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I'm currently two years post-graduation with a degree in health and nutritional science. I started my first job in January at a federally funded health program, but I've realized that I really dislike it, and the pay is only $45,000. I've been trying to pivot towards the corporate sector, specifically in operations and compliance, and I'm open to health-adjacent roles in pharmaceuticals and biotech. So far, I've had two interviews with a top advertising company and a growing health tech startup, but neither led to anything. However, those experiences have boosted my confidence that I can make this transition soon. I have an upcoming interview with a city-funded program through a nonprofit, and the pay range is $27-30 an hour. It's a hybrid position with decent benefits, and while the work is similar to what I'm doing now, it leans more into compliance. My main concern is that this isn't the pay raise I'm looking for, and I really want to leave the public health nonprofit space altogether. I'm wondering if I should seriously consider this interview or potential job offer, especially since I'm based in NYC where salary is crucial.

I recently received a job offer for an IT Help Desk position at Holiday Inn Vacation Club, thanks to an internal referral from my dad, who works at the same company but on a different team. However, I have some concerns regarding my background check. Last year, I was arrested for petty theft in Florida, but the charges were dismissed due to a pre-trial diversion program. Although I'm in the process of getting that expunged, it hasn't been finalized yet. I completed the background check through HireRight and received the orientation and onboarding paperwork, but I'm worried that HR might flag my past arrest during their review. The email I received stated that onboarding would only be sent after successfully clearing the background check, which adds to my anxiety. I haven't received a clear confirmation that I've cleared the background check, so I'm left wondering if my job offer could be rescinded. I'm reaching out to see if anyone has had similar experiences or can offer advice on how to handle this situation. I'm really hopeful about this opportunity and just want to ensure everything goes smoothly.

I experienced a layoff today that feels incredibly unfair. I had only recently joined the company after a long 14-month process to secure my position. I put in a lot of effort over the past three months, but it all came crashing down when HR unexpectedly came in and informed me that my role was eliminated. They didn't hold any meetings or one-on-ones to discuss this; it was just a sudden decision from management. It seems like a new guy came in and decided to clean house, bringing in his own team and letting go of several of us. In the last two weeks alone, around eight people have been affected, and I fear more layoffs are on the way. I’m struggling to find the right words to tell my family about this situation, as I know it will lead to a lot of stress and concern for them. Sleep has been elusive, and my mind is racing with thoughts about what to do next. I feel a deep frustration towards the new hires and the way management has handled this entire situation. I even spent nearly two months' salary to relocate for this job, and it feels like they don't care at all about the impact on our lives. I just wish I had some support or clarity from HR, but they seem completely detached, simply stating that it was a management decision with no room for discussion. It’s a tough pill to swallow.

I've been job hunting for almost three months now since graduating college, and I'm feeling really stuck. I’ve applied to numerous entry-level IT roles, but I haven't received a single reply. It’s frustrating because I thought my degree would help me land a position, but it seems like the market is incredibly competitive right now. I’ve seen comments suggesting that the job market is worse than ever for new graduates, and I can’t help but feel overwhelmed. I’m starting to wonder if I should be looking elsewhere, maybe even in construction, since my lack of recent work experience might be holding me back. I’m not sure what to do next.

Since January 1 of this year, I've been actively job hunting and have gone through a series of interviews and work tests, but the results have been disheartening. With just one year of full-time work experience, I've managed to get past the application stage with 16 organizations and am currently in progress with one more. Here's a breakdown of my journey so far: - I completed a work test but was rejected afterward. - I also went through a paid work test, which ended in rejection. - I faced a short screener with a founder and was rejected. - After passing three rounds of online tests, I was rejected after the first interview. The feedback was that my alignment with the role was good, but other candidates were deemed more correct and insightful during the problem-solving portion. - I had to decline an interview for a traineeship due to start date conflicts. - I was rejected after a first interview for a part-time job. - I passed a work test but was rejected after a one-way asynchronous interview. After these experiences, I decided to invest in interview coaching to improve my chances: - I received an internship offer after three interviews but declined it due to the interviewers badmouthing the company, an insultingly low hourly rate, and the fact that it wasn't a permanent position. - I was rejected after a first interview with a hiring manager who hadn't even read my resume. - I was told they would circle back for an autumn hiring cohort, but ultimately, that didn't lead anywhere. - One interview ended early due to start date and location requirements. - I faced another rejection after an HR screener. - I was praised for my interview and work test performance, but ultimately rejected because they thought I’d be a better fit elsewhere, citing my lack of direct experience in their specific work environment. - I faced multiple rejections after HR screeners and first interviews. - The organization that said they would circle back eventually rejected me after a second interview, stating they couldn't see the underlying analysis behind my recommendations in a case-style interview. - I passed a work test but was rejected after an HR screener. - Finally, I passed an HR screener and took a work test, only to be rejected because they opted for candidates with more experience. All these roles were generalist and non-technical, and honestly, this bottlenecking makes me feel like I may never get my life off the ground.

After months of job searching since June, filled with ghosting, rejections, and some pretty tough moments, I finally received three job offers! I'm feeling a mix of excitement and relief, and I would love to get some opinions on which offer might be the best fit for me. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

Today, I received an email regarding my formal probation meeting, which has left me feeling confused and anxious about my future at the company. I work in a role that has been under scrutiny for communication issues, protectiveness, and training engagement. First, the email mentioned that my communication is improving, yet it still flagged it as an issue. I genuinely don't understand why this is still being brought up. Secondly, I recognize that my protectiveness can be an issue. I often feel awkward during quiet moments at work and struggle to find tasks to fill that time. During this probation period, regular checks are conducted, but once those are done, I often find myself at a loss for what to do next. Lastly, regarding training engagement, the feedback indicated that I lack engagement during training sessions. However, whenever I sought help, the person assigned to train me would take over instead of guiding me through the process, which left me struggling to learn on my own. I completed one training task over a week ago, but it was still mentioned in the email as incomplete. I’m feeling a constant state of anxiety about possibly being dismissed. The email stated that I have the right to bring someone to the meeting and that they might extend my probation or terminate my employment. I’ve started applying for other jobs, but the thought of being dismissed is overwhelming. I’m scheduled to work for the next three days, and if I do get let go, I know I’ll be devastated while I’m there.

I recently applied for a position at a tech company and haven't heard back for a while. I'm starting to feel anxious about my application status and wondering if I'm still in the running for the role. I reached out to the hiring manager last week but haven't received a response yet. I really believe I would be a great fit for the team, and I'm eager to know if I should continue waiting or start looking elsewhere.

I recently got fired from my job after a heated argument with my boss. I was late to work by 15 minutes on a day when we had a VIP client visiting. My boss, who is quite overweight, confronted me about my tardiness and called it disrespectful. In a moment of frustration, I lost my temper and called him a 'fatass' in response to his criticism. He was understandably furious and fired me on the spot. Now, I'm trying to figure out how to explain this situation in future job interviews. I know I need to take responsibility for my actions, but I'm worried about how to frame this incident without making it seem like I'm just making excuses. Any advice on how to handle this would be appreciated.

I’ve been working at a nonprofit organization for almost two years now, and it’s been my first job since graduating college. Recently, I’ve been actively searching for new opportunities as I feel ready for a change. During my annual evaluation with my supervisor, we discussed my performance and how I’ve been adjusting to working remotely after moving to a new city. She asked if I could commit to staying for the next nine months of our fiscal year, and I agreed, thinking it was just a verbal commitment. However, today I received an email with a formal commitment form to fill out, which states it’s meant to assess staff commitment and enthusiasm. I’m in a tough spot because I don’t want to lie on the form, but I also don’t want to jeopardize my relationship with my current employer. I’m feeling pressured to stay, but I’m also determined to keep looking for a new job. What should I do?

I recently experienced a layoff and it hit me hard emotionally. I always feel like a complete wreck during these times, and with the current state of the economy, my anxiety has only intensified. I'm trying to figure out how to cope with the uncertainty and stress that comes with job loss. It's frustrating to see comments suggesting I should just avoid getting laid off, as if that's a feasible solution. I'm considering whether I need to pivot to a more stable field to prevent this from happening again.

I had an interview with McDonald's yesterday for a position, and they mentioned they would get back to me by the end of the day regarding a second interview. However, I haven't heard from them yet. I'm debating whether I should follow up with an email today or wait until tomorrow. Part of me thinks I should give them another 24 hours to respond, but I also don't want to seem too eager. I'm looking for advice on the best course of action.

I recently got laid off and found a great opportunity to connect with others in similar situations. I joined a weekday hiking group in the Bay Area, California, specifically for those navigating layoffs or job transitions. This Monday, September 28, at 11 am, we're hiking at the Audubon Williams Sisters Ranch in Portola Valley. It's a 3.6-mile loop with a 400 ft elevation gain, and we're getting special access to this beautiful ranch. The group usually splits into smaller ones based on pace, which helps everyone enjoy the hike without feeling crowded. Mondays are chosen for hikes because the trail traffic is low, making it a perfect day for a group like ours. While hiking is our main activity, the community also engages in co-working sessions, job search assistance, and social events like coffee meet-ups and biking. It's open to everyone, even those who are currently employed, as long as they understand the focus on supporting those in transition. I'm looking forward to clearing my head and making some new connections!

I recently applied for two positions at a bank: one as a lockbox processor and the other as a payment research clerk. Both roles offered similar pay, and I had conversations with recruiters for each. Unfortunately, I received a rejection email for the payment research position, but I do have an interview lined up for the lockbox processor role. Despite not being unemployed and only casually looking for a better-paying job, I’ve been feeling quite down since the rejection. I can’t quite figure out why I’m feeling this way, especially since I’m still moving forward with the interview. Has anyone else experienced similar feelings during their job search?

I have an interview scheduled for a part-time job, and I'm starting to feel uneasy about the situation. I'm a university student, and the job ad specifically asked for college students, which struck me as odd since it didn't relate to anything academic. I thought they might be trying to help students find work, so I applied. When I got the call for the interview, they informed me it would take place on a floor of a building at an address I didn't recognize. After looking it up, I found out the building is located on a narrow street in a neighborhood that has a reputation for being sketchy. I did find the company's official website, which lists the address they provided, but I still feel uncomfortable about going to an interview in such a private location rather than a public space. I'm wondering if I'm overreacting or if this is a common practice for interviews. I’ve seen some comments suggesting this might be related to multi-level marketing, which makes me even more doubtful. I’ve never had an interview outside of a proper office setting before, so I’m really torn about whether I should go or trust my instincts.

I’m currently feeling trapped in my corporate marketing job at an unethical company where I've been for the past four years. The environment is toxic, with inadequate tools and a culture that feels more like a prison than a workplace. We have to swipe badges to enter, and the open office layout, combined with constant surveillance, makes it hard to focus. I’m completely burned out and dread getting up in the morning. I've applied to around 100 jobs but have only landed 3-4 interviews, which is disheartening. I feel exhausted and hopeless, and every day at work feels like a sentence I have to serve. Promotions are rare, and despite my hard work and accomplishments, I feel unrecognized and undervalued. I’m not sure how to improve my situation, but I know I need to keep pushing through this job search.

I’m currently navigating a tough situation at my job as a catastrophe modeler at a large insurance brokerage. I earned my PhD in Civil Engineering last year and chose to move into the industry instead of staying in academia. While the role is relatively easy—mostly running software and supporting other teams—I’ve taken the initiative to build and maintain our team’s data pipeline and repository, along with developing in-house models for portfolio optimization. Despite receiving "exceeding expectations" on every performance review, I’m feeling demotivated due to the lack of a meaningful raise and a clear path to promotion. My manager initially mentioned a 6-8% raise, but when I brought it up during my August review, he didn’t recall making that promise and suggested I was asking for too much. I provided metrics showing my contributions and achievements, but upper management only recommended a 2% raise, which feels inadequate given the rising cost of living in San Diego. I appreciate my manager and the work-life balance, but I need fair compensation and a real promotion pathway to stay motivated. Knowing that promotions are slow here and that many coworkers have been waiting for years without progress adds to my frustration. Currently, I’m interviewing for a contract-to-full-time role elsewhere that offers a salary nearly double my current pay, along with benefits like insurance and a 401k. Although contract work makes me nervous, the potential for a career jump is enticing. I’m torn between staying in a comfortable position with supportive management and pursuing this new opportunity that could lead to better financial stability. I’d love to hear from others who have made a similar transition from contract to full-time.

I have been navigating the corporate world for over 4 years, but I still struggle to find a stable job. I did manage to find a stable position once, but it was low-paying. My career started with a sales job that lasted only 45 days due to a verbally abusive manager, which led me to resign from that toxic insurance aggregator firm. During the pandemic, I secured another job, but it lasted just 35 days because they insisted on working from the office during peak COVID-19, and I eventually got sick. After a few months, I found another position that lasted 7 months, but the company canceled my leave on my birthday and made me cover shifts for teammates, leading to burnout. I resigned after an incident where a supervisor insulted me for asking for help. I then took a job that lasted only 5 months because the client closed the account with the vendor. I got lucky and found a job that lasted a year, but once again, the business was sold to a third party. I managed to stay on for 2 years, but the micromanagement became unbearable. They started tracking every click and performance review every two months, and I eventually resigned after a manager called me at 6 AM about an unresolved ticket. I spent 8 months unemployed trying to start my own business, but only managed to sell a few cars. Out of desperation, I took a graveyard shift job with an okay salary, but it was detrimental to my health, and I resigned after a disagreement with my manager. After another 7 months of unemployment, I learned about AML/KYC and joined a well-known fintech company. Unfortunately, I was fired within 4 months for not meeting their high efficiency and quality metrics. Now, I feel mentally and physically exhausted. I've been trying to make this work for almost 5 years, and with the ongoing pandemic, wars, and the rise of AI, I'm at my breaking point. I really need guidance on how to strategize my job hunt and land a stable position.

I joined a startup about 11 months ago, excited for growth after leaving my previous job with a significant salary hike of 48%. As the first employee, I thought I could really make a mark in my role as a Video Content Creator and Social Media Manager. Initially, I achieved great results, with two of my videos surpassing 1 million views and one of my social media pages growing from 200 to over 3,000 followers. My founder was pleased with my work and began involving me in discussions about various business challenges. However, this led to me taking on responsibilities far beyond my original role. I found myself managing website redesigns, hiring, CRM selection and implementation, and training the sales team, all while trying to keep up with my video and social media tasks. I felt overwhelmed, like I was juggling the work of multiple people. Despite raising my concerns about the workload, my founder insisted that these operational issues were more pressing than my video work. After months of extra responsibilities, I requested a salary revision, but my founder initially postponed it, citing the company's lack of profitability. Eventually, I received a small increment, but the micromanagement began to escalate. My breaking point came when I was blamed for not creating videos during a month when I was focused on CRM projects. On September 20, I resigned, expecting a standard handover process, but my founder has ghosted me completely. He hasn't acknowledged my resignation or provided any guidance, leaving me confused about what to do next. I also lack proper employment documents, which adds to my anxiety about receiving my salary for the month. I'm reaching out for advice from anyone with experience in similar situations, especially in the startup scene in India.

I recently applied for an account manager position at Amcor and am expecting a job offer tomorrow. However, I have a pending DUI charge and I'm anxious about whether Amcor conducts background checks. I'm looking for insights on their hiring process and if they typically care about such charges. Any advice or experiences related to Amcor's background check policies would be greatly appreciated.