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I haven't told my family about my recent layoff yet, and it's been a couple of weeks since it happened. I’m specifically avoiding conversations with my parents and siblings because I know my mom would expect me to have more free time and would likely want me to help her out with various tasks around the house. Even when I visit, I end up doing chores like cutting the grass or fixing appliances, and while she does pay me, it's definitely below market rates. My dad is retired and tends to get bored, so I worry he would expect more of my attention and might even throw my layoff in my face or give unsolicited advice based on his own experiences. It feels a bit embarrassing to share, especially since the layoff wasn't due to my performance. I know there are some relatives who might be happy to hear the news, but I’m hesitant because of the dynamics in my family. I’m just not sure when or if I should bring it up.

I recently had a really disappointing interview for a senior position I was headhunted for at a company I hadn't considered before. After a series of interviews, I finally got to meet the hiring manager and another team member, but the experience felt more like an interrogation than a conversation. There were no pleasantries, just a barrage of questions with no feedback or engagement from them. It was unsettling. When I asked what kind of person would succeed in the role, the hiring manager bluntly stated they wouldn't have time to mentor anyone, implying that I should come in already knowing everything. I tried to clarify how someone could learn the ropes quickly, but the other interviewer reacted as if my question was offensive, insisting I should always have a plan ready. This left me with a really bad vibe about the company culture. While the position offered a salary and title boost compared to my current role, I couldn't shake the feeling that working there would be a nightmare. I’m also hesitant about withdrawing from the process because I value my relationship with the recruitment agency, which is top-notch in my field. However, I’m seriously considering pulling out before the final round, as I don't want to work with people who made me feel belittled for asking genuine questions.

I recently had a frustrating experience with a new job I started. I was initially offered a wage of $21 per hour by the big boss during the interview, but when I checked my pay rate in the system, I found they had me listed at only $12 per hour. It felt like a bait-and-switch, and I was furious. I had to call them out on it to get it 'fixed.' This isn't the first time I've encountered shady practices in my career; I've had another job that deducted lunch breaks that I never took. It's disheartening to see such fishy business in the job market.

I was terminated from my role at Microsoft without any prior warning, PIP, or severance pay. After eight years with the company and even receiving promotions during my tenure, I was shocked to receive a 0/0 rating in my performance review, which led to my immediate dismissal. I’m 48 years old and based in Washington, and I'm now seeking advice on potential legal action. I've heard of group legal actions and would like to know if anyone has information on that. It feels incredibly unfair, especially after years of hard work. Any insights or support would be greatly appreciated.

I've been working at my current company for 15 years, and it's been a rollercoaster ride. For the first 10-12 years, I was one of the top performers among 25 technicians, consistently ranking in the top 3 and even training many new hires. However, things have taken a turn for the worse in the last 2.5 years with constant managerial changes that have left me feeling overwhelmed and stressed. The latest manager is particularly difficult to work with, and her approach feels more like a dictatorship than leadership. Each new manager tries the same ineffective strategies to boost production, which have failed multiple times before. Now, I'm finding it hard to maintain my previous performance levels due to the stress and chaos around me. I've started to underperform, even though I know I still have the skills. The work environment is toxic, and my coworkers are equally stressed. I'm actively searching for new job opportunities, but so far, I've had little luck. I've even considered taking a temporary job at Costco just to relieve some of the stress. To improve my situation, I signed up for LinkedIn Premium and have been searching for jobs daily. I've also been trying to focus on one task at a time instead of feeling overwhelmed by the entire job. I've started documenting my small wins each day, hoping to use that list in future interviews. Has anyone else experienced a drop in performance while job hunting? Any tips would be appreciated.

I'm currently in a frustrating job search situation at 23 years old. I work as a substitute teacher, but the school year has been slow, resulting in fewer workdays. My parents have been encouraging me to find a full-time job, which has added pressure to my search. I understand their concern, but the process has been incredibly stressful for me. I've been applying to jobs on various platforms like Indeed, LinkedIn, and Glassdoor, aiming for 5-10 applications a week, sometimes even 3-5 a day. Despite my efforts, I've only secured two interviews since the school year started. One was for a part-time role that my mom dismissed, insisting it must be full-time, and the other was a door-to-door sales position that I turned down due to safety concerns. I love my parents and appreciate their support, but they seem to view my struggles in finding a job as a personal failure. Their advice, like just walking into places and asking if they're hiring, feels outdated and unrealistic in today's job market. I'm trying to stay positive, but the disconnect between my efforts and their expectations is really weighing on me. I guess I'm just looking for others who might relate to this struggle.

I recently applied for a position at a local computer repair shop and went through the interview process. After about two weeks of silence, I decided to follow up in person to check on my application status. When I asked, the owner informed me that the position had already been filled. I was frustrated because I felt that a simple text or email would have been a courteous way to inform me, especially after taking the time to interview. I even called once to inquire about my application, hoping for an update. Is it too much to expect a response after an interview? It seems like being ghosted has become the norm in job applications. I’ve heard from others that they often don’t receive any notification when they’re not selected, which I think is quite rude. It’s disappointing how little consideration some companies show for candidates, especially after they’ve invested time and effort into the application process.

I recently encountered a frustrating issue while trying to verify my identity with the Illinois Department of Employment Security (IDES). I received a message stating that they couldn't verify my identity and instructed me to call their support line at (800) 244-5631. However, when I tried to call, the line didn't even ring, leaving me feeling stuck and unsure of what to do next. I'm hoping to find someone who might have had a similar experience or knows how to get in touch with them.

I've been reflecting on how the recent layoffs and the current job market are impacting my retirement plans. As a software engineer in my late 30s, I had initially hoped to retire by 55, but the reality of the job market has forced me to reconsider. With the instability in tech and the feeling of being expendable, I’m now looking at a retirement age closer to 65. I’ve also noticed that many people in similar situations are re-evaluating their financial strategies. For instance, some are focusing more on saving and paying off debt, while others are contemplating dipping into their retirement funds to get through these tough times. Having been laid off by Microsoft in July, I had already anticipated this trend during the pandemic when I joined the company. I started preparing for the possibility of layoffs back then. Now, I’m trying to stay optimistic and adjust my plans accordingly, but it’s clear that the job market is making it challenging to feel secure about retirement.

I'm currently in a challenging situation at my job at a once-great company that seems to be heading downhill. Over the past year, we've lost seven senior employees without any replacements, which has left my boss overwhelmed. My former boss was moved to another department, leaving my current boss to manage everything alone. Earlier this year, half of my coworkers were laid off, doubling our workload. Recently, my boss, both of our remaining seniors, and my former boss announced their departures. This leaves us with almost no one who knows how to handle their roles effectively. What's concerning is the lack of communication from upper management regarding any plans for replacements or how responsibilities will be managed moving forward. It feels like there’s no clear direction at all. I'm worried that the remaining employees will end up taking on multiple roles without proper recognition or compensation. I’m contemplating whether to stay and see how things unfold, proactively ask management for clarity, start looking for another job, or a mix of these options. I'm seeking advice on how to navigate this situation.

I was laid off a couple of months ago and, needing to get back to work quickly, I accepted a job that wasn't my ideal fit. It was more of a first-come, first-serve situation, and I felt I had to take it to secure income. However, I had already been interviewing for a role at another company that I was much more interested in long term, and I decided to continue that process even after starting my current job. Now, two months later, I've received an offer from that company I actually wanted to work for. The tricky part is that I never disclosed to my current employer that I was interviewing elsewhere, as I didn't want to jeopardize my new position after being laid off. I'm in a bit of a dilemma about how to handle this. Should I inform my current employer before accepting the new offer, or should I wait until everything is finalized and then resign? My instinct is to keep things under wraps until I have the new offer officially in hand. I'm also concerned about whether not mentioning my ongoing interviews could affect me during a background check. Will it show that I was interviewing elsewhere, or will it just reflect my current employment dates? I want to ensure I'm not creating any issues by omitting that information. If everything with the new company checks out, how should I break the news to my current manager? I feel guilty about leaving so soon after just two months, but I took this job as a stopgap after being laid off, and this new opportunity aligns much better with my career goals. I want to leave on good terms and avoid burning any bridges, but I also don’t want to over-explain my situation. If anyone has been in a similar situation — laid off, took a quick job, kept interviewing, and then received a better offer — I would really appreciate your insights, especially from hiring managers and recruiters. Thanks!

Today, I experienced my second layoff in four years. It feels like I'm developing a callus from the repeated blows. I was leading a talented team, and while I had some inkling that this was coming, it still hit hard. Over the past couple of months, I've been actively applying for new positions, but the thought of receiving rejection emails is weighing heavily on me. I guess I'm just here to share my experience and prepare to dive back into the job market, particularly on LinkedIn, which feels like a daunting task. I appreciate the supportive comments and advice from others who have been in similar situations. It's comforting to know I'm not alone in this journey.

I just landed a job as a Video Game Tester after months of searching for work, and I'm feeling really excited about this opportunity. I know that this role isn't just about playing games all day, and I'm prepared for the challenges it may bring. I'm looking for advice on what to expect from this job and how I can use it as a stepping stone for my career. I hold a bachelor's degree in digital arts, specifically in 3D animation, but the job market in my Latin American country has been tough, especially in the animation industry. I've had some freelance work as a 3D modeler and illustrator, but it's been inconsistent. I also briefly worked at a call center, which was quite draining, and I have some experience as a graphic designer at a marketing agency before I was laid off due to restructuring. Currently, I'm taking an online course in UI/UX design to keep myself engaged during my unemployment. I've heard mixed reviews about working in QA, especially from those who transitioned from video game testing, but I'm hoping to make the most of this role. I want to treat my bug reports as a portfolio to showcase my skills and potentially move up to a QA analyst or lead position. I also see this job as a chance to network within the gaming industry, which could open up more opportunities in the future. Any tips or insights would be greatly appreciated!

I was laid off from Amazon this morning at 3:18 AM after dedicating 10 years to the company. Throughout my time there, my performance reviews consistently exceeded expectations, with only two instances of lower ratings due to transitioning into new roles. This layoff hit particularly hard as it happened while I was on maternity leave. I'm reaching out to see if there are others who were also laid off at Amazon today or this week, specifically in the Selling Partner Services group. It feels disheartening to think that after a decade of hard work, I could be let go, especially during such a vulnerable time.

I’m currently navigating a tricky situation in my job search. I recently had a few interviews that went well, and one company is moving forward with their hiring process. They’ve requested four references, which seemed manageable at first. However, I’ve hit a snag: one of my references passed away unexpectedly two weeks ago, and another reference was let go just last week. I’ve tried reaching out to them, but haven’t been able to connect. I’m considering explaining this situation to the hiring committee, as I believe they might understand, but I worry it could come off as unprofessional. I’m also thinking about asking some colleagues for a reference, but I’m hesitant because I don’t want my current employer to find out that I’m looking elsewhere. While I’m friendly with my coworkers and doubt there would be any backlash, I’ve heard enough horror stories to be cautious. Has anyone else faced a similar challenge? I’d really appreciate any advice on how to handle this situation.

I completed my second interview at Aritzia and it's been two weeks since then without any updates. I reached out via email for a follow-up a week after the interview, but haven't received a response. I even tried calling the store multiple times, but it just rings endlessly. I'm starting to feel concerned about the lack of communication. I've heard that Aritzia isn't the best when it comes to their hiring process, but I didn't expect it to be this unresponsive.

I've been experiencing a dry spell with recruiter calls lately. September was particularly slow for me, and I'm starting to wonder if others are feeling the same way. I haven't received any calls, and it seems like the job market is pretty quiet right now. One person even mentioned they were informed that a position they applied for two weeks ago no longer exists, which is really discouraging. I guess many companies tend to slow down their hiring as the year comes to a close. It's a bit frustrating, but I'm trying to stay hopeful.

I'm currently in Colorado and feeling really anxious about my unemployment benefits running out at the end of November. I'm actively job searching and have been going on interviews, but the job market is incredibly tough right now, and I keep hitting walls. I'm also on necessary medications and already use discounts, so I can't save any more money than I already am. I'm just looking for any information on whether there are ways to extend my benefits. It's a scary situation, and I appreciate any insights.

I was put on paid administrative leave from my job at a local university where I work in student well-being. This situation arose after I confided in my boss about my struggles with burnout, loneliness, and a relapse into sex work. I had been trying to manage a temporary part-time role while also working a side job at a restaurant to make ends meet. The emotional toll from a traumatic relationship earlier this year had left me feeling overwhelmed and isolated. During a particularly tough day, I reached out to my boss, and she suggested we meet to discuss my well-being. I broke down and shared everything, which led to her expressing concern and ultimately placing me on leave as a precautionary measure. While they assured me this wasn’t punitive, I’m left in limbo without any updates on my job status. In the meantime, I’ve been applying for other positions, including a pub job and a few administrative roles that offer better pay. I even had a promising phone interview with a nonprofit that aligns with my experiences. I’m trying to focus on self-care, attending therapy, and managing daily life tasks, but it’s challenging without much support. I’m not sure what the future holds for my current job or the new opportunities, and I’m seeking advice or encouragement during this difficult time.

I'm currently navigating my job search in the compliance/legal field within financial services, and I've been using LinkedIn's new AI search feature. However, I've encountered some challenges. My typical search query includes terms like "remote compliance roles in banks or fintechs posted in the last 24 hours." While the AI does a decent job with the compliance aspect, it often returns a significant number of jobs in health care instead of banking or fintech. Additionally, I'm finding that many of the jobs listed as remote are actually hybrid or on-site, which isn't what I'm looking for. I've also noticed that there's no clear location filter in the AI search, which makes it even harder to find relevant positions. I'm seeking tips to refine my search results and improve my chances of finding suitable remote roles.