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I recently left my position at the Girl Scouts, and it was honestly one of the worst job experiences I've ever had. The council treated staff terribly, exploiting every loophole to avoid reimbursing for extra hours or duties. They pay a fixed amount per paycheck, between $400 and $600, but what they don't disclose is that you can't work less than 40 hours without a pay cut, even though you're typically working around 45 hours a week. My coworker mentioned leaving camp on weekends, and the council's response was that they expected us to stay at camp all the time. They even hired many international staff to ensure they wouldn't leave. To top it off, directors were expected to pick up international staff on their own time and gas. I've tried to leave reviews on platforms like Glassdoor and Indeed, but I can't seem to find their profiles or submit my feedback. I'm hoping to warn recent college grads about this place, as they seem to thrive on the desperation of young adults looking for work.

I was laid off for the second time in two years, and it's been a rough journey. I'm a 56-year-old white male with a decade of experience in NYC, but I lost my job during a COVID re-organization. After that, I took a pay cut and relocated to Atlanta, where I worked for three years until my company was acquired by a private equity firm. They decided to let me go in favor of younger, cheaper employees, despite previously encouraging me to train new hires. It felt like a cowardly move. I managed to find a new job that offered a better work-life balance, but I had to take another slight pay cut. The company didn't subsidize my wife's health insurance, which took a significant chunk out of my paycheck. Things were looking up; I even had my own office with my name on the door. However, about a month ago, we hired a new person for HR who turned out to be an efficiency consultant. My boss set up 1-on-1 meetings, and I sensed something was off. We had been missing our goals, and one of our brands had to close down. Last Wednesday, at 8:30 am, I received a text from my boss about a meeting scheduled for 9:30. When I joined, the HR consultant was already there, and I knew I was in trouble. Since I had only been with the company for a year, I was offered just three weeks of severance and insurance until the end of the month. Now, I'm panicking. We're living paycheck to paycheck, and our credit cards are nearly maxed out. Even if I find a new job tomorrow, the hiring process could take weeks, and I've read stories of people being out of work for months. I'm looking for any advice or encouraging words.

I recently graduated with my master's degree in aerospace engineering in June and have been actively searching for a job in the U.S. for about a year now. I have a background as a flight science engineer at a UAV company in my home country, where I worked for three years. Given the current job market, especially for international students like myself, I accepted a remote position with my previous company, which has allowed me to have some income while I search for opportunities here. However, the hours are minimal, and the pay only covers my rent. After graduation, I faced challenges finding a job in the aerospace sector due to the limited availability of positions, particularly those related to the Department of Defense. I’ve applied to various companies, but many have changed their hiring policies, making it difficult for international students to secure roles. My experience is quite specific to aerospace, including aircraft design, stability and control analysis, and flight testing, which complicates my ability to pivot to other industries like robotics. Recently, my home country company, which has now become a leading UAV firm, offered me a position back home. The salary is decent compared to other aerospace roles in my country, but it’s still not enough to support a family or buy a house. Moreover, I worry about the limited growth potential in that market, especially since my expertise doesn’t align with the standards needed for manned aircraft, which has been my dream since I was 18. As I weigh my options, I’m torn between accepting the offer and returning home or risking it by continuing my job search in the U.S. for the next 90 days. I’m anxious about the possibility of not finding a job here and losing the opportunity to work with a top company back home. Any advice on how to approach this decision would be greatly appreciated.

I'm a 22-year-old aspiring game developer, and the recent wave of layoffs in the industry has really hit me hard. It's disheartening to see so many talented individuals losing their jobs, and it makes me question the stability of a career in game development. No matter how passionate or skilled you are, it feels like companies can let you go without a second thought. I'm looking for advice from those who have been in the industry—do you think it's worth pursuing this path, or should I consider other options to ensure job security?

I recently faced a frustrating situation while job hunting. After graduating with my bachelor's in Media in December 2024, I found myself stuck in a job search rut, submitting hundreds of applications without landing a single interview in my field. Most of the roles I was considered for were mundane jobs outside my area of expertise. In July, I applied for an overnight security position that involved driving around parking lots, offering $19.50/hr. I had a great phone interview and was hired on the spot. However, the hiring process included a lengthy background check, which I thought would be routine. To my shock, I received the results stating that I didn't pass due to my driving record, claiming I didn't have a driver's license. I've been driving since I was 15, with no traffic violations and only two accidents that weren't my fault. It didn't add up. After multiple calls, I discovered that the background check only showed my temporary license from when I renewed it last fall. I sent a photocopy of my valid driver's license to both the security company and the background check firm, but they insisted it wasn't sufficient. Frustrated, I went to the DMV and paid $20 for a document confirming my valid driver's license. I filed a dispute regarding the background check, but now I'm left waiting for a decision, with no start date in sight. It's been a month and a half since I was told I was hired, and I'm still battling this issue. I'll keep everyone updated on what happens next.

I might be facing termination from my job at a popular online ordering company after two years of solid performance. I've never had any disciplinary issues or attendance problems, and I've consistently been one of the higher performers on my team. Recently, I had a tough personal situation at home that affected my mood, and during a particularly busy period, I snapped at a customer. I used sarcasm when I shouldn't have, which resulted in the customer canceling her service. During a recent meeting with my manager, we reviewed the call, and he acknowledged that my behavior was out of character, attributing it to burnout. However, he mentioned that I could either be placed on "final notice" or terminated, which feels incredibly harsh given my track record. I've seen colleagues who have committed more severe infractions get off with just a warning. To address the situation, I wrote an employee statement taking full responsibility for my actions and outlining steps I plan to take to prevent this from happening again. Now, I'm left wondering if I'll get a second chance or if I'm truly at risk of losing my job. If it comes to termination, I need advice on how to handle that meeting, especially since I doubt there will be any severance pay at my level, though I believe they must reimburse my PTO.

I recently received a job offer from a company called Understood Care for a health advocate position. The offer came without any interview, which raised some red flags for me. They sent over a background check from Checkr, which I know is a legitimate service, but the lack of an interview still feels sketchy. I had a similar experience when I signed up for DoorDash, and that turned out to be a legitimate opportunity. I'm curious if anyone else has heard of Understood Care or has had similar experiences with job offers that seemed too good to be true.

I was laid off last week during a company-wide reduction in force. I'm currently on an H1B visa and I'm concerned about the job market for software engineering roles for people in my situation. I'm reaching out to see if anyone else has faced similar challenges with visa sponsorship issues after being laid off. Have any of you managed to secure a new job while on a work visa? If so, how long did it take you to find a new position? I would really appreciate any insights or experiences you can share.

I recently found myself at a crossroads in my career. With a background in art school and six years in the games industry, I've spent the last six years job-hopping just to stay afloat. For the past four years, I've been working in various sales and customer service roles, but I'm currently making only about half of what my spouse earns. I'm eager to step up my career and find something better. I've been researching the job market, and it's pretty daunting. I attempted to apply for HVAC and plumbing apprenticeships, but unfortunately, I wasn't selected for those positions. Now, I'm grappling with two conflicting thoughts: should I be content with my current situation, or is there a way to elevate my career and avoid feeling like a failure? I'm reaching out for any advice or guidance on how to navigate this challenging job landscape. Thank you!

I'm currently looking for seasonal work and came across the Aritzia Concierge position. However, I've been reading a lot of negative experiences from people who have worked there, which is making me hesitant. The commute is about 2 hours by bus, and I'm really trying to save some money before the holidays, so I'm considering it despite the concerns. I've applied to several jobs closer to home, but I'm not having much luck. I also feel like this role could potentially be done from home, so I'm confused about why it's required to be at the distribution center. It's frustrating to navigate the job market right now.

I’m currently feeling uneasy about my job situation at my company, which is undergoing significant executive changes. Although I received a positive performance review recently, I can’t shake the feeling that I might be laid off soon. Just last week, I was given conflicting feedback regarding my review, which ultimately turned out well, but I can’t help but wonder if it was just a way to keep me satisfied until the inevitable happens. I’m not in a position to know about layoffs in advance, but my intuition is telling me something isn’t right. Has anyone else experienced this kind of gut feeling that later turned out to be accurate, even when there were no clear signs, like being left out of meetings I usually attend?

I recently moved out of my apartment two weeks ago after the rent skyrocketed, and now I'm facing some tough challenges. I've been through three layoffs in the past two years, which has drained my savings and left me in a financial hole. My previous rent was $1715 a month, and with unemployment only covering that, my credit card debt has piled up. I've been sleeping on the streets, but honestly, it doesn’t bother me much; it’s just a part of my life. However, my new employer, a municipality where I've just started working, found out about my situation and is pressuring me to find an apartment. They even offered me a hotel for ten days while I look for a place, which I appreciate given the heat outside. But I’m hesitant to sign a lease when I’m still in my probation period and unsure about job security. My boss keeps giving me contacts for churches to help, but I don’t want that kind of help. I feel like getting another apartment would just put me back in a situation where I’m not in control, and I don’t want to be at the mercy of landlords again. I’m almost 40, and I want to save my money for something more permanent, not waste it on rent. I’m worried that if I don’t find a place soon, I might lose my job, especially since I work in a security-sensitive role servicing county vehicles. It’s a tough spot to be in.

I was recently fired from my job after putting in a lot of hard work and dedication. It was a tough blow, especially since I was offered a very low severance package. I tried to negotiate for more, but they just came back with an even lower offer. Now, I find myself in a dilemma. I have some potentially damaging information about the company that could really hurt them and the employees still there, but I know that pursuing this route would require legal guidance to protect myself. I'm torn between the idea of exposing the truth and the impact it could have on others versus just walking away with a small severance. It's a heavy decision to make.

I recently started a job as a groundskeeper at an apartment complex on May 1st, and it's been a tough few months. Initially, I enjoyed the work because it was easy, but now I find myself dreading each day. The routine is monotonous, and the tasks I perform are often unpleasant, like cleaning up trash and dealing with dog waste. I spend most of my mornings picking up litter and cleaning common areas, and after lunch, I often have to find busywork just to fill the time. I feel like I'm not given proper guidance, and when I'm asked to do something new, I often mess it up because I have no idea how it's supposed to be done. I suspect I might have ADD, which makes the repetitive nature of this job even more draining for me. On top of that, I have some health issues that make dealing with unpleasant tasks, like emptying trash cans filled with maggots, really difficult. I took a year and a half to find this job after high school, so I'm grateful to have it, but I'm seriously considering quitting. I don't want to leave without another job lined up, but the thought of staying here for another year until I can join the police academy, my dream career, feels unbearable. I'm torn between wanting to stick it out and the desire to find something more fulfilling.

I recently started a new job after being laid off in May, and while I'm grateful to be employed, I'm deeply concerned about the long-term effects of my unemployment. Food insecurity is still a major issue for me since I haven't been paid yet, and it constantly weighs on my mind. The past few years have been incredibly challenging, especially dealing with cancer and the financial collapse that followed. My credit card debt from treatment is overwhelming, and every day I receive reminders about unpaid bills, which adds to my anxiety. Even when I go out to eat, I struggle to enjoy it. I find myself questioning my food choices and worrying about how they affect my finances. I think I might be developing an eating disorder, as I constantly analyze my meals and feel guilty about what I eat, even when my tracker shows I'm consuming a normal amount of calories. My living situation is also tough; I've sold most of my furniture and am planning to move in with a roommate to cut costs. I feel anxious and broken, trying to mask my feelings at work while dealing with nightmares and nausea from stress. Despite my college education and appearance, people often invalidate my struggles, not realizing that anyone can face hardships like cancer or food insecurity. I'm preparing for the possibility of an even worse economy and am actively seeking ways to pool resources. I do have a counselor and therapist, but I worry that the trauma I've experienced has changed me. I feel like a skittish bird, trying to navigate life while just trying to survive. It's hard to feel normal again, and I wonder if anyone else can relate to what I'm going through.

I’m feeling really overwhelmed right now. I’ve been jumping from job to job, trying to gain experience, but none of it seems to be in high demand. Currently, I’m working part-time as a server at a local pub, and it’s just not enough to provide for my child. As a single income family, I’m barely making ends meet and I’m ineligible for assistance because I make just a bit too much. I have reasonable experience in clerical work and bookkeeping, but I’m struggling to find remote job opportunities that fit my situation, especially since I recently moved to a small town with harsh winters and no transportation. I feel like I’m starting from scratch and it’s really scary. All I want is to give my child a better life and ensure she’s not ashamed of me. I’m reaching out for any advice on where to find legitimate remote work platforms. I appreciate any help!

I’m in a tough spot right now. My lease in Utah ends tomorrow, and I’ve run out of money. I moved here two months ago for a job opportunity that didn’t pan out, and since then, I’ve been applying for jobs nonstop but haven’t had any luck. I’m feeling really stressed and alone, and I can’t afford to stay in my apartment any longer. I’m considering two options: Option 1 is to stay in Utah, but I really don’t feel good about it. I’m completely out of money and have nowhere else to go here. Option 2 is to go back to Washington and stay with my family. My parents live there, but I don’t feel emotionally safe staying with them due to lack of privacy and independence. My brother lives there too, and staying with him seems like the best option, but he has a strict lease that only allows guests for two days. I used to work for his landlord, so I could ask to be added as an occupant to stay longer without paying rent right away. However, I’m nervous about asking him and uncertain if it will work out. I just need a stable place to stay while I search for work and get back on my feet. My boyfriend and I are planning to move in together at the end of the year, so I’m really hoping to figure this out quickly. I feel stuck between staying in Utah with no money or going back to Washington and hoping my brother’s arrangement works out.

I recently faced a tough situation after being laid off just a month into my new role as a Data Engineer at a company I had high hopes for. Prior to this, I spent five years at my previous company where I was comfortable and skilled in tools like Snowflake, dbt, Python, SQL, and Airflow. The abrupt change came as a shock when I was informed that due to shifting project needs and budget constraints, they couldn't keep me on and asked me to resign. Now, I'm left questioning whether I should reach out to my old employer to see if they would consider taking me back. It feels daunting to think about going back after leaving, but I also know that I have nothing to lose. I'm also worried about how to explain this brief stint in interviews, as I want to avoid any assumptions about my performance leading to the layoff. I'm feeling pretty shaken up and uncertain about my next steps. Should I focus on finding a new job or pursue the possibility of returning to my previous company? I would really appreciate any advice from those who have been in a similar position.

I recently left my first job after just one week. After a long job search, I finally landed a position that I was excited about, and the company seemed great. The first week went well; the environment was friendly and welcoming. However, I quickly realized that I was not hired for the role I had applied for, and there was a lack of clarity regarding my job description from the start. I felt like I was expected to know everything without proper guidance. I communicated that I needed some time to get accustomed to the new responsibilities, but my team required immediate answers. When I declined a task that was outside my comfort zone, it led to confusion and confrontation from my coworkers. This made me feel like a burden, and overwhelmed by anxiety, I decided to resign. Now, I regret that decision. I truly wanted to succeed in this role and believe I could have thrived if given a little more time to adjust. I'm left feeling uncertain about my choice and what to do next.

I have my second interview coming up for a role at Independent Graphics as a customer service representative and print estimator. In this position, I would be assisting with print orders and pricing. I bring 10 years of customer service experience and 2 years of relevant work from a small print shop, which I believe will be beneficial. Since it's been over a decade since my last second interview, I'm feeling a bit anxious about what to expect. I'm looking for advice on the types of questions I should prepare for to make a good impression. Any tips would be greatly appreciated!