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I'm currently in a tough situation as my partner is desperately seeking a job in Ventura County. We've been facing numerous rejections and it's becoming incredibly frustrating. Despite applying to many positions, we haven't received any responses. My partner is highly experienced, a hard worker, and very adaptable, but the job market has been unkind. He's been feeling very low and it's taking a toll on both of us. I'm working full-time to support our son while trying to help him find opportunities. If anyone has leads or can recommend places to apply, I would greatly appreciate it. I'm more than willing to share his resume and any other details needed. Thank you for any help!

I had an awkward experience a few weeks ago while riding the subway in New York City. I overheard a woman talking to her friends about how her fashion company was short-staffed and actively interviewing candidates. Since I have some experience in the fashion industry, I thought it might be a good opportunity to network, so I approached her and asked if I could have her business card. To my surprise, she snapped "NO" and turned away from me, along with her friends who avoided making eye contact. I felt embarrassed and angry by her rude response. While I understand she wasn't obligated to give me her information, her attitude really caught me off guard. As a mixed Black woman, I couldn't help but wonder if their reaction had any racial undertones, especially since they were all White except for one Asian woman in the group. I'm now questioning whether I made a social mistake by asking for her business card so directly. I’m on the autism spectrum, which sometimes makes social interactions challenging for me. I thought being proactive and trying to network was a good approach, especially since I’ve been feeling burned out from endlessly searching for jobs online. Growing up, I always heard that New York is a place full of opportunities, but it seems that might not be the case for everyone. I'm left wondering how others in NYC are finding jobs, because I definitely don't want to put myself in that situation again.

I’ve been unemployed for almost 14 months now, and it feels like I’m in a never-ending cycle of frustration. I worked hard to break into my industry and finally got my foot in the door, but after just three years, I was made redundant. Since then, I’ve struggled to find work. The job market is tough, and it seems like you need to have specific experience in the exact role to even be considered. I’m caught in this limbo where I’m too experienced for entry-level positions but not enough for mid-level roles. At 30, I feel like I’m starting over, and it’s been a real blow to my self-worth. I dedicated my young adulthood to building my career, and now I feel lost. I keep hearing people say, 'you’ll get there,' but I just don’t see how. I’m reaching out for stories of hope or motivation from anyone who has been in a similar situation and managed to turn things around. I need to believe that it’s possible.

Today, I found myself reflecting on my role as a supervisor for a part-time employee who has been excelling at certain tasks. It’s a bit of a mixed bag; while I genuinely appreciate his skills and have learned a lot from him, I can’t help but feel overshadowed. Recently, I've noticed that leadership has started to give him credit for work that I've completed, and they often go directly to him for tasks that are technically my responsibility. This has been frustrating and has left me feeling like my contributions are going unnoticed. Adding to this, I've had a challenging year personally, dealing with postpartum issues and a high-conflict divorce, which has affected my memory and focus. I’m actively working on these challenges, but the combination of feeling overlooked at work and my personal struggles has been quite demoralizing. I really like my coworkers and don’t believe anyone is intentionally undermining me, but I’m starting to wonder if I should seek a new job altogether. I’ve been considering my options and thinking about how to address this situation. Some suggestions I’ve received include documenting instances where my work has been misattributed, talking to my supervisor about it, and even having a conversation with the intern to help redirect some tasks back to me. It’s a tough spot to be in, especially since I’m unionized and can’t be easily fired unless I accumulate five years of poor reviews, which I haven’t. I’m trying to figure out how to improve my situation while also maintaining my sanity and motivation at work.

I recently applied for a remote position at Hiregy and was surprised to receive an offer letter almost immediately. Having worked in contract roles before, I’m familiar with the red flags that indicate a scam, but so far, Hiregy seems legitimate. My main concern is the speed of the hiring process; it feels a bit too quick. I’ve been trying to find more information about the company and feedback from current employees, but I haven’t had much luck. I even did a Google search, and it appears to be a legitimate company, but I would love to hear from anyone who has experience working there.

Today, I learned that Expedia has cut 58 jobs in Seattle as part of their second round of layoffs this year. It’s concerning to see the company making such drastic cuts, especially since I know many people who work there. I’m currently in the job market myself and watching these developments closely, as it reflects the broader challenges in the tech industry right now.

I have been working as a PCA/CNA for a healthcare company in Washington, DC for the past 7 years. Last November, my unit was closed, and I was offered a position in another part of the facility that specializes in pediatrics with complex medical needs. However, I've been facing significant challenges in this new role. Due to a union agreement, nursing staff can be canceled at least once per pay period, which means I often receive calls telling me not to come in if the patient census is low. This has resulted in me being canceled from shifts regularly, and I've exhausted all my leave, leaving me unable to take any time off or vacation. It's frustrating because no other department experiences this level of cancellation. Working with newborns to young adults can be demanding, and I used to enjoy my job, but now I feel depressed and overwhelmed. The situation is further complicated by talks of moving to another building due to financial losses, and it seems like our department is the only one being negatively impacted. I'm really at my wit's end with this job.

I was recently made redundant from my position, and I'm finding it really challenging to get back into the job market. The whole process feels overwhelming, and I'm not sure where to start. I've been updating my resume and applying to various positions, but I haven't had much luck so far. I'm hoping to connect with others who might have tips or similar experiences.

I just got laid off from my position, and while I understand that layoffs happen, I'm feeling really frustrated about how it went down. I was evaluated alongside another colleague who has been underperforming for the past year, and it seems like my manager submitted misleading reasons to justify my low score. They claimed I resisted an even workload, which is completely false. I have evidence to show that I had more work than my colleague, yet the higher-ups dismissed my claims. To make matters worse, I was criticized for testing a new tool that my manager specifically instructed me to try out. It feels like my manager set me up to fail, and I can't help but feel angry about the whole situation. Has anyone else experienced something similar?

I’ve been contemplating whether it’s worth applying for jobs over the weekend. I’m worried that since many HR and hiring managers are off, my applications might just get lost in the shuffle and not be seen. I’m also looking for recommendations on job search websites or apps, as I haven’t had much luck with Indeed, LinkedIn, or ZipRecruiter. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

I'm 30 years old and feeling completely stuck in my life. I started my first job at 25, but it didn't offer any insurance. Eventually, I landed a full-time position through a family member, which was amazing until I got arrested for a minor misdemeanor. I hired a lawyer who got me out of prison, but I lost my job shortly after. I managed to work for a bit longer, but they decided to let me go instead of suspending me. I really needed that job, and finding another one has been a struggle. After being fired, I found another job three months later, but it was a nightmare. The micromanagement and unrealistic expectations made it unbearable, and I was let go for something trivial. I was unemployed for about 6-7 months, desperately searching for work. Finally, I got my current job, but it’s only part-time with no insurance and inconsistent hours. I’m grateful to have it, but I need a full-time position with benefits. I’ve been applying to full-time jobs and have had several interviews, but they haven’t hired me. It’s frustrating, and I feel like I’m at a dead end. I can’t drive, so I’m limited to jobs I can easily reach, like in Manhattan or Hell's Kitchen. My stress levels are through the roof, and I’m willing to do anything for a decent paycheck and health insurance. I really don’t know what to do next.

I've been working in the corporate world for a few years now, and honestly, I've been hoping to get laid off for quite some time. I thought that getting severance would be a way out, but after keeping an eye on the job market, I've come to realize that things aren't looking too great out there. The more I read about the impact of AI on jobs, the more worried I become. While my specific role may not be completely obsolete, I can see how companies are increasingly relying on AI to handle tasks that used to require a full team. This means they might only need one competent person to oversee everything, which puts many of us at risk. I'm curious to hear how AI is affecting others in their jobs.

I was recently laid off from my role at a private equity-owned company where I had worked for three years. My experience took a turn for the worse when a new manager joined the team about a year ago. From the start, he made condescending remarks about me, often at my expense to entertain the team. After weeks of this behavior, I confronted him, which led to a meeting where he mockingly referred to it as our 'first case.' Before this manager arrived, my previous supervisor had assigned me to a significant project that I was really excited about. However, the new manager took me off that project to handle it himself, likely to gain visibility. He ended up messing it up, resulting in thousands of angry customers for months. After that, he assigned me another important project but pulled me off it just as I started receiving recognition from the CEO. Recently, my manager began making comments about my impending termination, and two weeks ago, during a meeting with the CEO and CTO, he smiled while informing me that my position was being eliminated. I managed to stay calm and thanked the CTO for the opportunity to work with him. The next day, I decided to sue the company, as I had ample documentation to support my case. My lawyer offered me a $12,000 severance package, which I accepted to move on, but I am still filled with anger and anxiety over how I was treated. It feels unjust that after three years of hard work, I was discarded due to a personal vendetta from a manager who seemed to enjoy undermining me. I can't shake the feeling that my dedication and friendly nature have been tarnished by this experience. I witnessed how my manager also manipulated situations to get rid of others, including a senior engineer who, despite not contributing much, was spared because of his relationship with the manager. Reflecting on this, I realize how toxic the environment was, and I am now grappling with the fear of facing similar situations in the future. It's disheartening to see someone thrive by taking credit for others' work while I was pushed out for no valid reason.

I was fired six months ago from my role at a nonprofit organization during a family crisis. Recently, I received a message from a friend still working there, asking if I would consider returning. I initially laughed it off, thinking it was a joke, but it turns out that a director and a coordinator had discussed my potential return with her. The next day, I got multiple calls and texts from my old supervisor, who was also fired, but I chose to ignore them as I wasn't ready to respond. I'm apprehensive about going back to a place that treated me as disposable during such a vulnerable time. The way they reached out through my friend feels unprofessional, and I suspect there are underlying issues. I learned that my former supervisor has an active lawsuit against the organization for racial discrimination, which adds to my concerns about the workplace culture. After I was let go, I found out that the person promoted to my position was someone who had always made me uncomfortable with their behavior. They claimed to be intimidated by my skills, and I later discovered they were using my absence due to personal loss as an excuse to complain about their workload. While I miss the financial stability and benefits from that job, I can't justify returning to an environment that felt toxic and undermining. It's almost comical how the situation has unfolded, and I feel a sense of vindication knowing that my work was still being utilized despite their claims about my performance. I’m still navigating my next steps, but returning to that place doesn’t seem worth it.

I recently faced an unexpected layoff from my job in Virginia, where I was working for a year before things took a turn after I requested disability accommodations for my mental health. My employer fired me over Zoom without providing a specific reason, and I didn't receive any formal warnings or a performance improvement plan prior to this. Now, I'm applying for unemployment benefits, but the application asks for the reason for my termination, and I'm unsure how to answer since my employer has refused to provide any information. In the past, I had a negative experience with the Virginia Employment Commission (VEC) during COVID, where my case was dismissed due to my employer's claims that I had quit, which wasn't true. This led to my account being locked for months, and I struggled to get back-pay. Given this history, I'm anxious about my current situation and the potential for being disqualified from receiving benefits due to a lack of clarity around my termination. I've been trying to reach out to the VEC for guidance, but it's been frustratingly difficult to get through. I’m considering selecting 'Terminated - Other' on the application and explaining that I wasn't given a reason for my termination. However, I'm worried that this might lead to complications if my employer disputes my claim. I'm looking for advice from anyone who has been in a similar situation or has insights on how to navigate this process effectively.

I've been struggling to find real entry-level roles that offer decent wages. It seems like most job boards are filled with senior positions offering poverty-level pay for the amount of work expected. I have a background in liberal arts and sciences, with some graphic design electives under my belt. I've dedicated around 30,000 hours to self-study through biographical interviews and audiobooks, trying to build my skills. Recently, I converted an old Windows 8 eMachine into a media server, and I’ve also been working on a 2009 Mac Mini to set it up as a Pi-hole. I have experience in illustration and photography, including traditional and digital DSLR photography, and I used to take action shots at indie concerts. I even considered starting a pop-up dog and pet photo stand, but the upfront costs are daunting. I once dreamed of working in the film industry, but I quickly realized that entry-level wages are often as low as those in retail. I've done tech support in the past and have some experience modding game files to bypass grindy tasks. I created an animatic proof of concept for an IP I love and tried my hand at low-content notebooks and Redbubble, but I've only made about $20 overall. The challenge is that while I can develop functional skills, the lack of immediate return on investment or feedback makes it hard to build on my experiences. I'm feeling overwhelmed and just need a break to clear my head, as the endless cycle of labor and the constant struggle with poverty is exhausting, especially without stable employment.

I recently attended an off-site hiring event for Nordstrom and was offered a Seasonal Selling Floor position on the spot. The interviewer provided me with the onboarding paperwork, including my job title, pay, and start date of October 9th. However, I'm currently seeing my status as "Under Consideration" in Workday, and I haven't received my offer letter or any background check tasks yet. I reached out to the local store, and they confirmed that my profile is active, but the offer letter hasn't been generated yet. It's been a few days now, and with my start date approaching, I'm feeling a bit anxious. I've heard that delays can happen, especially with off-site events, but I'm not sure if this is typical. I'm wondering if anyone has experience with this process. Is a 3-5 day delay common for off-site event batches? Should I just keep checking my Candidate Home and following up with the store? Also, is there a specific contact I can reach out to for more information on my offer letter? Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

I wanted to share a warning about a company I recently encountered during my job search. A recruiter reached out to me regarding a Senior Technical Business Analyst position for 2024, but I have serious doubts about the validity of this role. The job listing keeps getting relisted on LinkedIn, and despite my efforts to flag it, LinkedIn hasn't taken any action. Additionally, I noticed that several other positions at this company have been open for over a year, which raises red flags. I believe it's important for us to share our experiences with companies like this to help others avoid wasting time on potentially fake job opportunities.

I'm feeling really stuck right now with my career path. I have a B.A. in Psychology and an Associate's in Library Technology, but my original goal of becoming a forensic psychologist fell through when I wasn't accepted into grad school. I tried to shift gears towards library science because I enjoy the idea of working in a library, but the job market in my area is dismal. I can't find a single job opening for a library tech or even a library page, and volunteer opportunities are non-existent since the only local library only accepts high school students. Currently, I'm stuck in a job as an accounts payable clerk, which I absolutely dislike. I also have some experience as a mental health crisis counselor, hospice volunteer, and administrative assistant, but I feel like my education and experience aren't leading me anywhere. Most positions I'm interested in require more experience or further education, which is frustrating. I'm really at a loss for what to do next.

Today was a turning point for me at my job as a Food Server Assistant (essentially a busser) at a local restaurant where I've been working for a year and a half. We were incredibly busy, and I noticed my partner was struggling to keep up. After waiting for about 5-10 minutes while he worked on one table, I approached him with what I thought was a straightforward request to speed up, given the line out the door. Unfortunately, he reacted defensively, claiming I was cursing him out, which I definitely wasn't. Things escalated when he confronted me aggressively, even grabbing my wrist to prevent me from backing away. I felt unsafe and yelled at him to stop touching me before I ran off to speak with management. When I finally got to talk to my manager, I was shocked to hear that I should have kept quiet instead of addressing the issue directly. This is frustrating because I've raised concerns about his pace multiple times, but nothing has changed. To make matters worse, my manager has been spreading the idea that I exaggerated the situation and even questioned my honesty about him grabbing me. This has left me feeling unsupported and uncertain about returning to work tomorrow, especially since I have to deal with the same manager who doubts me. I'm feeling drained and overwhelmed by this whole experience, and I'm starting to wonder if I should look for a new job. The thought of having to explain to a future employer that I need a month off next summer for my wedding adds another layer of stress. I'm really at a crossroads and would appreciate any advice on how to handle this situation moving forward.