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I recently had an experience with a recruiter who informed me that I didn't get the job I applied for. They mentioned that they would keep my resume on file for future opportunities. I'm curious to know if anyone else has had a similar experience where a recruiter actually followed through and reached out about another position after initially rejecting them. It seems rare, but I hope to hear some success stories!

I recently graduated from the University of Toronto with a degree in English, but I've been struggling to find a job in an office setting for the past eight months. I have two health conditions, POTS and CFS, which make it essential for me to find a role where I can mostly sit. I've been particularly interested in working in a medical office, but most job postings require an office administration degree or something similar, which I don't have. I'm considering enrolling in the Health Services Office Admin program at Sheridan, but I'm unsure if it would be a worthwhile investment for my career. I would appreciate any insights on whether this degree is useful for securing a job in the medical office field or if I should continue applying with just my English degree.

I recently had an experience with a hiring agency that has left me feeling anxious and uncertain about my job prospects. A couple of months ago, they reached out to me about a role at a well-known company that aligns perfectly with my career goals. After giving them permission to represent me, I didn’t hear much until last month when they called to say the company was interested in interviewing me. I agreed to the interview, and to my surprise, it went really well. A week later, the agency informed me that I was selected for the position, and I was over the moon! I provided them with a start date and completed a background check, drug screening, and other necessary documentation all in the same week. However, as the start date approaches, I realized that I never actually received an official offer letter. This has raised a lot of red flags for me. I’m starting to question whether this is standard practice for hiring agencies or if I might have been scammed. In my previous experiences, I always received an offer letter before being asked to complete any pre-employment checks. While I have been in contact with my future manager and other team members, and the agency’s website looks legitimate, I can’t shake the feeling of unease, especially since I haven’t found any reviews or testimonials about them online. I’m reaching out to see if anyone else has had similar experiences or can offer any insight into this situation. I’m feeling a mix of hope and fear, and I would appreciate any thoughts, whether positive or negative.

I recently applied for a part-time Retail Associate-Inventory position at WIS International, with a pay range of $18-$20 per hour. However, I’m feeling hesitant about accepting the job after reading various employee reviews online. Many of these reviews highlight mixed experiences, particularly concerning management, though most seem to be a couple of years old. As a college student in California, I’m curious if anyone else has worked there in a similar situation and can share their insights. I’ve been applying to numerous other companies without much luck, so I’m feeling a bit desperate for a job at this point.

Feeling nervous and vulnerable after experiencing two layoffs, one in 2022 and another in 2026. Both times, I ended up with higher salaries at my new jobs, going from 440K to 520K and then from 545K to 610K. However, I was out of work for 2 to 3 months each time, but thankfully, severance packages helped bridge the gap. As an experienced software engineer in Silicon Valley, I’ve faced a high failure rate in job offers, only receiving 2 offers out of 9 to 10 interviews during each job search. I’m turning 50 next month, and my wife has faced her own struggles, losing her job every year since 2022 and not staying in one for more than 8 months due to serious health complications. With the added pressure of our children’s college expenses, I had sleepless nights for 3 months earlier this year, and I still find it hard to rest despite having an income coming in. These layoffs have really shaken my trust in companies and their leaders, and I find it difficult to see the positives in any situation now.

Today, I completed a background check for a job I applied for in Texas, and it revealed a misdemeanor conviction from 2009 for theft (between $50 and $500). I was only 19 at the time. The company had me go through behavioral assessments and reference checks before even making a formal offer, which has me a bit anxious. I sent my references to my future boss on Wednesday, but I haven't heard back yet. The recruiter mentioned that my assessment results were sent to the hiring manager, so I'm left wondering how much this old conviction might impact my chances of getting the job, especially since the salary band starts at $75k and they ran a comprehensive check back to when I was 18. I'm curious if others have had similar experiences and how they were treated by employers regarding past misdemeanors.

I just went through a tough experience at my job where I failed my 90-day probation period. I was working as a marketing associate at a mid-sized tech company, and I never received any formal reviews or evaluations from my manager about my performance. The only communication I had was with the HR representative. My manager was often out of the office, attending meetings or traveling, so I never had a chance to discuss my progress with him. He mainly focused on results rather than quality, which I found concerning. During my termination meeting, he mentioned that I was asking too many questions and struggled to grasp the company vision, which I didn't see coming. It felt like I was left in the dark about my performance, and now I'm left to figure out my next steps. It’s hard to process this unexpected loss, but I know I need to update my resume and start looking for new opportunities. I’ve learned the importance of keeping detailed notes and seeking feedback more proactively in the future.

I applied for a pilot position about a month ago and have progressed through three interview stages: a video interview, a technical interview, and a final interview last Friday with the assistant chief pilots, who are the hiring managers. I felt confident about my performance and made sure to send thank you notes to each of them. They mentioned there are six candidates for the role, and they plan to hire two, with one last candidate to interview the following Tuesday. They indicated I would hear back by the end of last week, but it’s now a week later and I haven't received any updates. Throughout the process, communication was prompt, which makes the silence even more nerve-wracking. I've been checking my ICIMS status, which still shows 'under review'—it hasn’t changed since I started interviewing. The last update was the Monday after my interview, which adds to my anxiety. I know different companies use ICIMS in various ways, but I’m hoping for some insight to ease my worries.

I recently had an interview for a job that I applied for, and it went really well, even though it was held outside, which was a first for me. While I was there, I noticed they were interviewing another candidate as I signed in. Just two days later, I received a text from my recruiter congratulating me on getting the job! However, I was taken aback when she asked me to send my full name, address, date of birth, and social security number via email. She also requested photos of my SSN and driver's license for the I-9 form to start the onboarding process. I expressed my willingness to provide any necessary documentation, but I voiced my concerns about sending my SSN through email due to privacy and security issues. When I asked if there were alternative methods, like a secure link, she insisted that there weren't and reassured me that my information would be safe. I'm feeling conflicted because I really need this job, but I'm also wary about the security of my personal information. I'm considering reaching out to the company's HR department to verify the legitimacy of the request. What would you do in my situation?

I want to share a story from my early career that still sticks with me. After graduating with my IT degree in the early 2000s, I was working part-time at GameStop, which was great for flexibility while I searched for a full-time job. The manager offered me a full-time keyholder position, but I declined, wanting to find something more aligned with my career goals. A friend connected me with a recruiting company, and after a successful interview, I was told to wait for a full-time position. Eventually, they offered me a temporary role at a large medical insurance provider during a system conversion, which involved tedious data checking. I arranged my start date and gave my notice at GameStop. However, just days before I was set to start, the recruiter called to inform me that the position was no longer available. They suggested I wait for it to reopen. I stayed at GameStop, but with reduced hours due to another hire. A month later, the recruiter called again with a new start date. This time, I kept my position at GameStop, working nights and weekends just in case. When I finally started the new job, I found myself in a fluorescent-lit room with three others, and quickly learned that one of my coworkers was being paid more for the same work simply because she was hired through a different recruiter. As I got to know my colleagues, one revealed that she had started on the same day I was originally supposed to begin, thanks to her connection to the head of the recruiting company. It turned out that the recruiter had offered me the job, made me plan my exit from GameStop, and then hired their friend's daughter instead. I was furious and immediately began searching for a new job. Fortunately, I found a full-time permanent position not long after. This experience has always nagged at me, and I felt it was time to share it.

Today, I'm reflecting on a big decision regarding my career and living situation. I've been working in a fully remote role for about six years now, making around $103k while living rent-free with my family in Georgia. Recently, I received an offer for an onsite position in Birmingham, Alabama, which comes with a salary of $130k. However, this would mean moving out, paying rent, and covering all the living expenses that come with it. I'm trying to figure out if the extra $30k would be worth the costs of living in a new state. My current job is focused on cloud migrations, while the new role is a DevOps SRE position. I have concerns about how much I'd actually keep after taxes and living expenses, especially since my current company has been laying off employees annually. I also worry about job stability in general, as I've only received about three job offers in the last three years out of around 200 applications. Most of those offers came from smaller companies that seemed unstable and offered salaries significantly lower than my current pay. On top of all that, I'm considering the social aspect of moving. Living with family has been great financially, but it's not ideal for dating, and the local population feels a bit cliquish. I wonder if moving to Birmingham would improve my dating prospects or if I'd just end up commuting to work and back home without much of a social life. I'm really torn about whether to leave my $100k+ remote job for this new $130k position. It feels risky to leave a stable situation, especially if I could end up getting laid off again and not have a safety net. I'm looking for advice on whether this move would be financially beneficial in the long run.

I recently received a job offer that has left me feeling conflicted. I applied for a more senior role at a new company, but they believe I would be a better fit for a less senior position, which feels like a lateral move for me. Currently, I’m in a role with my existing company where there is no upward mobility, as I would essentially hit a dead end with my boss. I’ve tried to explore moving to different teams for growth, but my inquiries have been met with negative responses, leaving me feeling stagnant. The new role offers the same base salary as my current job, but with a lower annual bonus and no 401k match, which would effectively reduce my overall compensation by about $9,000 each year. Unfortunately, they are not open to negotiation on this front. On the upside, the new company is experiencing rapid growth and has promised plenty of opportunities for advancement, which is very appealing given my current situation. However, I’ve also read some negative reviews on Glassdoor about the new company, mentioning issues with lack of movement and a toxic work environment. Now, I’m grappling with whether it’s worth it to make the move to a new company where growth is a possibility but not guaranteed, especially when it means accepting a lower compensation package.

I just started onboarding for my first real job after graduating, and I'm feeling a bit overwhelmed with the paperwork. I need to provide my employment history for the last seven years, but I'm struggling to recall the exact start and end dates for some of my past jobs. I've worked about ten different jobs since I was 15, but I only have the dates for my three most recent positions on my resume. I've spent half an hour trying to track down the dates for my very first job, and it's frustrating me. I don't have any tax documents to reference since my dad handles that, and I'm worried about how strict the background check will be. Will it be a problem if the dates I provide aren't exact? Also, I had a brief stint at a bowling alley where I quit after a week due to harassment. Do I really need to include that on my history? I thought background checks were mostly to verify my resume and check for criminal records, so I'm hoping minor discrepancies won't be a big issue.

I'm currently job hunting and I've been reflecting on how much my appearance might affect my chances of getting hired. Recently, I applied for a position in videography and video editing, and the company decided to skip preliminary interviews. Instead, they asked applicants to submit a short video answering a few basic questions about our experience and motivations for wanting to work there. I didn't put on any makeup for the video, just brushed my hair to look presentable. However, after watching the video, I felt really self-conscious about how I looked. I don't consider myself conventionally attractive; I have some masculine features that I usually soften with makeup, and I'm also overweight, which doesn't fit societal standards. I have crooked teeth and imperfect skin, but I always maintain good hygiene and dress well. Despite my efforts to look professional, I can't shake the feeling that my appearance might lead to being overlooked for positions I'm qualified for. In the past, I've suspected that less qualified candidates were chosen over me simply because they fit conventional beauty standards better. I’m starting to wonder if I’m just being paranoid or if there’s some truth to my concerns. Has anyone else felt this way during their job search?

I started a new job about two months ago, but I'm really not enjoying it. I was excited about the opportunity to learn new skills and work on interesting projects, but since my third week, every day has felt like a chore. I've only been onboarded into two projects, neither of which are engaging or utilize my skills. The company culture also puts the onus on me to find work if I'm not busy, which adds to my frustration. I'm seriously considering whether I should start applying for new positions now or give it a bit more time. I've heard that it's often best to look for new opportunities while still employed, especially since the job market can be unpredictable. I'm weighing my options and trying to figure out if I should stick it out a bit longer or move on.

I'm currently feeling overwhelmed in my role due to a toxic workplace environment. It's really taking a toll on my mental health and overall well-being. I've been actively searching for new job opportunities, but so far, I haven't had much luck. I'm hoping to find a healthier work culture where I can thrive and feel valued.

I’ve been feeling really overwhelmed and underappreciated at my job lately. I work in customer service, primarily doing over-the-phone troubleshooting, and it seems like I'm just a punching bag for frustrated customers. I know my stuff and I'm quite knowledgeable, but it’s disheartening to see my colleagues in higher tiers handle issues incorrectly, which often leaves me in a position where I have to either give up on helping the customer or do their jobs for them. Earlier this year, I was promised a promotion, but then they hired someone else for the role. I understand he’s qualified and has been with the company longer, but it’s frustrating to feel like I’m being overlooked despite my efforts. I keep getting told that I’m next in line for a promotion, but there’s no clear plan for when that might happen. Honestly, I’m starting to think that being unemployed might feel less soul-crushing than staying in this job where I feel so stuck and unvalued. I just need some reassurance that my career is moving forward.

I need to vent about my recent job application experience. A few months ago, I applied for a position in my field that I felt I was well-qualified for, given my unique experience. I had a screening interview with HR that went smoothly, and then I had a second interview with the department manager and her assistant. Unfortunately, that one didn’t go as well; the lack of engagement from the assistant threw me off, and I stumbled on some answers. To my surprise, a few weeks later, I was invited for a third interview with the department lead, and it was much more relaxed. I felt we connected well, and I thought I had a good chance. However, after two weeks of silence, I reached out to HR, only to find out they had hired someone else and simply forgot to notify me. That was a blow. There was another opening in the same department, so I applied again, but didn’t hear back. Then, a month later, the same department manager called me to ask if I wanted to do a fourth interview for essentially the same role. I was frustrated but desperate to leave my current job, so I agreed. The fourth interview went much better, and she promised to get back to me by the end of the week. Now, it’s been 10 days, and I still haven’t heard anything. I emailed HR for an update, but they haven’t responded. This is a well-respected healthcare employer, and I can’t understand how they can be this disorganized. Are they messing with me, or is this just how they operate?

I had an interview last Saturday for a position I really want. During the interview, they mentioned I should expect a call back within a couple of days, but now it's been almost a week. I'm feeling anxious about the wait and I'm considering whether it's appropriate to call or text them for a follow-up. I just want to know if I got the job or not, but I'm unsure if reaching out myself would be seen as pushy. I’ve seen mixed advice online, with some saying it’s a bad idea to follow up directly. Any thoughts?

I recently had an experience applying for a sales consultant position at a car dealership. About two months ago, I walked in and was able to secure an interview on the spot with two different managers. I was advised to apply online, which I did, and then I had a phone interview followed by an in-person interview with three different managers. I felt the last interview went really well; we even exchanged phone numbers, and I was told I would hear back the next day. However, that follow-up never came, and despite my attempts to reach out for an update, I received no response. Fast forward to now, I decided to apply again just to see what would happen, and I received an email inviting me to schedule another phone interview. I'm wondering if it's worth going through the process again, and if there's any chance they might reconsider my application this time around. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!