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I missed an unscheduled call from a company I applied to a couple of weeks ago. The call came in on Friday, the 22nd, around 5:30 PM EST, but since they are a west coast company, I didn't see it until after 5 PM. I listened to the voicemail, which was very brief, just the name of the caller and the company. I figured I’d try to call back on Monday, but it was Memorial Day, so I waited until Tuesday. I left a message with my name, the role I was interested in, and my number, but got no answer. I tried again on Thursday with a similar message, but still haven’t heard back. Yesterday, I reached out to someone I know at the company on LinkedIn, asking for guidance since someone had reached out to me. I don’t expect a quick response, but I’m feeling anxious about missing that initial call. I’m wondering if this is a bad look for me and if I should just move on or hold out hope.

I’ve been struggling to find stable work for years. From ages 18 to 21, I tried relentlessly to get any kind of blue-collar job, but I never even got a chance to interview. My cousin faced the same fate. After that, I went to college, majoring in Computer Science, which I now see as a terrible financial mistake. If I hadn’t gone to school, I could have saved up $100,000 to $150,000 from minimum wage jobs instead of the measly $25,000 I have now. I feel like I’m just leeching off my parents, and I’m almost 30 with no real independence. I often think about giving up entirely, even considering drastic measures like moving away and donating my savings to charity. I feel lost and regretful about my life choices and wish things were different.

I recently started a management position at a new company after being unemployed for two months, and I'm already facing serious challenges. Initially, my relationship with my manager was positive, but everything changed after another employee was promoted. I’ve noticed a clear favoritism towards that employee, who has been given extra training and opportunities that I am being denied. My manager has been treating me differently than my colleagues. He discourages me from doing tasks that others can do, like asking for positive reviews, and he interrupts my interactions with customers. He often bypasses me when it comes to assigning management responsibilities, which is incredibly frustrating. One particularly humiliating incident occurred when my shirt became untucked while I was helping a customer. Even though no one could see my back, my manager laughed with a coworker and then loudly reprimanded me in front of the customer, insisting that I fix my clothing. He even suggested I needed a larger shirt size and made comments about it being inappropriate to 'flash customers.' This was not only embarrassing but also unprofessional. To make matters worse, I have been written up and placed on a performance improvement plan less than 90 days into my job, without any prior warning. The write-up includes inaccuracies that my manager refuses to correct, insisting that I just need to sign it. He often fails to communicate important information and gives unhelpful responses when I ask questions. He has even interfered with my ability to do my job by moving items out of my reach and withholding information. I feel anxious every time I have to work with him, and I believe his behavior has created a hostile work environment. I’m considering documenting these concerns with HR and would appreciate any advice on how to proceed.

I recently quit my job as a customer service representative after just two weeks. I left on a Saturday, which was the end of the pay period, and my boss assured me I would be paid after that pay period. Today was supposed to be payday, but I still haven't received my check. I reached out to my boss to inquire about the missing payment and also mentioned that my hours were incorrect, but she completely ignored my question about the hours. I'm feeling really confused about whether this is legal or if they can just withhold my pay like this. I'm considering talking to HR for clarification, but I'm worried they might not handle it properly. Any advice on what steps I should take next?

I'm a 22-year-old woman currently unemployed and feeling lost in life. I worked in customer service for four years but quit a few months ago, and now I'm living with my parents while my savings are slowly dwindling. I feel really unmotivated and am losing hope in myself. Whenever I look at job listings, I realize I'm mostly qualified for more customer service roles, which only leads me to feel overwhelmed and anxious. I have an associate's degree in graphic design, but I don't feel passionate about it, especially with the rise of AI in the field. I'm just tired of working with the public and am considering going back to college, but I'm unsure what to study and fear making the wrong choice. My dream job is a stable office position where I can do the same tasks every day, as long as I can afford to live. Being a marginalized woman, I feel like I have to take whatever I can get, but customer service has really drained my spirit. I know this post might get lost in the crowd, but I just needed to share my feelings.

I recently had a frustrating experience with job interviews that left me feeling disheartened. I was invited to several interviews, believing that this meant the companies saw potential in me. However, during these interviews, it became clear that the interviewers were not interested in me at all. They seemed more focused on other candidates, asking them more questions while I was left feeling sidelined. I can't help but wonder if it's something about my in-person presentation or my resume that turns them off. It’s disappointing to think that they could have been upfront about my chances instead of leading me on. This whole process feels so confusing and disheartening.

I've been reflecting on my work history and it feels like every job I take ends up being a sinking ship about six months in. I'm 34 now, and I acknowledge that I might be missing some red flags during the interview process. However, I've often found myself in situations where I couldn't afford to be too picky. Every job I've joined seemed solid at the start, but then things change drastically after a few months. Currently, I'm at a small company where I was hired a year ago with three coworkers in my department. Now, there's just one other person left, and management has made it clear that they have no plans to hire anyone soon. My coworker and I are overwhelmed, doing the work of two people and constantly falling behind. I've even been 'unofficially written up' twice for missing tasks. I'm about to give my notice, but I feel terrible about leaving my coworker in such a tough spot. It seems like this pattern of high turnover and lack of hiring is something I can't escape. Is it just bad luck on my part, or is this the reality of the job market now? I really wonder if companies are just not hiring when someone quits anymore.

I recently had to quit my job in North Dakota due to a hostile work environment. My boss retaliated against me after I reported a co-worker who made me feel threatened. This was the second time I faced retaliation for going to upper management about this issue. We were supposed to have a meeting to discuss the situation, but when I met with my manager and two other store-level managers, my main manager became aggressive immediately. He raised his voice and demanded I provide examples of why I felt threatened, even though I never said my life was in danger. I only expressed that I felt my co-worker could potentially strike me due to his unpredictable anger. During the meeting, my manager didn't even consider reviewing the security camera footage, instead insisting I was lying. It felt incredibly unfair, especially since the two managers present weren't even at the store when the incidents occurred. My manager doesn't do formal write-ups, which means there's no documented evidence of any issues, allowing him to manipulate the situation as he sees fit. I also struggled with punctuality, but that was largely due to the lack of a consistent schedule. I was initially given a 9-5 shift for the first month, but then it changed to 3-11 without notice, making it hard to arrive on time. Now I'm left wondering if I have a case for wrongful termination or if I ruined my chances by quitting without enough evidence. It’s frustrating to feel like I was put in such a difficult position.

I was laid off in March and it took me until mid-April to roll over my Rollover IRA funds. Life has been hectic, and I didn't prioritize it. Recently, I overheard a couple talking about the significant gains their 401K has been making due to the market hitting all-time highs, and it hit me hard. I've essentially been sitting on the sidelines, missing out on those potential gains. It's frustrating to realize how an unexpected layoff and my own lack of action can really impact my financial situation.

I’ve been feeling really burnt out lately, and I can’t help but wonder if it’s strange to feel this way after everything that’s happened since last November. I was betrayed by someone at my previous job, which left me in shock and filled with anger and depression. I lost that job right before I was supposed to get a performance raise in January and I missed my three-year anniversary in March. The stress took a toll on me physically; I gained weight because I stopped going to the gym, and I even started losing hair and getting white hairs. My doctor prescribed me blood pressure and anxiety pills, and I’m still taking the blood pressure medication. Job hunting has been brutal. I’ve mostly been ghosted by employers, and the few interviews I did have were disheartening. One CEO even laughed at me during an interview, saying, "It looks like you've worked everywhere." I managed to get two jobs, one in January and another in late February. The first job was only one night a week, and when they wouldn’t accommodate my schedule, I quit. The HR person texted me asking if I was going to resign or if they should do it for me after I only called out twice. The second job I started in February ended badly; I was fired on the first of last month because my supervisor claimed I never did what he told me to do. Last Friday, I finally got a job offer that I accepted. It’s with a company where I won’t be a probationary employee like I was at Costco. I’ll be full-time, earning the same pay, and my benefits will kick in as soon as I start. You’d think I’d feel happy about this, but honestly, I don’t.

I received an unexpected call on Monday while grocery shopping, and the caller jumped straight into an interview without introducing themselves or mentioning the company. I had to ask for details about the role and the company, as I didn't recall applying for this position. After I did my usual pitch, the caller surprisingly invited me to meet the team the next day. He confirmed my email and promised to send more details, but I haven't received anything yet and the meeting is first thing in the morning. I don't even know the caller's name or position, and the number just connects to reception. I'm considering just showing up at 9:30 as planned and telling reception my name and the meeting details. Should I go for it?

I graduated with my bachelor's in economics in May 2024 and have been applying for jobs ever since, but I've had no luck. I completed my master's degree in October 2025, and I'm still searching for a position. To make ends meet, I've been doing Uber Eats since May 2024, but the wear and tear on my car is becoming a concern as the repairs are getting more expensive with the added mileage. It's frustrating to be in this situation, especially when I see others who graduated around the same time struggling as well. The job market seems to have worsened since 2024, and despite my qualifications, opportunities are scarce. I'm trying to stay positive and consistent in my job applications, hoping that something will come through soon.

I've been feeling really defeated in my job search lately. For the past year, I've been applying to 50-100 jobs each week, which means I set a daily goal of 10-15 applications. I put a lot of effort into customizing my resumes, but the response has been disheartening. I've only had three interviews this entire time, and the one where I was a final candidate ended with them choosing someone internal. I've tried working with recruiters and headhunters, and I've even been open to relocating. I let go of my preference for hybrid or remote work and started looking for positions that require a daily commute, even if it means traveling up to 90 minutes. In my desperation, I reached out on LinkedIn for help, but out of over 1000 connections, only two responded with referrals, and it's been over two weeks without any updates. I've also considered hourly jobs, but it turns out I'm overqualified due to my Master's degree. I took on adjunct teaching, but the pay is low and my hours were cut due to declining enrollment. I even explored starting my own business and spent three months doing research, but I can't find anyone willing to partner with me. Most software developers want upfront payment and aren't interested in equity. I've messaged recruiters and hiring managers, highlighting my skills and experience, but I often get ghosted or no response at all. The mental toll of applying constantly for a year and facing rejection is exhausting. I've thought about going back to day trading since I had success in the past, but I know the market has changed. People suggest careers in Sales or Real Estate, but those fields seem just as competitive and saturated. At this point, I'm out of ideas and just feel drained. I hear about phantom jobs and wonder if many positions aren't even real. I genuinely need help and advice on what to do next.

I recently completed the final technical interview for a position I was really excited about. It was about a week and a half ago, and I felt that I performed well. The interviewers seemed to like my responses, and I didn't make any major mistakes. They mentioned that I should expect to hear back within two weeks, regardless of the outcome. However, I just noticed that the company posted again on social media about the job opening, which has me worried. I've had experiences where companies hire multiple candidates for a single position, so I'm not sure how to interpret this. I'm feeling anxious about the situation and would appreciate any insights.

I recently applied for a job at a country club alongside a friend who used to work there. When the managers saw his application, they quickly reached out to confirm his identity and hired him almost immediately due to their familiarity with his work ethic and reliability. The kitchen is currently short-staffed, with employees working around 60 hours a week, so they are actively seeking help. During a conversation with the managers about his schedule, my friend recommended me for the open position. He highlighted that I was instrumental in helping him secure his job and shared our past experiences working together. He mentioned how I covered shifts for him when he was sick and provided him rides to work, emphasizing my kitchen experience. He reassured the managers that I wouldn't require extensive training since I already know how to cook and operate in a kitchen environment; I would just need a few days to learn their specific menu and procedures. Another friend who works there also noted that they prefer hiring individuals with experience to avoid the constant cycle of training new hires who leave quickly. My friend is scheduled to meet with the kitchen manager on Thursday and plans to mention me again. He also informed me that one of the managers had already inquired about my application and wanted my name to keep an eye out for it, which he provided. I'm curious about how much weight employee referrals carry in the kitchen job market, especially at a higher-end establishment like this country club. Have any of you landed jobs due to a friend's recommendation, and how did that turn out?

I was laid off from my job on May 1, and my insurance coverage ended on May 31. My husband has just been diagnosed with a serious blood condition that requires weekly treatment, and he is currently not working. On top of that, I have lupus and we face multiple health issues together. Our monthly medications are going to cost over $6,000, even with every possible discount applied. If I have a bad flare-up, I may need additional medical care and hearing aids, as I am deaf, though not legally so. I managed to get our prescriptions filled for three months just before losing our coverage. I can't afford COBRA, so I immediately applied for MassHealth through the connector. I've spoken to representatives multiple times but am still waiting for a decision. I'm reaching out to see how others have managed their health insurance while being unemployed.

I was recently made redundant after over 5 years at my job, and my last day felt incredibly anticlimactic. I had hoped for some acknowledgment of my time there, maybe even a simple thank you card, but nothing came. It hit me hard, realizing that all those years seemed to mean nothing in the end, and it was a stark reminder that I was just a number to the company. I'm struggling with the emotional fallout of this experience and would love to hear how others managed to push through similar situations.

I recently experienced a strange layoff process at my service-based organization where I had been part of a stable project for the past four years. Due to a new company policy regarding employee rotation, I was released after triggering two points of the company's 90-day bench policy. On May 24, my HR asked me to resign, and after several follow-ups, I officially resigned on May 27. However, my last working day (LWD) has not been confirmed yet, and it seems to be set for July 27 by default. I submitted all my company assets and ID, as I had to return to my hometown last week. I'm unsure whether I should follow up with HR about my LWD, especially since I'm not in a hurry to find a new job, as I currently have no offers. Is this situation normal? Should I still look for a new project within the organization, despite my location constraints?

I recently went through the second round of interviews for a position in Maryland, and I felt really positive about how it went. The interviewers seemed engaged and interested in my background, and I thought I made a strong connection with them. However, it's been a couple of weeks now, and I haven't heard anything back. I reached out to follow up, but I've been completely ghosted. It's frustrating to put in so much effort and not receive any feedback, especially when I felt the interviews went well.

I recently went through a challenging experience at my job where I was put on a Performance Improvement Plan (PIP). After careful consideration and advice from friends in HR, I decided to pursue the PIP instead of taking a severance package. Unfortunately, despite meeting the metrics outlined in the plan, I was ultimately let go. During the PIP process, I felt a significant shift in my relationship with my manager. Before the PIP, we had a friendly rapport, and I genuinely believed that this was an opportunity for growth. The company continued to invest in my development, sending me on business trips and including me in team offsites, which made me think there was a real chance for improvement. However, I started to feel socially excluded, especially during an offsite where I noticed I was often left out of team activities. For example, I only found out about lunch plans after asking a coworker, and the next day, the team went to lunch without me entirely. Despite these moments, I actively participated in all scheduled activities and tried to engage with my colleagues, hoping to strengthen our relationships. However, on the last day of the trip, my manager and some teammates left dinner early without saying goodbye, which felt particularly isolating given our remote work arrangement. Looking back, I realized that the feedback I received during the PIP often felt subjective. My strategic recommendations were sometimes perceived as uncertainty, which was frustrating since I had clear plans and rationale behind my ideas. I even shared my concerns with HR to document my experience, knowing that PIPs can often lead to termination. It’s been hard to process the whole situation, especially since I thought my relationship with my manager was positive before this. I'm curious if anyone else has faced similar dynamics after being placed on a PIP.