Feeling

I just received a rejection email from a company I never actually applied to. I had started filling out an application through their icims system but didn’t complete it or submit it. A couple of weeks ago, I even got an automated reminder to finish my application, but I didn’t think much of it. Today, I was surprised to find a rejection email waiting for me. It’s baffling to get rejected for something I didn’t even apply for!

I’m currently working at Dunkin in New Jersey, trying to balance my job with college expenses. I’m 24 years old and I work alongside my sister. Finding this minimum-wage job took me several months, so leaving isn’t a simple option for me. However, I’m facing a serious issue with my manager, who is consistently angry and has shown mentally abusive and physically aggressive behavior. I've seen him confront my sister and other employees physically, which is alarming. We’ve reported his actions to upper management, but nothing seems to change. The work environment is becoming increasingly hostile, and I’m worried that his behavior might escalate into something worse. I need this job to support my education, but I’m feeling trapped and concerned for my safety and that of my coworkers.

I was furloughed from my full-time remote Software Engineer position back in April and spent several months searching for a new job. Finally, I landed a W2 contract-to-hire position through a recruiter who is a family friend of my wife. The job is hybrid, requiring me to be onsite two days a week, and it’s located about half an hour from my home. The initial contract terms were quite unfavorable, including a clause that stated I wouldn't be paid for any time I billed if the client didn't pay, and another clause that would hold me liable for damages if I quit without giving a full two weeks' notice. After negotiating, those clauses were removed, and I signed the contract with an estimated start date of July 1st. However, July 1st came and went without any communication. I was informed that I couldn't start until they sent me the necessary equipment. I was given the option to drive an hour and a half to another city for my first day on July 8th, but I chose to wait for the equipment instead. Now, July 15th has passed, and still no equipment has arrived. This week began with no tracking number in sight, and now it’s July 21st, and I'm still waiting. I'm three weeks into this signed contract, which prohibits me from working elsewhere, yet I'm not being given any work to bill. I had to resign from my previous position to take this role and have arranged childcare multiple times only to cancel each time. At this point, I'm seriously considering whether I can just bail on this contract since they aren't holding up their end of the deal. I can't risk jeopardizing my unemployment benefits.

I recently applied for a remote position with a company based in Germany. About five days after submitting my application, I received an email asking for my availability for an interview. I promptly replied, stating that I was available on Thursday and also asked for their preferred time. However, it's been 24 hours since I sent my response, and I haven't heard back from them. I'm feeling a bit confused about what to do next. Should I wait to see if they reach out tomorrow, or would it be better to follow up with another email?

I have a final interview coming up for a position in Michigan, and if everything goes well, the start date will be several weeks out in August. I'm trying to figure out how a delayed start like this affects my unemployment certification. Should I indicate that I've accepted a job based on the date of the last interview, even though I haven't started working yet? Also, do I still need to continue my job searches in the weeks leading up to my start date? I'm really concerned about making sure I handle this correctly so that I can keep up with my bills.

Today was a tough day at the hospital where I work. While on direct observation with a patient, things took a turn when she started unscrewing a screw from the door. I attempted to verbally de-escalate the situation and encourage her to hand over the screw. Unfortunately, I wasn't aware that I could physically intervene to prevent her from swallowing it. I hit my badge for help, but it was in my pocket and didn’t activate. When I finally called for assistance, a nurse came over, but the patient still refused to give up the screw. Other staff joined in to help, but by the time security arrived, she had swallowed it. After the incident, I had an interview with APS and patient relations where I explained everything honestly. I acknowledged my mistake and mentioned that I hesitated to call for help earlier because I didn’t want to escalate the situation further. I've been with the hospital for 10 months without any prior issues, and I was really hoping for some understanding. Now, I'm left wondering if I’ll lose my job over this. I know I made a significant error, and I take full responsibility, but I also feel that I did my best under the circumstances. The final decision rests with the CEO, and I’m just anxiously waiting to see if I’ll get another chance.

I had an initial phone interview with an internal recruiter who seemed to appreciate my responses. This led to an in-person interview last Thursday with the department director and the VP. I sent a thank you email to the recruiter the next day, but they didn't provide any information about the decision timeline, and I forgot to ask. I'm currently employed, but this new role would significantly boost my salary and positively impact my family's financial situation. I'm feeling anxious about the outcome and debating whether to send a follow-up email tomorrow, one week after the interview, or wait until next Thursday for two weeks.

I left my job as a data analyst two years ago when I had my baby, and since then, I've been a stay-at-home mom. My husband works, so we don't really need my income, but I’ve felt unproductive and useless just staying at home. I’ve always worked, and it’s hard for me to adjust to relying on someone else financially, even if it's my husband. I started feeling anxious about the job market after hearing from old coworkers that it’s tough out there. My husband was supportive but also seemed to think I wouldn’t find anything, which made me even more anxious to prove him wrong. I didn’t want to jump back into a full-time office role right away, so I focused on remote positions. To be honest, I didn’t really job search seriously; I was quite picky and only applied to a few jobs. I sent my resume to some tech recruiters and joined a couple of talent networks, but I mostly relied on auto-submit features because I was too lazy to do it manually. Out of the blue, I got an interview request three days ago, and today I received an offer from Brigit in NYC. The catch? The position is hybrid, meaning I would have to go into the office. This has triggered a lot of anxiety for me because I’m not ready for that kind of transition, especially since I haven’t lost the baby weight and the thought of being back in an office is overwhelming. I haven’t accepted the offer yet. The pay is decent, but I really don’t want to work in an office environment. I’m torn about whether I should turn it down, especially with the job market being what it is. Am I crazy for considering this? What would you do?

I'm currently facing the possibility of losing my job in Customer Success, where I've spent about 2 years working as both an Associate CSM and a CSM in a B2B SaaS environment. My experience includes customer engagement, renewals, health checks, enablement campaigns, CRM reporting using Salesforce, and managing the customer lifecycle. I'm feeling quite overwhelmed about what to do next. I've already updated my resume and started applying for new positions, but I'm reaching out for advice from anyone who has been in a similar situation. What strategies helped you secure your next Customer Success role? Are there specific companies in India that are currently hiring CSMs? Also, are there any skills or certifications you think I should focus on? Any interview tips for Customer Success roles would be greatly appreciated as well. Thank you for your support!

I currently work as a bookkeeper/admin for a small local government in Colorado. I've been feeling increasingly uncomfortable with some unethical practices happening in the office. Despite my efforts to notify leadership about these issues, they continue to ignore my concerns. For instance, they've allowed an employee to take home a government vehicle for commuting, claiming he would respond to public service calls. However, he hasn't responded to any calls in six months, and there's no formal agreement in place for him to do so. As I'm responsible for payroll and compliance, I'm worried that this could come back to haunt me, especially since I've documented my attempts to raise these concerns. I'm considering resigning due to these ethical violations, but I'm uncertain if I would qualify for unemployment benefits if I do. I know there are whistleblower protections, but I'm not sure if my situation qualifies. I could really use some advice on whether resigning for these reasons would affect my eligibility for unemployment.

I got laid off today from my entry-level sales position at a tech company. I was let go along with another new hire because we simply didn't have enough experience to meet the sales targets set for us. It's frustrating because we weren't given adequate training or time to improve our skills. We were only informed about the sales numbers we needed to hit a couple of weeks ago, and while we did our best to reach those goals, it turns out we needed to double or even triple our efforts to keep our jobs. It's hard not to feel angry and distraught about the situation, especially when we were both excited to start our careers in this industry.

It's been nearly a month since I was laid off from my role at a startup, and the emotional weight of it is finally hitting me. Initially, I jumped into action—updating my resume, applying for jobs, and reaching out to my network, convinced that I'd land a new position quickly. But now, I feel like I've hit a wall. My household has had to drastically change how we manage our finances. Grocery shopping is different, our meals are simpler, and the sight of an almost empty fridge is a constant reminder of how life has shifted. The rejection emails have become a routine; I've faced rejections from jobs I'm overqualified for and even part-time positions. I've gone through recruiter screens and multiple interviews, only to be left hanging without feedback. It feels less like a job search and more like a series of humiliations. What stings the most is that my layoff had nothing to do with my performance. I was recruited to this startup, left a stable job, and just four months later, a massive layoff occurred. My life changed due to a business decision that I had no control over. I've found myself crying more in the past few days than I did when I was initially laid off. My confidence is eroding with every rejection, and each interview that leads nowhere makes me question my worth, despite knowing how tough the job market is right now. I've realized how much of my identity was tied to my career. Applying for jobs below my experience level and facing continuous rejection has been a humbling experience. People keep telling me, "It'll get better," and while I appreciate their intentions, those words often feel empty unless you've been through something similar. This experience has also revealed a lot about my relationships. Some people I expected to check in have been silent, while others I didn't anticipate have been supportive. Having rebuilt my life after losing everything during COVID, this layoff has reopened old fears. I've learned that no matter how hard you work, you can still be disposable to a company, a hard truth to accept after years of tying my identity to my job. Financially, I've become more cautious and reflective about spending. Watching friends who are more secure spend money freely can be tough, not out of bitterness, but because I now understand how quickly stability can vanish. I know this feeling won't last forever, and I have faith that I'll find work again. I just need to remind myself that right now, I feel helpless and angry, but that doesn't define who I am. If anyone else is experiencing this, I’d love to hear your story. I just want to know I'm not alone in feeling this way.

I recently received a severance package after being laid off from my job where I worked for over 4 years. The package is about half a year's salary, which I’m trying to assess if it's a good deal. Throughout my time there, I didn’t receive any salary increases and even turned down a higher-paying job opportunity in the past. Now, I’m struggling to find a new job and feel like my career has taken a step back because of this role. Based on the feedback I’ve gotten from others, it seems like my severance package is favorable compared to what some have received, but I'm still uncertain if I should negotiate for more or just accept it and move on.

I recently experienced a frustrating situation while interviewing for a position. The company I was in contact with rescheduled my interview after I had already confirmed the date. When I spoke to their representative, I found out that the person who was supposed to interview me was not available. They assured me that rescheduling wouldn't be a problem and asked me to follow up with a text. However, the response I received left me feeling uncertain about the whole process. I was already feeling 50/50 about the position, and this just confirmed my gut feeling that it might not be the right fit. It’s disheartening to see such unprofessionalism in the job market, especially when I’ve been putting in the effort to find a good opportunity. I hope to find a role that aligns better with my expectations soon.

I recently faced a tough situation after being let go from my job of over 8 years. I had relocated from New York to Pennsylvania for about a year and a half, and then moved back to New York earlier this year. The company, based in Ohio, had even covered my relocation expenses. However, despite my long tenure and the challenges I faced during the transition, I was unexpectedly terminated at the end of last month. Now, I'm trying to navigate the unemployment process. I filed for unemployment with New York State, but my claim was denied because I apparently hadn't worked enough quarters in New York. All my paystubs and W2s reflect the Ohio address, which complicates things further. Currently, I'm on hold with the New York State Unemployment office, and I've been waiting for 43 minutes and counting. In the meantime, I submitted a request for old paystubs since I can no longer access them after my termination. I'm using my old W2s to help with the reconciliation form, but I'm unsure how to account for two bonus checks I received from Pennsylvania after moving back to New York. I'm seeking advice on whether to fill out the reconciliation form and note the state or if I need to file with Pennsylvania due to the bonuses. Any feedback would be greatly appreciated as I try to sort this out.

I recently faced a tough situation with my job in California. My employer reduced my hours drastically from full-time to just 37 hours every two weeks, which has made it impossible for me to cover my bills. After a month of this, I realized I need to relocate back to my family, who live 175 miles away, where there are better job opportunities. However, I’m concerned about how this move will affect my unemployment benefits. I know I need to inform the EDD about my relocation, but I’m worried that since I would be effectively quitting my job, they might disqualify me from receiving benefits. I’ve heard from others that moving for a job can lead to losing benefits, and I’m feeling anxious about the whole situation.

I recently graduated with a bachelor's degree in Criminology and Criminal Justice, but due to a brain tumor that affected me for the past seven years, I have no job experience. I've been applying for various positions like restaurant manager, assistant manager, server, car salesman, and roles at Walmart, but I've faced multiple rejections and have been ghosted by employers. I'm in urgent need of a job, preferably one that offers health insurance, as my medication costs around $2,000 a month. I haven't disclosed my disability in applications, even though I know discrimination is illegal, because I fear it might affect my chances. I've been advised that my resume looks good, but the lack of work experience is a significant barrier. I do have some volunteer experience, but it seems to be overlooked. I plan to stay in this job for a year or two while I prepare for law school. I often get asked why I'm not pursuing a job related to my degree, and I struggle to provide a convincing answer. I'm considering whether to remove my degree from my resume for some of these positions. Any advice on job options or how to address the degree question would be greatly appreciated!

I recently applied for an internal job at my current company and I'm feeling a bit anxious about the timeline for interviews. The job posting closes on the first day of a trip I have planned, and I'm unsure if I should bring my work laptop along in case I need to interview while I'm away. I'm considering reaching out to the hiring manager to ask about the interview timeline and format, but I'm worried about how it might come across. I don't want to seem presumptuous by asking if I might be shortlisted, nor do I want to sound unavailable by mentioning my trip. I'm trying to find a way to phrase my questions that feels casual and logistical, rather than pushy. Any advice on how to approach this would be appreciated!

I'm currently 15 years old and trying to land my first job. Recently, I applied at Culver's and even went through the interview process. However, since then, I haven't heard back from them. During the interview, I faced some odd questions that seemed irrelevant, but I answered them as best as I could. The interviewer mentioned they would reach out if they had any updates, but it's been radio silence since then. I have some cooking skills, like making breadsticks, pizza, and burgers, and I also completed an internship at a Marathon gas station before applying. I'm feeling a bit discouraged and unsure of what to do next in my job search.

I recently made the tough decision to quit my marketing job. I returned to work six months postpartum, and managing both my job and my responsibilities at home proved to be incredibly challenging. I found myself working throughout the day to make up for lost hours while caring for my baby, and despite working remotely, the stress became overwhelming. The work environment was also toxic, which only added to my anxiety. I really wanted to make it work, but it just wasn't aligning with my needs anymore. Today, I feel like a loser for quitting, but I know deep down it was the right choice for my mental health. I hope to find a role in the future that truly resonates with me.