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I recently accepted a job offer and signed the official documents on Monday. However, just a day later, I received a call from another company after a quick 15-minute phone interview. They want to schedule an official interview for Thursday or Friday, and this position could pay $5,000 more and is only about 20 minutes from my home. The job I accepted is about a 40-minute commute, which feels daunting since I've been working remotely for the past six years. The downside to the potential new job is that it seems like there might not be much room for growth, which could make it a short-term gig of 1-2 years. On the other hand, I'm excited about the culture at the job I accepted, and they asked about my growth plans during the interview, which I found encouraging. However, I'm concerned that the long commute might wear on me, and I might not last long unless they allow for a hybrid work model, which they mentioned could be possible for exceptions but is primarily on-site. Now I'm in a bit of a dilemma. If I get an offer from the other company after I've already started at my new job (my start date is August 3rd), how can I navigate the situation without burning bridges? Also, if the other company offers me the job before my start date, am I allowed to back out of the first job? I live in South Carolina, which is a right-to-fire state, so I assume I can withdraw without needing to provide a reason since the contract states they can rescind the offer for any reason.

I recently had a disappointing experience while interviewing for a position at Dollar Tree. I had just worked for about a month at Target, which was my first official job aside from school job training. I resigned from Target for emotional reasons, and when I went into the Dollar Tree interview, I was caught off guard when the interviewer mumbled, "I’m looking for someone with a littttllkeee more experience..." I was shocked and thought to myself, "Then why did you call me for an interview?" I tried to stay calm and mentioned that my school job training had provided me with relevant experience, but she quickly cut me off, shook my hand lightly, and said she had other applicants to consider. I left feeling less confident, especially when I got home and saw that my application status had changed to "no longer considered" just ten minutes later. It feels so frustrating that employers expect candidates to have experience but are not willing to give anyone a chance to gain that experience. How are we supposed to get more experience if we can't even get hired in the first place?

I was recently asked to resign from my position because my employer is transitioning to a different Employer of Record (EOR) or contractor. They mentioned that I would be onboarded through this new platform afterward. I'm feeling uncertain about whether I should actually resign or if there are implications for my rights and compensation. I don't have much experience in these matters, so I'm looking for advice. Some people suggested that I should let them terminate me instead or ensure everything is documented. Others pointed out that my rights might depend on my location and any contracts I've signed. I’m considering stating that my resignation will only be effective once I'm officially hired by the new contractor. This whole situation is quite confusing.

I recently applied for a position at Golden Entertainment, a gaming company that posted a job opening in my town. After being let go from my previous job, I've been actively searching for new opportunities and checking their website daily. I was excited to see this listing and quickly submitted my application, highlighting my 12 years of relevant experience in the industry. To my surprise, just four hours later, I received an email from their HR representative praising my resume and stating that I was a perfect fit for the role. However, she informed me that they had already made an offer to another candidate but would keep my resume on file for future openings. What’s been bothering me is that the job listing is still active on their website, which my friend mentioned could be a tactic for tax purposes. This has left me feeling anxious and paranoid, wondering if my previous employer might have influenced their decision against me. I’m trying to stay hopeful and continue applying elsewhere, but I can’t shake the feeling that I might be missing out on a chance at Golden. Should I take the HR lady's word that they filled the position so quickly, or should I just move on? Any advice would be appreciated!

I recently interviewed for a position at a company where I felt the interview went well, despite lacking some of the qualifications they were looking for. I was really motivated and didn't expect to get that far in the process. They told me I would receive feedback by the end of the week, but after a week of silence, I finally got a rejection email. They cited my lack of qualifications as the reason for not moving forward and mentioned they had already chosen another candidate. What really threw me off was that shortly after my rejection, the job was reposted on multiple platforms, including their own career portal. It felt strange to be told they were moving forward with other candidates while simultaneously seeing the same job opening up again. It made me wonder if I was just interviewed to meet a quota rather than being genuinely considered for the role. Has anyone else experienced something similar? It feels a bit disheartening.

I recently started my first job about 4-5 weeks ago, and I’m already facing some serious issues. I’m 16 years old and the workplace has been incredibly unprofessional. One of the managers, whom I’ll refer to as B, has a reputation for being aggressive. She yells at employees and has even physically shoved me during my shifts. This isn’t just me exaggerating; she has a history of treating employees poorly. To make matters worse, I still haven’t been able to access Team Live because I never received the verification email. Without access, I can’t see my schedule or paycheck information. I haven’t been paid yet either, which is really concerning. I’ve tried to resolve this multiple times. The first time I called the store, B answered and was incredibly rude, hanging up on me before I could explain my situation. I called again when she wasn’t there, and a nicer manager took my details, promising to email me by the end of the night, but it’s been two days and I still haven’t heard anything. Communication at this store is terrible. I spoke with a coworker who mentioned that when she asked B for help, B snapped at her, showing a complete lack of respect. Customers have even noticed her behavior, and some have called her out for it. I’m really worried about the lack of professionalism, the physical aggression, and the disrespectful communication. I love being able to help out, but I’m struggling to adjust to the toxic environment. I’m unsure how to proceed, especially since my friend who works there said they probably won’t contact me about the issues I’ve raised. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

I’m currently a 3rd-year Electrical Engineering student at King's College London, and I'm looking to transition from my background in hospitality and retail into part-time office or administrative work. I've gained some relevant experience, including front-desk receptionist duties, client communications, and order fulfillment, along with proficiency in Excel and Word. However, despite my efforts, I keep facing rejections for basic office roles. I have a feeling that my extensive customer service background might be holding me back. I'm seeking advice on the best agencies or job boards in London that cater to flexible part-time office positions that fit around university hours. Additionally, I would appreciate any quick feedback on my CV to help me present a more corporate and office-focused image. Thank you!

I just got laid off from my role, and honestly, it hit me like a ton of bricks. I always tried to be the go-to person in my team, putting in extra effort and making sure my manager knew how valuable I was. They often praised my work and even gave me decent raises, so I thought I was secure. But then, out of nowhere, I received a meeting invite that changed everything. In that meeting, I was informed that I was being laid off, despite my contributions and the fact that just three months ago, 25% of my team was let go with the assurance that we wouldn't be affected this year. I was shocked to learn that my name was on the list, and my manager said it came from higher-ups. It makes me wonder how they even got my name if my manager didn't suggest it. Now, I have a decent severance package, but I still have to pretend everything is fine for the next three months while I prepare for interviews. It's been two weeks since the layoff, and I'm trying to gather my thoughts and get back into the job market. If anyone has been through something similar, I would really appreciate any advice on how to navigate this situation and make the most of it.

After 3.5 months of job searching, I finally landed a position! I sent out 171 resumes, faced 154 rejections or ghostings, and managed to schedule 17 interviews. Unfortunately, 2 interviews were cancelled before they even took place because the companies suddenly found other candidates. Out of the 14 first-round interviews I had, 12 resulted in rejections or ghostings. I did make it to the second round for 2 interviews, but one of them rejected me after I performed well, citing they found an internal candidate. However, the second interview went well, and I received a job offer the very next day, which I accepted. I feel incredibly lucky to have found a job in just 3.5 months, especially considering the current job market is the worst I've ever seen—much worse than during the 2008/09 financial crisis. Interviewers often seemed hostile and disinterested, asking bizarre questions that felt more like psychological tests than genuine assessments. It felt like they were looking for any reason to disqualify candidates. Building rapport was challenging, especially when interviewers were unfriendly and used trick questions. Interestingly, I discovered that both of the second-round interviews I passed were because I accidentally found common interests with the interviewers. It's disheartening to realize that so much of this process is based on luck and numbers, rather than fair assessments of skills and fit.

I recently went through a layoff at my previous job as a marketing coordinator at a tech startup. When I received my severance package, I realized I had no idea that I could negotiate it. I wish I had known that negotiating severance was an option because I felt overwhelmed and just accepted what was offered. I later learned from friends that many people successfully negotiated for better terms, like extended health benefits or a larger payout. If I could go back, I would definitely push for more clarity on the terms and ask for additional support, like career coaching or outplacement services. For those currently in negotiations, I recommend researching common practices and being prepared to advocate for yourself. Hearing real experiences from others would have made a huge difference for me.

I recently learned that Agoda laid off around 50 employees in Singapore in 2025, including someone I know. What's particularly concerning is that the company allegedly warned affected staff against reporting these layoffs to government agencies. They even included a clause in their severance agreements that threatened to revoke severance pay if anyone reached out to the Ministry of Manpower or other related bodies. This tactic seems to be a blatant attempt to intimidate employees into silence, despite it being illegal under Singapore's Employment Act. It feels like they are banking on the fact that most people won't challenge them due to the high costs of legal action.

Today was a tough day for me as I faced two rejections within just three hours. It’s disheartening, especially considering I have my MBA and a bachelor's in supply chain management, along with over seven years of experience in the field. The first rejection hit hard; I invested $750 out of my own pocket to travel for the interview, and after waiting nearly two weeks, I received a generic response that felt like a corporate brush-off. It really makes you question the values of the company. The second rejection was equally frustrating. I took a cognitive test that I know I passed based on my previous experiences with Wonderlic tests. However, it seems I was marked down on the behavioral sections, despite the instructions stating there were no right or wrong answers. It feels like I was misled, and it’s incredibly frustrating to deal with such inconsistencies. This experience has left me feeling disillusioned with the corporate culture in this country. Something definitely needs to change. I appreciate the support from others who understand the struggle; it’s a tough job market out there.

I recently received a rejection email from a company I had interviewed with for a marketing position. What struck me as particularly odd was a typo in the email. Instead of saying 'We appreciate your interest in the role,' it said 'We appreciate your interest in the roll.' I couldn't help but chuckle at the mistake, but it also made me wonder about the professionalism of their hiring process. It's been a tough job search, and this just added a strange twist to my experience.

I'm preparing for a job loss in 30 days as my employer has informed me that my last day will be on 8/21. I've been with this company for a while, and it's tough to face this reality, especially since they are the largest employer in my town of about 120,000 people. I plan to update my resume and start sending it out, but I'm also taking a hard look at my finances. I'm revisiting my budget to see how I can cut costs, like finding cheaper car insurance and canceling unnecessary subscriptions. I just renewed my lease for another year, and while I could potentially break it due to my situation, I'm hesitant to spend my energy on relocating, especially since my credit isn't great and finding a new place without a job would be challenging. I know I can apply for internal positions within the company, but I’m concerned about the limited job market outside, as many positions won't match my current pay, which is already below what I should be earning given my qualifications. On top of that, I've just started repaying my student loans, and I want to explore options to lower my payments given these circumstances. I appreciate any advice on how to navigate this situation, especially regarding personal preparations I should consider.

I recently signed an offer with a software company that has around 200 employees. After accepting, I was informed about a potential 2-week onboarding trip to their London office. While the company will cover the trip, it involves a significant commitment, including a 15-hour flight each way, and I would need to rearrange a lot at home. My wife has work commitments as well, which adds to the complexity of this situation. I was surprised that this trip was only mentioned after I signed the offer, and it raises some concerns for me. I’ve had a previous onboarding experience that ended with a layoff, so I’m feeling a bit cautious about this. I’m wondering if it’s common for companies, especially smaller ones, to spring such plans on new hires after the offer is signed. For those who have joined international companies, do you think this is a good sign or a red flag? I’m also curious if this type of onboarding trip is typically presented as a benefit during the recruitment process. I’d appreciate any insights or advice on how to handle this situation.

I've been really struggling in the job market as an engineer. This month, I applied to three positions and managed to land interviews for all of them, but unfortunately, I faced rejection each time. I even took a day off from my job at the post office to attend one of the interviews. During one interview, the interviewer was so impressed that they thought I was using AI to answer questions. I was taken aback by that but assured them I wasn't. They mentioned moving me to the next round with the regional sales manager, but then I was ghosted completely. I checked my application status and saw I was not selected, and despite reaching out for an update, I didn't get any response. It hit me hard, and I shed a few tears over it. But reflecting on it, I realized that getting three interviews in such a short time is a sign that I'm on the right track. I just need to keep refining my approach and applying more. The job market feels like a numbers game, and I'm determined to keep pushing forward. Tomorrow, I plan to use tools like Claude to help tailor my applications and apply to even more jobs. Additionally, I applied for a pre-apprenticeship program specifically for women, which is unpaid but offers valuable trade skills. I tested into the program and received an email for a physical assessment, which I'm grateful the post office allowed me to take another day off for. This program could significantly improve my chances of getting a job with the Illinois Department of Labor. I refuse to go back to school and take on more loans after my experience with my mechanical engineering degree. Instead, I'm pursuing this trade route, which only takes three months and offers certifications like OSHA 10 and First Aid/CPR. This is my Plan B if I can't find a job soon.

I was laid off from my job as a host at a local restaurant due to an overstaffing issue. It was tough to hear that I was one of the chosen ones to go, and I felt a mix of anger and disappointment towards my boss. However, I believe there’s no bad blood between us, at least from his perspective. Now, I’m contemplating whether it’s okay to return to the restaurant as a customer because they have the best gelato and french fries. I'm worried about how awkward it might be, and I’m wondering how soon is too soon to go back after being laid off. Some friends suggested giving it a month, while others said I should just go enjoy the food without stressing about it. I really just want to avoid any uncomfortable interactions.

I'm 17 years old and have never attended high school due to severe mental health issues and a lot of instability in my life. I plan to start GED courses once I turn 18, which is a requirement in my area. I've never had a job before, but I'm eager to find something simple, like a retail position. I've been considering applying to Michael's because I think the environment would be manageable for me, unlike fast-food jobs which I know I couldn't handle. I've felt incredibly isolated throughout my teenage years and only made a few friends recently. Social situations have been challenging for me, often leading to anxiety attacks. However, I've been working on improving my social skills by attending local live music shows. Still, I feel like I lack basic knowledge and skills that most people my age have. I don't have a resume, any prior work experience, or special skills. I know it's possible to get a job, but I'm unsure where to start. Many online applications ask for educational background, which I don't have, and I worry that my applications won't even be considered. I'm also anxious about how to approach asking for a job in person and what that process entails. I really want to gain work experience and contribute to society, but I'm feeling lost and would appreciate any advice or guidance on how to move forward.

I applied to my dream company on February 15, 2026, thanks to a referral. Just two days later, a recruiter contacted me, and the interview process kicked off. I was informed there would be three rounds, so I prepared myself for a lengthy journey. The first round involved a technical assessment, which I had 10 days to complete. I took every single one of those days, but by the time I submitted it, I was convinced I had failed. The stress was overwhelming, and I hesitated to follow up with the recruiter for almost two weeks after submitting my work. Eventually, I decided I needed closure and sent an email. To my surprise, a week later, I received a reply saying I had actually passed that round. I was shocked and elated. After some time passed, I followed up again and learned that the second round was a take-home assessment, again with a 10-day deadline. This assignment consumed my life for those ten days, and I submitted it at the very last moment. Two weeks went by without any news, so I reached out again. Shortly after, I found out I had cleared that round too. Now, fast forward to today: it's been five months since that initial recruiter call, and I'm still waiting for the third and final round. Each time I follow up, I hear about another delay. They’ve recently informed me that there are currently no roles available. What’s frustrating is that I can see open positions listed, and the role I applied for was supposed to be generic and team-matched later. At this point, I’ve officially lost hope in landing a position at my dream company.

I’ve been navigating the job market after a series of layoffs, and one of the toughest challenges I’ve faced is the lack of support from former coworkers when it comes to professional references. I’ve developed a thick skin regarding rejection from recruiters, but it’s been disheartening to reach out to people I thought I had good relationships with, only to be met with silence or polite refusals. They often say something like, "I don’t know your work well enough to recommend you," which I understand, but it still stings. I’m not asking for anyone to exaggerate my skills; I just want an honest account of our time working together. It’s especially difficult when my last job didn’t leave me in a strong position for references. As an entry-level assistant, I didn’t have much influence over my relationships with managers, so I’ve relied on peers for references. While a few have been supportive, it feels like they are the exception rather than the rule. It’s frustrating, especially in a culture where employers expect multiple references. I’ve spoken with friends from other countries who are surprised by this reluctance, as providing references is often seen as a normal courtesy there. I’m left wondering if this is just the standard workplace culture in the US or if I’m missing something.