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I'm facing another job ending next month. It's been a tough journey since I was laid off in 2024, having switched jobs three times since then. Initially, I was lucky to be converted to a full-time role with a decent severance package, but I had to move back in with my family, which was really challenging. I spent four months unemployed before taking a minimum wage IT support job out of desperation. A month later, I found a better-paying position, but it had no benefits, and I quickly burned out from the commute. After realizing how expensive healthcare would be once my COBRA subsidies expired, I was rehired by my former employer for a couple of months, which extended to a year, but now that’s coming to an end. In my current role, I’ve mostly had nothing to do, which has made me feel unproductive and has affected my confidence in job interviews. While I’ve had some interviews go well, others haven’t. I’ve noticed that despite my experience in computer lab support and data center work, IT help desk managers often see me as unqualified because I lack extensive employee IT support experience. The IT field is so broad, and it’s tough to keep up with everything I get quizzed on. Managers can be nitpicky about not knowing specific software. For instance, during a Mac upgrade project, the company used Soti MobiControl instead of Jamf, which means that experience is essentially worthless for jobs that require Jamf. It feels frustrating because I can’t control the type of experience I gain. Plus, since I'm a contractor, I won't receive any severance this time. I'm worried that things won't work out for me again.

I recently went through a layoff and it got me thinking about the challenges of job searching, particularly the isolation that comes with it. I used to thrive in a structured environment with colleagues and meetings, but now I find myself sitting alone at home, refreshing LinkedIn and feeling disconnected. So, I had this idea: what if there was a physical space dedicated to job seekers? A room with about 10 desks where people could come in, sit down, and work on their job search as if it were a regular job. No formal programs or career coaches, just a community of people in the same situation sharing leads, tips, and experiences. I envision it being affordable, maybe around $10 a day, just enough to encourage commitment. There could also be a small lending library with books on careers, mindset, and finance. I’m curious if others would find this concept appealing. Is the isolation I feel a common experience? Would this kind of space be beneficial, or does it sound good in theory but not practical? I genuinely want to know if this is worth pursuing.

I recently reflected on my experiences with layoffs, having been laid off twice in my career. Each time, the reasons seemed to vary, with some citing company budget cuts or a poor fit with the company culture. After those experiences, I decided to pivot my career towards nursing, aligning it more closely with my Bachelor's degree. Currently, I am a Nursing student and I’m concerned about the possibility of facing a third career change due to layoffs again. From my research and what I've heard, nursing is considered a stable career, although I know the field can be competitive and challenging to enter. I’ve noticed discussions about the nursing job market, particularly in the Dallas/Fort Worth area, where there have been periods of shortages and even attractive signing bonuses in the past. However, I’m aware that job markets can fluctuate, and I wonder if nursing will eventually face saturation like other professions. I’m eager to hear thoughts from others on the current state of nursing jobs and whether layoffs are a concern in this field.

I was recently laid off from my role as a technical writer at a smaller branch of a larger company. The layoff happened unexpectedly on Wednesday, and it hit me hard, especially since I had almost three years of experience and this was my first real job after college. The branch has been struggling for the past year, and many of us anticipated this outcome, but the suddenness of it all was jarring. We received last-minute meetings scheduled on our calendars, and then it was announced. I have three weeks left until my final day on June 19th, and I'm feeling a bit lost about what to do next. I know I should start applying for new jobs, but I'm also considering starting an LLC for freelancing, particularly in my local area. I'm torn between focusing on job applications and pursuing freelancing at the same time. I'm reaching out for advice on how to best utilize these last few weeks to set myself up for success. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

I was recently laid off from my job in California while on F1-STEM OPT. My employer is keeping me on payroll for a 60-day non-working notice period to comply with California’s WARN law, which means my official termination date is set for July. I'm trying to figure out if this non-working notice period counts as employment for my STEM OPT requirements, since I'm not actually engaged in any practical training during this time. Additionally, I'm uncertain about when I should start reporting unemployment to my Designated School Official (DSO); should it be from May when I was laid off, or July when my termination becomes official? If anyone has insights or experiences regarding this situation, especially from their DSO or USCIS, I would greatly appreciate your help!

I just got laid off from my role at a tech company where I had been working for over a year. After months of uncertainty, they finally announced that about 30% of the workforce would be cut due to an AI transformation initiative. The CEO has been very vocal about the need to shift towards AI, claiming it’s more cost-effective than human labor. This shift feels like a complete betrayal of the company culture they promoted when I was hired, which emphasized taking time to do things right and valuing employees. Instead of a thoughtful approach to layoffs, the process was abrupt and impersonal. I was locked out of my Teams and email without any prior notice, and the severance offered was just the remainder of the pay period we were already owed. It felt like a slap in the face, especially after a union petitioned for better severance and got ignored. I had been part of a small team that handled a significant portion of our department's workload, and now it’s down to just one person. I feel for my colleague who’s left behind. I’m also worried about my future, especially since I just bought a house six months ago. The job market looks tough, but I’m determined to find something new. Any positive vibes would be appreciated as I navigate this challenging time.

I recently experienced layoffs at Cigna, where around 2,000 employees were let go in Q1. This is quite unusual for the company, which has historically avoided such drastic measures. The atmosphere at work has become incredibly intense, and I find myself filled with anxiety every day, constantly worrying about the possibility of being terminated or facing another round of layoffs. This stress has taken a toll on my health; I've lost 18 pounds since the beginning of the year and have lost interest in activities outside of work. I'm struggling to cope and am looking for advice on how to gauge if more layoffs are on the horizon.

I was laid off at 64, but I didn't let that define my next steps. Instead of retiring, I focused on rebuilding my career and getting back on track. I want to share some strategies that worked for me during this challenging time. 1. **Identify Skill Gaps**: I started by cross-referencing my skills with job descriptions for roles I was interested in. I pulled five job postings and highlighted the skills I lacked. This list became my roadmap for enhancing my skills. 2. **Quality Over Quantity in Applications**: I realized that mass applying wasn’t effective. For every hour I spent sending out applications, I dedicated an hour to building my skills and learning something new. This approach proved to be much more beneficial. 3. **Networking**: I made it a priority to build my network on LinkedIn. Establishing relationships with professionals in my field opened up new opportunities that I wouldn’t have found otherwise. 4. **Explore Alternative Roles**: When I wasn’t getting traction in my target role, I researched adjacent roles or positions that were slightly below my target. This broadened my options and led to new possibilities. 5. **Utilize Free AI Tools**: I leveraged free AI tools to assist in my job search and skill development. There are many resources available that can help streamline the process. I appreciate any feedback or additional tips from others who have successfully navigated similar challenges.

I've been feeling really burned out in my current role as an IT Coordinator at a high school, where I've been the sole tech managing all things IT for the past 1.5 years. Before that, I spent about 3.5 years in Tier 2 support and 1 year in tech support. Overall, I have a BS in IT and around 5-6 years of experience in the field. Unfortunately, the work environment has been quite toxic, and I've been trying to leave for a year now. I've made numerous resume revisions, attended networking events, and worked on my interviewing skills, but nothing seems to be working. I currently make $55k, but I'm open to switching fields if I can find something that pays similarly or better. I'm considering alternatives, especially since I miss working with my hands, though I have health issues that limit me from doing hard labor. I'm looking for suggestions on career pivots that could benefit from my experience and are in demand. One suggestion I received was to explore IT staffing or recruiting, which seems like a solid lateral move. I'm just feeling stuck and uncertain about my next steps.

I recently experienced some challenges in my job search as a senior engineer in India after taking a four-month personal break. During this time, I kept myself engaged by working on advisory projects and exploring AI, rather than jumping straight into a full-time position. However, I've noticed a troubling trend in the hiring process. After several rounds of positive discussions with three different companies—a large tech operating system company, a bootstrapped startup, and a Series B company—the processes went completely silent. In a couple of instances, the only change I made was requesting about 15 days for relocation before starting, even though it was within the same state or inter-state. This seemed to trigger a shift in their perception of my candidacy, leading to ghosting without any rejection or feedback. It feels like the market is heavily favoring candidates who can join immediately, those who are currently employed, and who present zero operational friction. The transparency in hiring post-COVID seems to have diminished significantly, and I'm curious if others are facing similar challenges regarding short breaks or relocation timelines.

I recently took a job as a pizza delivery driver, just a temporary gig for the summer while I looked for something better. The manager was upfront about the limited hours and responsibilities, which I accepted because finding work has been tough. However, just two days in, he informed me that he would be going on a two-week vacation and expected me to manage the place in his absence. This was never part of the deal, and I feel completely blindsided. I'm now responsible for running the operation, working long hours with no written schedule, and under immense pressure to perform perfectly. I feel guilty about wanting to quit, but this isn't what I signed up for. I'm torn between my obligation to help him out and my frustration with how I've been treated. Should I just walk away?

I recently resigned from my job due to a toxic and controlling manager, which left me mentally exhausted. Since my resignation, I've received two job offers, but both were revoked after background checks. I suspect my ex-boss is sabotaging my chances because he couldn't accept my decision to leave. I believe he may be providing negative feedback regarding my sudden resignation, attendance issues, and alleged performance problems. However, the truth is that I was overworked and faced harassment that forced me to resign immediately. Now, I'm seeking legal and career advice on whether it's legal in India for an ex-boss to damage my future employment opportunities. I'm also curious about when this behavior crosses into defamation or professional harassment. If I gather evidence, can I send a legal notice? Additionally, I'm looking for ways to protect myself during background checks moving forward. I’ve started documenting offer letters, rejection timelines, and conversations related to this issue. If anyone has dealt with a vindictive former employer or has insights from HR professionals or lawyers, I would greatly appreciate your advice.

I recently experienced some challenges in my job search as a senior professional in India. After taking a personal break of about four months, I kept myself engaged with advisory work and exploring AI projects instead of jumping straight into a full-time role. However, I've noticed a concerning trend in the hiring process after having multiple positive discussions with companies. In three different cases—one with a large tech operating system company, another with a bootstrapped startup, and the last with a Series B funded firm—the processes went completely silent after we reached later-stage discussions. The only significant change in these instances was my request for about 15 days of relocation time before starting, even though it was within the same state or interstate. What’s frustrating is that I received no rejection or feedback; I was just ghosted. It seems like the current job market heavily favors candidates who can join immediately, those who are already employed, and those who present zero operational friction. Post-COVID, the hiring landscape feels much less transparent than it used to be, and I'm curious if others are experiencing similar issues with short breaks or relocation timelines.

I can see the writing on the wall at my current job. I work as the admin for a complex CRM platform at a company of about 160 people, and we're in the process of being acquired by a larger competitor. Initially, I thought this could be a great opportunity, as my knowledge of our systems could be valuable during the transition. However, I recently learned that they plan to discontinue our CRM licensing and transfer its functionality to their own systems, likely using AI to facilitate the process. This means I could soon be the admin of a system that no longer exists, and with no clear communication about my future or that of my team, I feel like I might be let go without any severance. I've been with the company for 8 years, and while I hope some of the sale proceeds will go toward severance for those of us not continuing, I’m not optimistic. I’m trying to figure out if there’s any way to create leverage for negotiating severance, but I feel like I have none. I’m a straight white male under 40 with no disabilities or protected status, and I’m in an at-will state, so they could let me go without notice. I’ve considered that they might ask me to sign a non-compete or non-disparagement agreement, but I don’t have the resources to start a competing business. I’m reaching out for advice on how to establish some leverage for severance or if there’s something I might be overlooking in my situation.

After being laid off from my job, I've been focusing on updating my resume and establishing a healthier routine while strategizing my job search. I want to make the most of this time off by exploring some adventures that I wouldn't typically have the chance to do while working. I'm considering options like working remotely from a beautiful location with my dog or going camping during the week. I'm looking for suggestions on fun experiences or adventures to pursue during this period.

I was recently laid off from my role at a fintech company, marking my third unexpected mass layoff in less than a year. The timing couldn't be worse, as my family and I just closed on a house, committing to a $3.5k monthly mortgage. Now, I'm left feeling lost and anxious about where my next paycheck will come from. I didn't even receive a performance review before the layoff, and the entire team was let go, which has left me feeling quite uncertain about my career path. I'm reaching out for advice or solidarity from anyone who's been through a similar situation. I know the job market is tough right now, and I'm trying to figure out my next steps amidst this chaos.

I recently accepted a new position at a company that promised me close to full-time hours, which made me excited to leave my previous full-time job. However, once I started, I discovered that they had only scheduled me for a mere 4 hours twice a week, claiming that was all part-timers received. Feeling misled, I reached out to my old job, and they welcomed me back immediately. Now, I’m juggling both jobs for a couple of weeks while I plan to put in my two weeks' notice at the new job. It feels awkward since the team at the new place is genuinely nice, but I can’t ignore the fact that they weren’t honest about the hours. I hope going back to my old job works out well and that I won’t face any issues after returning.

It's been a year since I graduated with a finance degree, and honestly, I still feel lost. I never wanted to pursue a career in finance, but I went to college because it was expected of me. Throughout those four years, I was miserable, constantly anxious about what I was supposed to do after graduation. I returned to my job at the gym after graduation, knowing it wasn’t my long-term plan, but it was a familiar space while I tried to figure things out. I did get a chance to work at a marketing agency, which was an eye-opening experience. I learned about sales, marketing, and business operations, but unfortunately, that opportunity ended due to a falling out with the owner. I thought I had another business opportunity lined up, but that didn’t pan out either. Now, I feel like I’m right back where I started. On top of all that, I’ve been dealing with health issues that have drained my energy and focus. I’ve spent months going to doctors and trying to figure out what’s wrong, which has made it hard to concentrate on my future. What complicates things further is that I don’t even want a traditional job. My parents push me toward that path, believing it’s the responsible thing to do, but I’ve never felt motivated by the idea of climbing a corporate ladder. I enjoy the freedom of structuring my own day, training when I want, and not being tied to a desk. Since graduating, I’ve been trying to learn and improve myself, focusing on fitness, health, and self-improvement. But I’m struggling to find a way to turn those interests into a viable career path. I don’t want to be an influencer or a content creator, and I’m not sure if I want to go back to a desk job in marketing. I know I need to find a way to generate income before my savings run out, but I’m terrified of ending up in a job I don’t want. I feel stuck and overwhelmed, with about six months of savings left and no clear direction. I’m looking for advice from others who have felt lost and found a meaningful path. How did you figure out what was worth pursuing? What helped you move forward?

I had an interesting experience recently with a recruiter from a company I wasn't initially considering. He reached out to me on LinkedIn, insisting that my profile was a strong match for an urgent role they were trying to fill. Despite telling him I was already engaged in other job processes and didn't have much bandwidth, he continued to follow up, which made me feel like I should apply. So, I went ahead and submitted my application. The first interview took place about five weeks ago, and I felt it went reasonably well. The hiring manager seemed interested and mentioned they would get back to me within a week. After a week passed, I reached out to the recruiter for an update. He informed me that they were still reviewing candidates. I waited another two weeks and followed up again, but this time he read my message and didn't respond. I sent one last message last week, simply asking for a yes or no, but again, I received no reply. During this waiting period, I turned down a screening call from another company because I thought this opportunity was moving forward. Now, I can only assume that the other company has likely filled the role by now. I'm left wondering what went wrong. Did I bomb the interview? Did they pull the role? Or is the recruiter just unprofessional? It's frustrating to think I spent three weeks believing this was an urgent process, only to be ghosted. I really dislike this job search process.

I recently signed on to a new contract job and I'm excited about the company I'll be working for, as they have been really great so far. However, I've been having a frustrating experience with the recruitment agency that helped me land the position. Since I accepted the job, their communication has been terrible during the onboarding process. They often don't answer my phone calls, are slow to respond to emails, and at times, I feel completely ghosted. I'm wondering if this is a common issue others have faced and if anyone has tips on how to handle it. I'm based in Canada.