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I recently started a new job as a nanny, but I'm really struggling with anxiety about working. I'm 20 years old and have had about six different jobs in the past two years, with three of them being in childcare. I just started this third job last week, and on my third day, I was expected to work nine hours straight without a break. The kids wouldn't go down for a nap, and I felt overwhelmed. The dad can be a bit rude, which adds to my stress. I've been feeling anxious and nauseous about the idea of being relied on by parents and the pressure of balancing work with college. I get burnt out really quickly, and while I enjoy the kids and their parents, the stress has been tough. I called in sick today because I woke up feeling scared and couldn't face going in. I feel guilty about it, especially after receiving a passive-aggressive message from the dad. I have some savings and my boyfriend is supportive, but I'm seriously considering whether I can go back to this job. I wish I could focus on my passion for painting and commissions, but it doesn't feel safe for me to do that right now. I'm thinking about using my time off to apply for new jobs and possibly quiet quitting this one.

I recently got fired from my landscaping job just a week after starting. At 18 years old and having moved to Ireland, I was really excited about this opportunity, but things took a turn quickly. On my first day, I worked with a colleague who had no complaints about me, except that I didn’t bring lunch or water. I had just spent most of my money moving here, so I was struggling financially. However, on the second day, it started to go downhill. It was pouring rain, and I was feeling sick. I was paired with a different colleague who seemed to have an issue with me, while my first colleague was supportive and tried to help me with tasks. They both spoke little English, which made communication tough. I was accused of being on my phone during my shift, which wasn’t entirely true, but I did check it a few times towards the end. By the third day, my sickness continued, and I was still being criticized for my energy levels and phone usage. On the last day, I took breaks to grab snacks and water from a nearby store, which led to complaints that I was leaving the area too often. This ultimately resulted in my firing. When I was told by my hiring manager, I didn’t argue; I just asked if I could discuss it with them, but they refused. I’m not too upset, as I’ve already secured another job opportunity back in my home country. I just want to go home and learn from this experience.

I just received a job offer today, but it's a massive pay cut from my previous role. I was making a base salary of $180k, plus a 20% bonus and stock options. The new offer is only $75k base. It's tough to swallow, but I feel I have to accept it since my unemployment benefits will run out in three months. I figure that having this job, even at a lower salary, is better than being completely without income. On the bright side, the position is fully remote, and the hiring manager seems really nice and easy-going. I'm planning to take this job while continuing my search for something better. The job market is brutal right now, and I know I'm not alone in feeling this way.

It's been over a year since I graduated with my bachelor's in business administration, focusing on Marketing, and I'm starting to feel defeated. I've had a 6-month marketing internship and built a decent social media portfolio, yet despite applying for jobs since March of last year, I haven't made any progress in landing a role in my field. Most of the positions I've seen are either for AI marketing—which I really dislike due to its potential to replace jobs—or are shady MLM schemes and minimum wage jobs. I've applied to around 500 positions, but the interviews I've had often turned out to be disappointing or just plain scams. I've been focusing on in-person jobs because I want some social interaction, but the landscape is disheartening. Recruiters seem to rely heavily on AI, which complicates the process and makes it feel impersonal. I did manage to get a part-time hospitality role, but working alone late into the night is exhausting and affecting my sleep. Living with my parents has added to the stress, as they keep pressuring me about my job search, and I feel like I'm losing my independence. The constant reminders of my job search setbacks are taking a toll on my mental health. I used to be optimistic about my career in marketing, but after a year of applying and facing rejection, I've become burnt out and lost my passion. I feel trapped in my current situation, especially with family tensions at home, and I just want to find a way to move forward and gain some independence.

After a challenging six weeks of job searching, I finally received two offers from the companies I had my eye on the most. I was unexpectedly let go from my contract position due to a difficult boss, who turned out to be a tyrant to the whole team. It hit me hard, especially given the current job market. Determined to find a new role, I applied to everything I could find, regardless of the level. I went through interviews at 15 different companies, including both contract and full-time positions. At one point, I even prepared a comprehensive slide presentation for a company, only to be rejected after stumbling on a single question during the interview. After a month filled with low funds, multiple rejections, and exhausting interview rounds, I finally got the offer from my top choice, along with a second offer from my second choice. I’m thrilled to be starting my new full-time hybrid position tomorrow, and I’ll be making $20,000 more than I was before. This experience has taught me not to give up, as good things do come to those who persevere. I'm here to offer advice or encouragement to anyone who might need it!

I recently accepted a job offer for a role that pays $80k, after initially being offered $75k. I was unemployed at the time, having been let go from my previous job due to performance issues related to a family loss. I nervously negotiated for a higher salary, asking for $82k, and was surprised when they still came back with $80k, emphasizing that they believe I would be a great addition to the team. This experience has made me reflect on the negotiation process in today’s job market. While I had mixed feelings about negotiating, I think a good employer will appreciate your request for more, as long as it's reasonable. The hiring process was smooth and quick, with only three interviews and a final decision made in less than three weeks. I noticed many positive signs throughout, which reassured me that I made the right choice in negotiating. For anyone still searching for a job, I wish you the best of luck. And if you’re currently employed, remember to appreciate your position.

After four long months of job searching, I’m thrilled to share that I’ve landed a new marketing job! As a mid-20s Gen Z, the journey was challenging and filled with ups and downs. I submitted over 200 applications and went through more than 20 interviews and recruiter calls, facing countless rejection emails and ghosting along the way. Throughout this process, I learned a few valuable lessons. First, I found that using LinkedIn's Easy Apply feature didn’t yield much success for me. Most of my positive responses came from applications where I took the time to tailor my resume to closely match the job description. In this competitive market, companies are looking for candidates who meet almost all their requirements, and even missing one or two skills can hinder progress in the interview process. Location also played a significant role in my job search. I noticed that states like Texas, North Carolina, Arizona, and Georgia had many more opportunities for younger professionals compared to places like California, NYC, and Chicago, where competition is fierce, often with applicants boasting 10+ years of experience. I also realized that breaking into 'dream companies' or well-known brands is particularly tough for Gen Z applicants right now. While it’s not impossible, the market is challenging, and many of these companies prefer candidates with extensive experience. Another surprising takeaway was that the prestige of my college mattered less than I had been led to believe. While internships and campus involvement are beneficial, actual work experience is what companies prioritize nowadays. Even just a year of real-world experience can outweigh a lot of extracurricular activities. My biggest piece of advice for anyone in a similar situation is to apply strategically rather than emotionally. Avoid applying to jobs where you barely meet the qualifications, especially if there are already hundreds of applicants. Whenever possible, apply early and focus on roles posted within the last 72 hours. And remember to tailor your resume for each position. Most importantly, don’t lose hope. This job market is tough, but it only takes one offer to turn everything around. If anyone has questions or needs tailored advice, feel free to reach out!

After 18 months of searching for a job and submitting 1670 resumes, I finally landed a position! Today was my first day at the new job, and when I got home, my teenager surprised me with a cake to celebrate this milestone. It was such a thoughtful gesture and made the day even more special. I'm feeling grateful and excited for this new chapter in my career.

I'm excited to start a new job on Monday! I'll be traveling to another state to pick up my equipment and get my badge. However, I'm in a tight spot financially with only $3 in my bank account right now. I haven't filed for unemployment in the past two weeks, but I took care of that today and should hopefully receive my final payment by Thursday. Despite the challenges, I'm feeling optimistic about this new opportunity!

I'm currently on my second day at L0v1sā, and I'm already overwhelmed and regretting my decision to accept this job. I was hired on the spot but didn't receive my schedule until the last minute. Despite informing them about an important event, they scheduled me for an 8-hour shift during that time. On my first day, I went through training, but it was chaotic. My coworkers openly expressed their dissatisfaction with the job and the company, and the supervisor is unresponsive and unhelpful. I've been working long hours—40 this week—without proper guidance. In fact, I've found myself teaching another new hire because the existing staff seems more interested in chatting than actually training us. Today, I was left to open the store by myself, but I was given the wrong key. I ended up opening late, which caused a lot of stress as customers were waiting. I almost had a panic attack trying to figure everything out with minimal instructions. My coworkers were annoyed with me for not having basic information, like pricing for piercings, which should have been provided. I made several mistakes because I was left to fend for myself, and now the team is stressed because we're behind schedule. There are so many red flags here—no manager or assistant manager, just a chaotic environment. I'm seriously considering sending in my two weeks' notice, but I'm unsure how to phrase it. Should I even bother with two weeks, or just walk away? This place feels like a disaster.

I've been working at my current job for 2 years, and I absolutely love it. However, the daily 1.5-hour commute (3 hours round-trip) has become increasingly challenging, especially with my commitments as a graduate student, which also requires a long commute on weekends. Recently, due to structural changes at work, I found myself considering a job closer to home. I interviewed for an internal role at a different location, and to my surprise, they offered me the position right away. The new commute would only be 30 minutes one way, and it would also bring me closer to my parents. While I'm excited about the opportunity, I'm feeling bittersweet about leaving a job I truly enjoy and the great relationships I've built with my coworkers. I worry about whether I'll fit in with the new team and if I'll excel in the new role. I know I can apply my existing skills, but change is always a bit daunting. I value work-life balance, and with my packed schedule, the long commute just isn't sustainable anymore. I'm curious if anyone else has made a similar move from a job they loved to one closer to home and how they felt about it afterward.

This week marked my first experience with layoffs, and it hit me hard. I’ve always read about layoffs happening to others, but I never expected to be affected, especially since I believed my role was secure. On Monday morning, I woke up to a series of meeting cancellations and an invite to a meeting that included only my manager and an HR representative. At that moment, I knew something was off. After a tense 30 minutes, I was handed a scripted letter informing me that I was being let go due to organizational restructuring. It was a brutal day for many of us, with around 300 employees affected. My last day is in two weeks, and while I’ll have health coverage for three months and a severance package, it all feels surreal. I had dedicated myself as the primary technician for my modality, often working 12-hour shifts in remote locations, ensuring that vital medical equipment was repaired. I was well-respected by my customers and had even been selected for advanced training by national support teams. Yet, all of that seemed irrelevant in the face of corporate decisions. In the shock of the moment, I quickly reached out to my network. I managed to secure a long interview with one company later that afternoon, followed by a thorough interview and technical assessment with a competitor the next day. I’m currently in the second round of interviews with several companies, but the emotional impact of this layoff still weighs heavily on me. This experience has been a stark reminder not to take job security for granted. I wish everyone in similar situations the best of luck.

After being laid off in February 2025 due to the ongoing struggles in my industry, I managed to secure a new job in April 2025. Unfortunately, that position turned out to be unstable, leading to a significant reduction in workforce in January 2026, and I was laid off again. Now, after over five months of unemployment, I finally received a job offer from a company that seems reputable and aligns with my interests. However, during the offer call, I was taken aback when the recruiter mentioned that my salary expectations were too high. They offered me $20,000 less than what I requested and $30,000 less than my previous salary. I expressed my enthusiasm for the role and said I would review the written offer. I'm torn between wanting to negotiate for a better salary and the fear of having the offer rescinded, especially after such a long job search. I'm considering whether to accept the offer as is or attempt to negotiate, hoping they might meet me halfway. Has anyone else navigated a similar situation after a lengthy unemployment period?

I recently received a call from the recruiting team at a big consulting firm, and they informed me that they want to offer me a role. We discussed salary, benefits, and the start date during the call. However, I'm curious about the typical timeline for receiving the official offer in writing and what the next steps are after this initial call. It's only been three working days since the call, so I don't want to bother the recruiter just yet, but I want to know what to expect.

I recently interviewed for a position where I was asked about my expected salary. I mentioned a range of 10,000 to 12,000. After two weeks, they called to offer me 10,000, which I appreciated. However, I decided to negotiate for 11,500 based on my experience. It's been a week since that conversation, and when I followed up with the talent acquisition person, she informed me that she was still waiting for an update. Now, I find myself in a tough spot as I'm currently unemployed and questioning whether I should have just accepted the initial offer of 10,000. I'm unsure if I should wait for their response or let them know that I would be willing to take the 10,000 after all. I realize now that I might have weakened my position by negotiating.

Today marked my first day as an Associate Product Manager (APM) at a fast-growing tech company, and I have to admit, it was a bit overwhelming. After being unemployed for the last two months and living at my parents' house for the past year, I was really excited to start this new chapter. Previously, I worked remotely but lost my job due to being told I "didn't take enough ownership," which felt ironic since I had spent four years at a different company where I thrived by pitching ideas and taking initiative. However, today was tough. I left the office feeling anxious and somewhat out of place. Even though I joined the company because I genuinely like their mission and the problems they are tackling, I found myself questioning if this role is the right fit for me. My manager even commented on my background, suggesting I might be better suited for a master's in writing, given my passion for it. During a call, I was sitting next to her and heard terms like "backend validation" and "company managed projects" being thrown around, and I felt lost. I realized I’m more of a people and community person rather than tech-focused, which made me doubt my capabilities. I know it's normal to feel this way on the first day, but it's hard not to compare myself to others who seem to have it all figured out. I’m trying to remind myself that it’s okay to be nervous and that learning takes time. I hope that with patience, I can grow into this role and gain the confidence I need. Any advice from others who have been in a similar situation would be greatly appreciated!

I currently work at a large company where I hold a niche role that is hard to fill. I've been recognized as a high performer, and the company has a strong pay equity culture. Over the past five years, I've noticed that when my department needs to hire, they often struggle to find the right candidates, which leads them to increase the salary band to attract talent. As a result, during salary equity audits, I typically receive a meaningful pay increase—usually around 8-10%, compared to the standard 3% for others. This is framed as both a pay increase and a pay equity adjustment. Recently, my former manager reached out and offered me a new position with a 20% pay increase and an annual bonus of 10-20%. The role is comparable to my current one, so I accepted the offer. My current employer attempted to counter, but they couldn't match the pay without triggering salary increases for the entire team, and they were unable to adjust my role to facilitate a higher pay. This situation has led me to ponder whether high performers like myself are at a disadvantage when it comes to pay equity, especially in a large organization that struggles to pivot quickly.

In January 2026, I landed a full-time job at a startup tech company with a salary of $55,000. Unfortunately, just three months later, I was let go because the company was struggling financially and had to cut its marketing department along with other positions. Before this job, I was working on-call, earning around $17 an hour, which isn't much but it's better than nothing. Now, I'm in a tough spot. My parents expect me to contribute $1,000 towards their mortgage, but I can only afford to give them about 30% of my paycheck after expenses. I'm trying to save and cover my own groceries, but it feels like I'm not meeting their expectations. I want to find a job that I enjoy and pays a livable wage, but the job market seems slow right now. I've been applying for new positions, but I worry my parents don't see how hard I'm trying. I've been contributing between $100 and $200 to help with the mortgage, and I plan to give more as I earn more. I’m considering sticking with my on-call job while I continue my job search. It seems like the right strategy, but I’m looking for advice on how to balance everything and find a job that fits my needs.

I'm starting a new job on Monday after a tough journey. My first job out of college was really miserable, and I quit after about 1.5 years. After that, I faced about 7-8 months of unemployment before finally landing another position. Unfortunately, that job ended after just 6 months due to a layoff based on a last-in-first-out policy. Now, I've accepted a new role and completed the employment verification paperwork, but I'm feeling anxious about the background check. I extended the dates of my first job on my resume to cover the unemployment gap, thinking it would make my work history look more continuous. I haven't heard from my future manager, HR, or the background check company yet, and the status is still pending. I'm worried that my decision to alter the employment dates might come back to haunt me. How concerned should I be about this situation?

I was laid off in 2023 and faced a tough journey, including losing a parent in 2025. After three years of unemployment and continuous interviewing, I finally received a job offer. The role requires a 50-minute commute, and the salary is $45k, which is $5k below the listed amount. During negotiations, the recruiter made it clear that my lack of verified work since my layoff was a factor in their offer. It feels like they're taking advantage of the desperation in the job market. Despite the low pay, I'm going to accept the offer and keep searching for better opportunities because, with inflation, this salary and commute will reduce my take-home pay. I'm also looking for tips on negotiating better in the future and whether I should include this job on my resume. Additionally, I've had a few more interviews lined up, and I'm unsure how to schedule in-person ones without using sick time. Hang in there, everyone; these are challenging times.