of clarity and relief, as I can finally focus on a personal project I've been nurturing on the side. Reflecting on the past few months, the PIP made me confront uncertainty and prepared me emotionally for this moment. I’m trying to remain positive and view this as an opportunity rather than just a loss. I’m curious to hear from others who have been through layoffs—what helped you navigate the initial weeks after? Right now, I’m embracing this change and looking forward to what comes next.

I currently work at Company A, where I'm sourced to Company B. My group lead at Company A is new and doesn't have much influence, so I'm considering asking my boss at Company B for a reference for a job opening there. It's common for people to transition from Company A to B, which contributes to high turnover at A. My boss at B has been instrumental in setting up a long-standing system that will soon be phased out, and I've been trained by one of the original employees for this task. There's a job opening at Company B that aligns with my skills and offers the chance to move to a different state, which I'm very interested in. I've already submitted my application, but I want to maximize my chances. I'm planning to research the organization to find out more about the position and show my interest. My concern is whether it would be appropriate to ask my boss at Company B for a recommendation, especially since she doesn't know I'm looking for other jobs. I worry it might come off as desperate or that it won't carry much weight in such a large company. I also want to avoid any awkwardness at work if I don’t get the position, as I know it could take a while to find a new job. I appreciate any advice on how to navigate this situation!

I am reaching out for help as my sister is currently in a tough situation after being laid off from a major tech company a few months ago. She had a feeling this was coming as early as October last year and started applying for jobs right away, but unfortunately, she hasn't had any luck so far. Her unemployment benefits are set to end in just six weeks, and her severance package only lasted three months. To make matters worse, her husband also got laid off at the end of June from a tech company that specializes in mobile gaming apps. They live in Centennial, CO, and I feel quite helpless as I can only offer emotional support. I’m hoping to gather any job leads or suggestions for her as a software engineer with experience in the field since 2008. Any assistance would be greatly appreciated.

I’m writing this entry to document my sister’s ongoing struggles at her job. She’s been working from home for a virtual call center that handles government contracts for about a year and a half now. Over the past six months, the work environment has become increasingly toxic, primarily due to her manager, Rick, who seems to be bullying her out of her position. The training she received when she started was subpar, with much of the material being outdated. She went eight months without encountering a specific type of call that was covered in her training, and when those calls finally came in, she felt completely unprepared. Despite taking thorough notes, she struggled because she had never actually practiced handling those calls. When she reached out for help, the response was dismissive, stating that the information was already covered in training. Her original supervisor did provide some assistance, but after going on leave, the interim supervisor requested additional training for her, which Rick denied. I even attended a meeting with Rick where he condescended to her, implying she wasn’t worth the investment of additional resources for training and suggested she consider if she truly belongs in the role. Since that meeting, things have only worsened. Although her original supervisor has returned and tries to help, the workload has become overwhelming, and I can hear her crying and having panic attacks from across the room. To make matters worse, her breaks were reduced from 15 minutes to 10, and her performance is being monitored more closely than ever. Recently, she faced a critical issue regarding her eye condition, which requires regular check-ups. She submitted a request for PTO for an upcoming appointment, but Rick denied it, citing staffing concerns. I suggested she go to the appointment anyway and provide HR with a doctor’s note afterward, but she’s terrified that this could lead to her termination. She’s been job hunting, but the offers she’s received are significantly lower than her current salary, leaving her feeling trapped. I’m trying to help her figure out her options, including how to navigate the company hierarchy to find someone above Rick, whether contacting corporate would be effective or lead to retaliation, and if HR might be a viable resource despite their typical role in protecting the company. I’m just heartbroken watching her struggle like this.

I recently completed four interviews for various positions, and now I'm in a bit of a waiting game. I'm anxiously awaiting responses from two companies that I interviewed with, but I can't shake the feeling of uncertainty about whether I'll land either job. It's a nerve-wracking experience, but I'm trying to remind myself that even if I don't get an offer, each interview is a valuable opportunity to learn and improve for the next one.

I've been actively searching for a part-time job as a carer, but I'm struggling to find opportunities. I've applied to several positions, but haven't had much luck so far. I'm hoping to connect with others who might have tips or leads on available roles in this field.

I recently graduated with a Master of Mass Communications and am currently working in a legal setting. However, I'm eager to transition into a customer success role. While my background is primarily legal, I've gained valuable transferable skills from interacting with clients and providing excellent customer service. I often receive compliments for my ability to help clients navigate complex legal terminology. I'm passionate about helping people and believe that if I could just land an interview, my personality would shine through. I'm seeking advice on how to break into the customer success field despite lacking direct experience. Additionally, I'm considering including past customer-facing roles, like cashier and sales associate, on my resume. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!

Today, I am feeling particularly disheartened about my father's job search. He has been unemployed for nearly three years now after being laid off from his position in Data & Business Analysis during the summer of 2024. Despite having a B.S. in Computer Science and extensive experience, including senior roles, he has struggled to find work in Texas. It's painful to watch him, a veteran of the Navy reserves, face rejection after rejection. We've updated his resume together and applied to countless positions, but it seems like every door is closed. The situation is becoming dire; he doesn't even have a car anymore due to financial struggles, which limits his ability to seek out opportunities. My family and I are doing our best to support him, but the emotional toll is heavy. I've never seen my dad so defeated, and it hurts to see someone who has sacrificed so much for our family in such a tough position. As someone who is just starting my own career, I feel helpless in trying to assist him. I really don't know what more we can do to help him turn this around.

I was an air traffic controller for over a decade, but I’ve recently been medically disqualified due to unsatisfactory eyesight. This has been a tough transition for me, as I now need to pivot my career and start fresh in the private sector. I hold a bachelor's degree in communications and want to stay within the transportation industry. I'm exploring roles like transportation analyst or logistics analyst, as I believe my skills in making critical decisions under pressure and understanding workflow priorities could be valuable. I'm seeking advice on what specific positions to look into and how to leverage my experience in this new direction.

I got laid off in May and have been actively job hunting since then. I've gone through interviews with six different companies so far, and I've noticed a common pattern: the interview process typically consists of four rounds — a phone screen, a large panel interview, a direct supervisor interview, and finally, a CEO interview. I'm currently at the final stage with one of these companies, where I've been scheduled for a 15-minute CEO interview. In a different job market, I would think this means I'm likely to receive an offer, and that this is just a formality. However, I've heard from others that there can still be 2 to 4 candidates in the running at this stage, which seems a bit crazy to me. I'm trying to understand how a 15-minute interview could help a CEO decide between multiple equally qualified candidates who have made it this far. While I know that I can't predict this employer's intentions, I'm trying to keep my mind occupied while I wait. I'm curious about others' experiences with CEO interviews. Did it lead to an offer for you? Did you face rejection afterward? How many candidates were you up against? I'd especially like to hear from HR professionals at smaller companies.

I recently got laid off from my position, and I’ve been reflecting on what comes next. I’m curious about others' experiences after being let go or quitting their jobs. Did you find your next opportunity to be significantly better or worse? From what I’ve gathered, many people have had positive outcomes after layoffs. For instance, one person shared that being laid off was the best thing that ever happened to them, despite the initial challenges. Another individual mentioned that they landed a new superintendent role in construction just six weeks after being let go, and they received a 20% raise. On the other hand, there are also those who faced tougher situations, struggling to make ends meet while stuck in contracts. I can see how the company you leave and your mindset can play a huge role in your next steps. I’m particularly interested in hearing about experiences from people who have been laid off more recently, especially in this tightening job market. For me, I hope to find something better, like the person who got a new role in a non-toxic environment with better pay just two weeks after their layoff. It’s a mixed bag out there, and I’m eager to see where my journey leads.

I recently went through a fifth interview for a temporary office position at a company that makes aircraft covers. I had felt really positive about the previous interviews, all of which were virtual, but this final one took a turn for the worse. They kept waiting for another candidate to join, and when he finally did, he walked in late and immediately started grilling me with the same questions I had already answered. It felt like he was trying to assert his authority, especially when he made a comment about how he earned his position from the ground up. I was already feeling frustrated when I arrived, as the first person I encountered yelled at me for being there, claiming they weren't doing interviews. Thankfully, someone else came to my aid, but the whole experience left me feeling humiliated. I received an email the next morning saying I wasn't selected, which was no surprise given how poorly the interview went. The search for a job continues, and I can't help but wonder how many more humiliations I have to endure.

I recently parted ways with my employer and filed for unemployment benefits. After a month, I had my fact-finding interview and was approved. However, I had a second job at a cafe from February to May, and I lost my main job at a restaurant in July after five years. I thought my unemployment claim only involved my last employer, but now my past employer from the cafe has filed an appeal against my benefits. They claim they submitted their paperwork on time, but I was informed that they filed it too late. I don’t understand why they’re involved since they weren’t my last employer, and now I’m facing the possibility of having to pay back my benefits. This is really concerning because I relied on that money for bills, especially since my boyfriend was supporting me during the waiting period. I just started a new job this week, so I won’t be receiving any more unemployment benefits. To complicate matters, I was fired from the cafe over text without any prior warnings. The reason given was lateness, which was never discussed with me until after I was let go. There was a misunderstanding regarding my absence due to being sick, and although I continued working there for over a month after that incident, I was still blindsided by my termination. I’m hoping that the lack of official warnings about my job performance will help my case in keeping my unemployment benefits. I don’t understand how a previous employer can affect my claim when I filed after separating from my last job due to an injury. I’ve been cleared to work light duty, but there were no accommodations available for my injury at my last job. I just want to make it clear that I’m not trying to take advantage of the system. I simply filed for unemployment after losing my job unexpectedly due to my injury. I’m looking for advice on how to navigate this appeal process and what I can say to clarify my situation.

I recently got laid off from my accounting job, and honestly, I'm feeling pretty lost right now. I've been in this field for years, and at 32, I realize I've never truly enjoyed it. I just tolerated the 9-5 grind, but it has drained me for so long that I feel like I've been living on autopilot. Being in a role that doesn't resonate with me has made me feel trapped. Now that I'm on my own financially, I feel the pressure to go back to accounting just to make ends meet, especially considering the current economic situation here in Québec. It's frustrating because I've been wanting to make a significant change in my life—not just find another job but pursue something that truly makes me feel alive. However, I'm at a loss for what direction to take. I have so many questions swirling in my mind: How do I figure out what I want when I feel so uncertain? How can I manage the financial pressure while trying to pivot careers? Has anyone successfully left a stable but unfulfilling job for something better? And how do I even start exploring new paths when everything feels so overwhelming? I've been journaling a lot about my feelings and what brings me joy, but I still can't seem to find any clear answers. I'm reaching out for some perspective and advice from anyone who has been through a similar situation.

I recently applied for several administrative positions on Indeed, and yesterday I received an email from a construction company asking if I was still interested in a role. I replied affirmatively. However, today I received a follow-up email that seemed unusual and raised my suspicions about whether this could be a scam. The email addressed me simply as "Applicant," which felt off, as I expected a more personal touch. I’m feeling quite nervous about the legitimacy of this opportunity. I plan to call the company to confirm if this is a real job offer.

Today, I learned that Zillow is laying off just over 500 employees as part of their strategy to stay competitive in the future. It's a tough situation, and I'm feeling the impact of this decision. I hope they can find innovative solutions to avoid more layoffs down the road, like leveraging AI in their house flipping initiatives. It's a challenging time for everyone involved.

I was recently furloughed from my job and faced a frustrating situation where my employer effectively initiated a job abandonment without any communication about my layoff. After a month of silence post-furlough, I’m now in the process of filing for unemployment benefits. On top of that, I'm outraged that the unemployment laws in my area haven't changed since 2005. The minimum and maximum benefit amounts have remained stagnant for 21 years, which feels unacceptable, especially considering the challenges many families face, including those with dependents who have disabilities. I’m considering starting a petition and organizing protests to urge the governor to take action and change these outdated laws. I really want to know if anyone has had success in advocating for changes in their state’s unemployment system. It's disheartening to see how little progress has been made, and I feel like we need to fight for better support for those who are struggling.

I graduated with a Computer Science degree this past May, but I'm struggling to find a job in my field. I had an internship that didn't lead to a return offer, and now I'm working at an IT company where my dad is a VP. While I have the same responsibilities as my colleagues, it feels more like I'm just filling a spot rather than being a valued employee. I'm earning $15 an hour full-time with no benefits, and although there's talk of potential upward mobility, I can't shake the feeling that this might be a dead end for me. I've thought about joining the military, but that's a last resort. I'm really unsure about my next steps and whether I should be applying to other jobs.